The Vertical Relationship Show: Relationship Goals, Healing Trauma, Biblical Counseling, Dating Advice & Christian Marriage

Do you tend to point your finger at others? Play the blame game? Truth... we must take responsibility for our own happiness. Yikes! The choices we make have consequences, good or bad, but they are indeed our own. Many times, we need to embrace the harsh reality that we may have wounds (trauma) buried deep in our soul. If you're not willing to look "inwardly" this can hinder your healing with Jesus...

Are you putting up healthy boundaries in your relationships? Avoiding worldly distractions takes effort on your part to become whole and set free. Many times, it’s necessary to step back from the chaos of the world and spend time with Jesus. Without it, you inhibit healing with Jesus. Today more than ever, we have got to get our priorities in order. Can you step away from the clamor of the world a...

Why should you “forgive” when someone double-crossed you, cheated on you, left you, abused you, or turned their back on you? When we grieve a spirit of unforgiveness, we lose the ability to hear God’s voice, think clearly, and hold onto feelings that don't serve us. Worst off, unresolved emotions turn into ugly strongholds when not healed appropriately. Fact is, it keeps us in bondage of the devil...

Chosen ones, you must be ready to go head-to-head against the enemy's hierarchy attacks. Fight for cursed nations and learn how to equip the saints with proper alignment. Why, you ask? Water and territorial spirits are after God's chosen ones! Evil is affecting our land, society, children, and families.  Blind eyes and deaf ears must be open to receive prophetic words from the Lord. The enemy is o...

Did you know that Florida has the highest drowning rate in our nation for children under four? It doesn’t surprise me that "The Sunshine State" attracts young spring breakers to beautiful beaches and families to refreshing pools... BUT the enemy has a sneaky agenda!  Many talk about evil spirits affecting our land, but not water... Well, God revealed a strategic water spirit to me that is affectin...

Have you been affecting by a territorial spirit? The Lord revealed three states in my dreams that carry a specific hierarchy of sexual immorality, lust, prevention, greed, pride, and witchcraft. These evil agents attempt to hinder God’s Word, bring a veil over your eyes, and block your ears from hearing God's truth.  Why? So, you stay stuck in bondage, live in oppression, and continue being influe...

Our identity does not lie upon people, circumstances, money, or a job status. If this defines who you are… you will continue to feel lost, unworthy, undervalued, and unloved. Many have a natural tendency to search for their value in the unfulfilling, external things. To be able to understand your identity as a follower of Christ, you need to understand how God sees you. Stay closely knitted with o...

Christianity + New Age is an oxymoron, my friends. The devil has made its way into the medical, fitness, and health fields! Did you know holistic, natural, and alternative approaches are expressed from God, but not from our Creator? Society makes these industries appear godly, but it’s demonic at its root! Taking a false healing service and throwing the word Christian in front of it... does you no...

True prophets will give it to you real! So, why are false prophets on the rise? Truth, many people only want to listen to what their "itching ears" want to hear rather than need to hear. This is exactly what false prophets are doing to you! Many insist on hearing positive words that bend down to the devil, taking innocent souls away from the Lord. You cannot walk with God and run with devil! It's...

Empty-Nest Syndrome is a bittersweet season! Big changes are on the horizon. Your kiddo are flying the coop. Your erratic emotions are all over the place. Emotional distress can affect both parents who experience feelings of grief, loss, and fear when our children leave home. This can feel like a slow death and quite devastating to a grieving parent. You're not alone, my friends. Find some positiv...

Are you giving evil tormenters (demons) open doorways for harassment? What happens when we come into agreement with the evil one? Without realizing it... You may be given access through open doors such as: watching porn, adultery, partaking in the occult, holding onto unforgiveness, and many other ungodly acts. It’s up to you to slam that doorway closed! Don’t be scared, my friends. It’s your resp...

Men and women are a tri part being; body, soul, and spirit. When we receive Christ, we get a new spirit, but not a new body or soul. Unfortunately, our wounded soul still needs work! God does not just drop a new mindset on our lap. He does not snap His fingers and WALA… you naturally inherit a toned or chiseled physique. Although, we do need to take care of our temple, God is not our personal geni...

