Tim & Pauline Wheeler
The W Podcast
Our goal is to provide you with perspective to help you build a healthy & godly relationship. New episode of "The W Podcast" drops every Tuesday! We are Tim & Pauline Wheeler. Before we met we were both in ungodly relationships that left us empty and hurt. This led us on individual journeys to learn God's way of dating. When we met we decided to have a relationship that honored God but was still fun and exciting! We eventually started helping other couples through small groups to learn to date God's way. We have been married since 2018 and have a beautiful son.
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Episodes
7 Things Godly People REFUSE to Do While Dating 19.08.2025 20:58
There are some things that look spiritual on the surface—but they’re actually sabotaging your dating life. 😬 In this episode, we’re sharing 7 things godly people do NOT do in dating —and how you can avoid falling into these same traps. This is for anyone who loves Jesus, wants a godly relationship, but feels confused, stuck, or tired of doing it the world’s way.
What No One Tells Christian Singles Who Are Still Waiting (you’re not crazy) 12.08.2025 32:07
Dating as a Christian can be confusing, exhausting, and honestly—lonely. You’re doing it God’s way, trying to stay pure, and trusting His timing… but deep down, you’ve got real fears, unspoken prayers, and questions that won’t go away. In this episode, we’re getting real about the silent battles and loud fears so many Christian singles face—but rarely say out loud. And we’ll share what we believe...
The 6 People You NEED Before Saying ‘YES’ to a Relationship or ‘I DO’ 05.08.2025 26:41
We all need people to help us.
How to Break Up With Someone the Right Way (Without Ghosting or Using ‘God Told Me’) 29.07.2025 26:54
You know the relationship isn’t right. You’ve prayed, processed, maybe even postponed the conversation…But now it’s time to say it out loud—and you want to do it the right way. This episode will walk you step-by-step through how to break up at every stage of Christian dating—with clarity, maturity, and integrity. Whether you’ve only been texting or you’re weeks away from the wedding, this is your...
Don’t Marry Them Until You’ve Been Through These 6 Dating Stages 22.07.2025 28:10
Most Christian couples don’t fall apart because they don’t love God. They fall apart because they didn’t have a process. In this episode, we’re walking you through the 6 core stages of dating that almost every godly relationship passes through—from the first spark to the final stretch before marriage—and how to move through each one with clarity, wisdom, and purpose. Whether you're just catching f...
The Difference Between Someone You Love And Someone You Should Marry 15.07.2025 20:22
Just because you love someone doesn’t mean you’re supposed to marry them. In this episode, we break down the real difference between romantic feelings and godly love—and why strong chemistry isn’t a good enough reason to say “yes” to forever. Whether you’re currently dating, deeply in love, or trying to discern if this is your person, this conversation will help you stop settling, get clarity, and...
Every Item You NEED From Talking Stage to Engagement - To Know They’re Marriage Material 08.07.2025 16:29
Dating as a Christian? Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married—these are the things you ACTUALLY need to honor God in every stage of your relationship.✅ We’re breaking down:- What to grab during the talking stage- Must-haves for dating with purpose- Essentials for the serious/engaged season- Game-changers for married couples👀 And the best part? 👉 Most of these are on sale for Amazon...
Does He Really Love You Or Does He Just Like Your Presence? 01.07.2025 27:20
You’re always there for him. He says all the right things. But something still feels... off. In this episode, we’re helping you discern whether the person you’re dating truly loves you —or if they just like having access to you. We break down signs of convenient relationships , what real biblical love actually looks like , and how to avoid wasting time with someone who only loves your presence—not...
EP 192: You’re Going To Transform Your Dating Life As A Christian, Here’s How 24.06.2025 36:58
You know what wedding day love looks like…But what about the love you need while you're dating? In this episode, we walk through 1 Corinthians 13—not just as poetry—but as a practical blueprint for how godly love should look and feel before marriage. If you're tired of guessing whether your relationship is biblical, healthy, or just emotionally chaotic—this is your guide to stop settling and start...
EP 191: Lust or Love? You Can Pray Together & Still Be Dating 4 The Wrong Reasons - Keys 2 Real Love 20.05.2025 57:54
You’re attracted to each other… but can you trust them with your soul? In this episode of our Real Love series, we’re breaking down the difference between lust, love, and lies in Christian dating. Whether you’re confused about your feelings or wondering if the relationship is really from God, we’re giving you biblical wisdom and honest signs to help you discern what’s real. We’ve been in relations...
EP 190: 5 Questions To Ask Your Man If He Hasn’t Proposed Yet 13.05.2025 55:54
How long is too long to wait for a proposal? In today’s episode, we’re answering a powerful question from a listener who’s been dating her boyfriend for 4 years—but still no ring. We’re diving into: - Why some men delay commitment (and what’s really behind it) - How to spot signs of deflection and avoidance - 5 soft, but direct questions to ask your man - What the Bible says about hope deferred An...
EP 189: You’re Not A Bad Christian For Considering Living Together— But Here’s What You Need To Know 06.05.2025 57:32
In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into a question a lot of Christian dating couples are asking in 2025: “Is living together before marriage a sin?” If you and your boyfriend or girlfriend are thinking about moving in together to save money or get closer, this episode is for you. We’re not here to shame — we’re here to bring wisdom, truth, and real talk about what it means to honor God in a wor...
