The Vertical Relationship Show: Relationship Goals, Healing Trauma, Biblical Counseling, Dating Advice & Christian Marriage

Working on our mindset in good, but only part of what people truly need for healing trauma. Mindset coaching primarily focuses on helping individuals shift their thoughts and beliefs to achieve their goals. But, is that really enough to heal an individual's trauma? While mindset coaching can be beneficial in many areas of your life, people require more to heal "deep rooted" trauma! In most situati...

In a chaotic world, where do you find peace and strength? During trials and tribulations how is your faith and trust in God? The Lord has power than over exceeds any of our feelings, thoughts, or negative mindsets... but ONLY if we allow Him. Don't settle for temporary illusions of peace, happiness, and stability that the world shoves down our throats. Know this: A vertical relationship with Jesus...

Ladies, are you still dating in a worldly way? We must omit secular dating advice and instead follow God's teachings to avoid toxic patterns in our relationships. Be beware of 'itching ears' when it comes to worldly relationship advice that align ourselves with fleshy desires instead of God's truth. Learn to break-free from toxic patterns and discover the importance of biblical principles on datin...

"Exciting news!" A job offer is on the horizon for a woman in November for core cancer! Although this is exciting news for a special woman, this prophetic dream also hinted at the passing of a sister. What could this mean? Many times, the Lord will have me in position to carry the burdens of others ... While this dream has several meanings in the midst, it was clear, within great tragedy- God is w...

Have you ever been told that you’re “too sensitive?” Truth is, you’re not just a highly sensitive person- you're a highly sensitive prophet who feels more deeply than the ordinary, plain Jane. You're a rare breed with a beautiful gift! The problem is many don't understand it or know how to handle their God-given gift. Being an HSP means that you pay more attention to your surroundings, notice litt...

Aren't parents supposed to be the spiritual covering for their children? Absolutely! So, what's going in this confusing world? The devil is after our children and many parents have no clue they can be opening doors for evil to operate in their children's lives. Melia highlights the spiritual attacks on our children and the need for the parents to be intentional in teaching godly values. Parental r...

Did you know that pornography addiction affects both men and women? Most don't thing that Christ followers have any issues with sexual sin, but in fact, statistics show that even pastors and church leaders have strongholds in this area of concern. Pornography addiction can have a devastating impact on relationships. The prevalence of pornography addiction is alarming, but there is hope for healing...

Feel like giving up on your spouse? Let's face it... Marriage is tough, but that does not mean you throw in the towel when things get tough. The enemy's job is to divide and conquer your godly union. More than ever, you have to "step up" and fight for your marriage! Shift perspectives and take a look through God's lens rather than playing the blame game or running away from your marriage problems....

Another strong prophetic warning from God! The Lord will come back to being justice to nations so we better armor up! Secret agendas and false leaders will be exposed for our future generations to see the truth of God's Word. For years the Lord has been showing me about destruction coming from the north. It's been confirmed in Scripture. I've had dreams of tsunamis, tornadoes, hurricanes, floods,...

Did you know a Spirit of Rejection can fester within your soul, affecting your self-worth? Rejection can cause fear, self-pity, abandonment, and isolation issues. It's time to address these hidden roots and overcome the spirit of rejection. Don't let rejection hold you back or hinder your spiritual growth. Strive to be more like Jesus, heal, and address these painful strongholds in your life so th...

Are you putting God first in your life? Or do you run to people first for important decision- making? Melia discusses the importance of having a vertical relationship with Jesus and prioritizing God above all other relationships. She emphasizes the need to listen to God's guidance and obey His commands, even if it means making difficult decisions that others will not like. Grab the key element to...

The spiritual gift of prophecy is not to be confused with the call or office of a prophet. Just because someone has the gift of prophecy does not mean they are called to become God's mouthpiece. They are not the same thing. In this episode of the Vertical Relationship Show, Melia explains that the gift of prophecy is a gift from the Holy Spirit that all believers can tap into, while the calling of...