WARNING! There are pseudo leaders and false prophets among us and on the rise... Crawling around in our churches, online and offline, and social media outlets only for your money and their precious idols. You think you’re safe but in reality, are you? These are strong prophetic words from the mouth of God, not on my own accord. "You rulers make decisions based on bribes; you priests teach God’s la...

ChatGPT has taken over the world! In essence, the devil is slipping into our devices which blocks people from relying on the Holy Spirt for direction and guidance. Yet, still others don’t care, trying to find a quick fix, or don't seem to notice. This processing tool is using artificial intelligence (AI) as a chatbot to generate quick code, craft stories, write essays, produce captivating poems, s...

Desire the outcome rather than the pain! At some point, you will have to say "enough" and want to do something different in your life. Spinning the infamous hamster wheel is called insanity and does nothing for your healing progression. Find out: 7 Reasons Christians give excuses for “NOT HEALING” with God. God wants more for you, your health, and your relationships. Do you? “He heals the brokenhe...

Our society is obsessed with labels! Don’t allow anyone, including doctors, to put you into any worldly category. You may have heard, I have ADHD, anxiety, or PTSD. I’m an introvert. I’m fat...These are actually word curses over your life! Words are powerful. Our tongue can be a might weapon to harm and destroy or build and heal. "Death and life are in the power of the tongue” (Proverbs 18:21). Th...

I see relationships falling apart from too many distractions. No boundaries set in place. Many times, it’s necessary to step back from all the chaos and jibber-jabber... and be still with the Lord. Distractions happens from a quick glimpse. All it takes is two seconds to separate us from God. I want to share a story with you… God told me to take a break and spoke to me through a wounded bird! God...

God is looking for those who are going to rebuild the walls, not tear it down! The Lord griefs false prophets and lying leaders in this dark world. Yes, even at church, media, news, Hollywood, government, and social media… everywhere! Sadly, many false leaders have taken your hard-earned money with pseudo preaching and prophecies over your life. “Your leaders are like wolves who tear apart their v...

Are you a Christian single woman or man? Are you searching for the perfect mate... trying to make "your list" of height, age, weight, and financial requirements? We get lost in fake perceptions of reality coupled with false hope. We get sucked into secular knowledge of the world. Throw out the checklist if you desire a godly husband or wife. Grab a hold of helpful, but challenging questions to get...

All trauma is an open door for demonic torment. Therefore, you must come head-to-head with the skeletons in your closet. Spirit of trauma affects us subconsciously by entering our mind will, and emotions. We are a tri-part being- we have a spirit, with a soul, that lives in a body. Therefore, without healing old trauma it causes destruction to our relationships and health. Plus, it can leave open...

A prophetic warning to the nations: The LORD will take everyone through a refining process... will you abide? God is desperately trying to get people out of wilderness, but idolatry is taking top priority, and not God. Sadly, many Christians are following false prophets, leaders, and ministries, but the Lord says, "I did not send them! They're stealing money from the poor and oppressed people, and...

You're here on earth, for a God given purpose! You ultimately need to understand that God made us so wonderfully complex for a reason. (See Psalm 139:14-16). The way God shapes and molds us is very distinct. Therefore, we cannot compare ourselves to anyone else! Discover the 2 assessments I utilize in my "Health & Healing Consultation" that you will NOT find on any other FREE online platforms,...

You cannot walk with God and run with the devil... Period! God will never be on board with Lukewarm Christianity. Besides, what is that really doing for you? Nothing but getting you closer to the devil and hurting your relationship with Jesus. When we walk around half in world and half in Christianity, we are spiritually exposed and vulnerable to Satan’s deceptions. Discover 5 Signs of a Lukewarm...

Some will blame everything on demons. Some will disregard the enemy is causing division. Some will make a million excuses for their wounded soul. Satan desires to have free rein over your thoughts, feelings, emotions, and behavioral patterns while causing strife in your relationships and health. When we suppress God's conviction, we can be operating from a spirit of pride or fear. Taking the highe...

Signs of a wounded soul will vary from person to person. Deflecting these toxic emotions can cause destruction to our relationships. These deep-rooted issues hijack our thoughts, actions, and feelings. Not everything is seen at a surface level, and we must turn over to deeper levels to have thriving relationships. We need to deal with "our demons" appropriately. Let's get real with our strongholds...