The Vertical Relationship Show: Relationship Goals, Healing Trauma, Biblical Counseling, Dating Advice & Christian Marriage

We spend so much money and time for a momentary glimpse... We focus our energy on dating apps and materialist things... What if we were to put our focus on getting to know our fiancée through pre-marital counseling? Or partake in dating coaching, so you're prepared for an equally yoked spouse. Think about it. If you spent half your energy into truly getting to know your forever mate, and healing f...

It’s time for God’s soldiers to rise-up! Move towards the battle line without being offended. We are living in the infamous end times, yet we still don’t adhere to God’s wholesome teachings. The Kingdom of God is tossed aside while the kingdom of Satan is glorified. Will you drop false narratives? God is shaking off dead branches and replacing it with long lasting, rich fruit that comes from ferti...

Do you feel God is telling you to get off social media? I know. I know. It can be quite displeasing. In fact, it's the exact opposite of what all "business gurus" are telling you need in order to have a thriving ministry and business. A lie straight from the enemy! He whispers, "You are not here for entertainment- you're here as God’s Exhorter"! Let's be honest... social media can cause delay and...

We are called to be different. The salt and light of the earth. God is wanted to propel you forward with your gifting, by your side, for a Kingdom purpose and not an earthly one. You’ve been handpicked to help others... but you've been overlooked. If you are ready to be surrounded by other authentic Christian leaders, to boldly use your prophetic voice in the marketplace, business, or ministry, an...

Just because you are "saved" and go to church does not mean you are FREE from the torment and oppression of evil. The devil wants your soul! It’s not through any random acts that our soul is precious to God... Why do you think the devil is after your soul and God desperately wants us to restore it? Without healing, you're giving access for the devil to have a field day with your mind, will, and em...

Does fear, shame, or pride hold you back from requesting help? I'm inviting my private client, Kevin, who reached out when he felt a strain in his marriage. He hit a roadblock, felt stuck, and wanted to seek help with a qualified, nonsecular Christian Counselor getting to the "ROOT" of His strongholds. Men need help and healing too! Thankfully, He started listening to my podcast, The Vertical Rela...

“Heal my Soul Wounds” is not your typical trauma recovery program. This metamorphic program is based on God’s Word, prayer, and designed & structured by God. There is a high cost to follow GOD... The Holy Spirit is heavenly involved in the healing process, a true partnership as God’s vessel to bring prophetic utterances through the word of knowledge and spirit of discernment. This is for the n...

Why are most churches not on board with inner healing & deliverance? That's a loaded question, my friends! If a leader of the church is only focusing on GOD and ignoring spiritual warfare... innocent people are left still in bondage. Therefore, leaving hurt and desperate people in a hot mess with no consistent fruits of the Spirit in their lives. That’s exactly what Satan wants! Turning, a bli...

Our focuses are out of whack... losing weight, fad diets, and working out is NOT going to save your soul! Yes, God wants us to take care of our body, but what about your inner being? You cannot bypass the internal and cut straight to the external. Well, you can try, but it will just backfire. I pray more people would understand a wounded soul requires HEALING with God. It’s more than superficial o...

We live in a culture where we are easily swayed by pseudo leaders, blinded by false prophets, and a society that adheres to shortcuts. Let's bring in the New Year with Jesus-NOT false prophecy, fake healing methods or witchcraft! In a world filled with constant warnings, evil, pressure, and trickery... God is screaming for His children to "wake-up" and follow him wholeheartedly. Stop murmuring and...

Authentic Biblical Christian Counseling gets to the "root" as opposed to temporary Band-Aids! Leaning on the power of Christ and not techniques to help HEAL and receive a gentle release of deliverance. Studies shown that Christian Biblical Counselors help 92% of the people they counsel. Amazing results! But what else does it ultimately and genuinely take to HEAL with GOD? Blessings xo- Free Audio...

Have you not forgiven a friend or family member from years ago? Have you not let the sting of your divorce go yet? Are you still seeking revenge? These are clear indications you are still harboring unforgiveness. Unforgiveness leads to bitterness and resentment, causing major soul wounds. Let go and Let GOD restore your anger, grudges, and your painful past. Move on. Forgive and make the necessary...