No, not everyone is called into ministry. The Lord chooses who He wants according to your gifting. We can't choose ourselves. Nor do we allow the influence of others to overturn the direction the Lord is leading us, even if they mean well. Unfortunately healing and deliverance is not a call for everyone. Gods says, "And no one can become a high priest simply because he wants such an honor. He must...

Are you a people pleaser? Do you find it hard to say, "NO" to people? In a relentless age of instant gratification, we must recognize that we cannot please everyone. Set realistic expectations for yourself and know that it's okay to make decisions that are healthy for your mental and emotional health. Learn how to communicate your boundaries without feeling guilty in your relationships. Blessings...

Ask yourself, do you really want to engage with a new age tool of occult origins? Probably not. Let's take a deep dive and learn about the deceptive teachings of the Enneagram! Many popular tools, like the Enneagram, are used in Christian counseling, ministries, devotionals, books, churches, team building, and even for financial advice. You think you safe, but God is not a part of mad-made devices...

In this timely episode, we delve into the deeper spiritual significance of the ongoing conflict and destruction in Israel. As we navigate these challenging times concerning Israel and north its surrounding nations, aim to uncover the Scripture messages, and calls to action that may be hidden within this crisis. Brace yourself for thought-provoking prophetic warnings that aims to shed light on God'...

Often, unhealed trauma can lead to strongholds, unresolved emotions, and unrealistic expectations... which causes more struggles in your relationships and health. Without healing, trauma can cause lingering problems for self and leaky afflictions on others in many adverse ways, showing up in your personal and professional life. Find out 10 ways unhealed trauma can destroy your relationship and hea...

Did you know false prophets exist? Everywhere we turn, online and offline, the truth is being twisted. Innocent people are being duped by glowing words and smooth talk. Many are teaching a counterfeit Gospel just for personal gain as opposed to a pure heart. The Bible says, "Watch out for people who cause divisions and upset people’s faith by teaching things contrary to what you have been taught....

Why are people throwing Christian brothers and sisters "under the bus" to prove a point? Sorry, but that's not God's character. Among the many denominations and divisions of the Christian faith, theological debates arise! Teachings are being overemphasized or underemphasized. We have one extreme or the other, with no balance in the teachings of Scripture. Healthy doctrine is getting lost with theo...

Dating apps not working? Tired of the bar scenes? I get it. I know you're fed-up of always attracting the same kind of men in your life. Honestly, there are many valid reasons why single women have a hard time finding quality men. Yet, without addressing past trauma, many will not. Soul wounds need to be cleansed and healed with Jesus to understand the kind of man God wants you to marry. Discover...

Did you know people can be easily hoodwinked from the enemy? Without realizing it, we can follow deception of the evil one, which binds us with the devil. Witchcraft is cleverly disguised to make people think: New Age practices, divination, sorcery, occult, and religion is perfectly fine. Therefore, hurting innocent people to believe they're following Chrisitan values but can be rooted in a spirit...

Often times, soul ties are tossed aside due to fleshy desires. However, this particular bond is more than releasing hormones; it's a spiritual connection, not seen to the naked eye. When two people are intimate, their souls become closely intertwined, and become one flesh. God says, "And the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh" (Mark 10:8).  The most common ungodly...

Having the "right mindset" takes times and consistency. Wrong mindsets are established when you embrace certain beliefs and attitudes towards others and self. We are to have the mind of Christ... not the mind of the world. So, why is it such a hard process? Don't allow stinking thinking to take "root" in your mind or heart. Find out: the secret of right mindset and being content in difficult seaso...

Shame, fear, or poverty mindsets will NOT help you heal old trauma. Did you know: Studies have shown that Christian Counselors help 92% of the people they counsel? WOW! Leaning on the power of the Holy Spirit as opposed to man's way is the best route to victory over your life. Christian Counseling allows people to get to the "ROOT" of bondage and avoid temporary Band-aids of secular ways. Find out...

The enemy can make anything demonic look divine! Aligning yourself with unfruitful relationships will cause strongholds in your life. Ungodly connections cause delay and can taint your anointing, ministry, and business. EKKK! During this time of testing... God clearly spoke to me for direction, as a huge mac truck pulled out slowly in front of me. You won't believe what it said! Our alignment with...