EP 188: If You’re Losing At Love But Committed To Do It God’s Way, You’re Actually Winning 30.04.2025 48:02
Are you a Christian who’s tired of dating the right way and still ending up single? 😩 In this episode, we’re keeping it 100 about what it really feels like to pursue God’s will in dating when everyone else seems to be getting their happy ending faster. We get into why obeying God in your love life often feels like you’re losing, how to stay faithful without losing hope, and why your singleness is...
EP 187: Is The Relationship From God Or Are You Only Being Led By Your Feelings 22.04.2025 50:28
|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM: We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/ @wearejustdating || M U S I C Music by Musician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B E https://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J... New Videos Every Tuesday! Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subsc... || F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | / wearejustdating TikTok| / weareju...
EP 186: How You Can Honor God By Dating The Right Type Of Person 15.04.2025 28:16
We all think about being equally yoked when it comes to faith but what about “smaller” things like how much you serve, or if they go to church, or who their favorite online pastor is. All of those things add up to make a big impact in marriage so it is best to choose wisely in the dating stage | LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM: We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/ wearej...
EP 185: How Much Money Should A Man Spend On An Engagement Ring, Marry Them In Debt? & More! 08.04.2025 25:56
Uncertain financial times can cause fear in anyone’s heart but as Christian’s we have to be mindful not to base our decision on our fears but God’s love and truth. We know there were people who started this year with plans to ask someone on a date, or propose to their girlfriend, or maybe you are already engaged and now you are thinking about pushing back the date of your wedding Before you decide...
EP 184: Don’t date someone “saved”: date someone like this instead… 01.04.2025 56:53
|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM: We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/wearejustdating || M U S I C Music by Musician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B E https://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J... New Videos Every Tuesday! Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subsc... || F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustda...
EP 183: Stop Going On Vacations Do This Instead As A Dating Christian Couple 25.03.2025 28:33
In this video, we explore the concept of vacationing with your significant other while honoring Jesus. From planning the perfect getaway to maintaining boundaries in your relationship, we discuss the key aspects of Christian dating and how to make your vacation experience meaningful and God-centered. Whether you're heading on a trip with your boyfriend or girlfriend, we’ll show you how to avoid th...
EP 182: Six Emotional MOODS You Need To See Someone In Before You MARRY Them! 18.03.2025 37:25
Dating as a Christian can feel overwhelming at by Ned because you want to make a good choice that honors God. We want to help you simplify what you are looking for and that is why we are giving you 6 MOODS you need to see someone in to feel good about marrying them. || LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM: We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/ wearejustdating || M U S I C Musi...
EP 181: Does God Choose Your Spouse? 11.03.2025 27:35
How much say do you have in who you marry? Is God going to tell you who to marry or do you have any choice in it? It is a complicated question but regardless of where you land on an answer we want you to remember that throughout the whole dating process you should be praying and asking the Lord to lead you to His will. || LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM: We post updates in real time of dating tips and...
EP 180: Dating Without Drama | 10 Signs You're Doing Well As A Dating Christian 04.03.2025 34:36
Dating can be such a fun time but it can also be filled with drama if we don’t have healthy behaviors. We know that success in dating is not defined only as physical purity. There are so many other things that make a dating relationship successful and we hope this video encourages you that you and your partner are doing better than you think you are! || LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM: We post updates...
EP 179: Waiting Makes You Better | 10 Signs You're Doing Well As A Single Christian 25.02.2025 21:54
Being single can be amazing! But sometimes the older we get the more we can feel like we are doing something wrong. Being single can even make some people feel “less than”. We know that success is not defined by a persons marital status but truly comes from the Lord and pursuing Him. So we hope this video encourages you that you are doing better than you think you are! || LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRA...
EP 178: Avoid Emotional Divorces | Guard Your Heart While Dating & Guard Your Hope While Single 18.02.2025 37:33
What does it mean to truly guard your heart in dating? We can get so focused on protecting our purity that we drop our guards to low in every other area, spiritually, & emotionally. We get practical in this video to show you some keys to avoid giving to much of yourself away to people who have not earned that right yet. We also share some encouragement to our single friends who aren’t dating to he...
EP 177: Seven Habits To Start Your Marriage Strong! 11.02.2025 39:18
In this video, we explore the habits and practical tips you need to cultivate a healthy marriage that honors God and keeps the connection strong. There’s no need to fear being a newlywed! The first year of marriage can be an amazing time if you follow these tips! JOIN thousands of women for the Called To Women Masterclass. FREE ONLINE EVENT Monday 2/17/25. Get Tickets At The Link Below! https://ca...
EP 176: Seven Habits To Keep Your Dating Relationship Holy & Healthy 04.02.2025 46:10
Are you a Christian single between looking for relationship advice on how to build a strong, intentional, and Christ-centered bond with your boyfriend or girlfriend? In this video, we dive deep into the habits and practical tips you need to cultivate a healthy relationship that honors God and keeps the connection strong, even if you're navigating long-distance or meeting each other's families for...
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