Self-sabotage is a stronghold. Strongholds keep us stuck! Low self-esteem and unworthiness issues are being victimized against yourself. It's messing with your mind... your thoughts... Stop disqualifying yourself, brother and sisters. These lying spirits will keep you from not seeing God’s truth. The enemy feeds of our weaknesses to derail our starving, broken, and wounded soul… all which affects...

God's warning for the church... It's time to stop teaching half-truths sprinkled with Satan’s lies for popularity, church status, and filling the pews! God is looking for a pure and cleansed heart, wholesome teachings to be taught from the pulpit. It's more than fist bumps and a "Hallelujah" shouted from the stage. God is looking for a changed heart; a sincere cry for repentance. People need the T...

Soul Ties come in many forms... but what are the effects from them? Soul ties can come from people, dead or alive, that have had an ungodly control over your thoughts and feelings...  Gain your authority in Jesus Christ or the devil will continue to manipulate you without authentic healing. Find out if these 12 emotional and mental responses are affecting you! God wants better for you- Do you? Ble...

The famous question... Why do I attract the wrong partner in my life? Well, my friends, that’s a loaded question! I can tell you we all get stuck in our pain: childhood issues, fear, trauma, and limiting beliefs… the list is endless! Grab a hold of these 5 truthful reasons you're NOT attracting a godly spouse!  Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Coaching -> https://meliadiana.com/our-serv...

Are you unwilling or unable to forgive someone who hurt, betray or caused you intense pain? How about a church leader, spouse, or a close friend? I know- it hurts! It is not fun, but necessary for healing of the wounded soul. Why should you “forgive” when that person double crossed you, cheated on you, left you, lashed out, or turned their back on you? When we grieve a spirit of unforgiveness, we...

We are to have the mind of Christ... so why is it such a process? Wrong mindsets evoke themselves through carnal reasoning. Foolish opinions have set themselves against the wisdom, knowledge, and Word of God. Wrong mindsets are established when you embrace certain beliefs and attitudes and allow them to take "root" in your heart. Find out the Secret of being content in all circumstances, chaos and...

Let’s be honest. How much time do you spend on social media? Can you stay away for more than an hour? When you hear a "ding" do you jump at the first sign to answer that alert? Without you knowing it... it's destroying your relationship with Jesus! It's tearing apart your marriage and dating partnerships. Find out 3 ways you might be giving the devil a foothold to your relationships! Blessings xo-...

Time does NOT heal all wounds- GOD does! We must deal with pesky emotions and unhealthy mindsets, or these destructive wound patterns will be on a constant spin cycle of repeat. Anything done continuously without producing fruitful gains is called insanity. We will continue attracting the wrong relationships in our dating life and have the same fights with our spouse... YUCK! Grab a hold of these...

Is self-deliverance REAL? Can you do this on your own? All things are possible with God! However, many people open doors for the devil to operate and harass their own soul. TRUTH- you must know what you are dealing with before true deliverance can happen... Find out 3 tips for self-deliverance to help aid your pain and brokenness today! Blessings xo-  Christian Counseling & Coaching -> https://mel...

Get out of your feelings! Accept where you are and take responsibility to move forward. Feelings are fickle and fluctuate too often. How can you rely on something constantly swaying back and forth? We listen to a feeling rather than the wisdom God freely gives us. We lead with our toxic emotions that gets us in trouble... This can cause division in our relationships, especially with our Abba Fathe...

Stop saying "YES" to what is taking your precious time and energy away from God's plan. Having healthy boundaries is a must to avoid doormat tendencies. If we don’t say “no” a feeling of entrapment can carry and lodge resentment in our hearts... Worst off, we end up mad at ourselves for not listening to the prompting of the Holy Spirit. EEK! Guard your heart, my friends. Blessings xo-  Christian C...

This spirit of rejection whispers to people they are unloved, unworthy, and not wanted... The devil feeds off insecurities, trauma, and fears to undermine a Christian's true identity in Christ. Are you believing these devilish lies attempting to destroy your relationships? Find out the 10 targets of rejection and if you're putting up emotional walls! Blessings xo-  Christian Counseling & Coaching...

The truth HURTS! "Fake it till you make it" is a SHAM! You will not fool God with plastic Christianity, fake smiles, and secret backbiting! Pretending you have it all together or crying behind closed doors only keeps people in depression, loneliness, and a self-loathing & jealous state of anxiety. Hard hearts don’t surpass healthy relationships or break-free from the bondages of the devil, but the...