The Vary Necessary Podcast

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von   The ladies of VN are back from the Thanksgiving holiday and they brought a guest!  Find out more about our vary first guest on the show!! The ladies check in about their holiday weekend and why it was one of the best they've had in a long time.  Why didn't you get married? The proposal happened but the result wasn't marriage.  The ladies and their guest host sha...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von   The Ladies of VN  are getting ready for the Holiday Season! Yoshie gives her take on a gospel song with some questionable lyrics. Von and Sue give updates on what's going on with them. The ladies discuss what they are most grateful and thankful for this season. Whether it's health, family, friendship, or life we are all thankful our Vary Necessary listeners with...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von   Don't be alarmed.... it is the Vary Necessary Podcast...The Young and Restless edition.  The ladies received a  So Vary letter that turns into a discussion about dating in your 30s and 40s.  Has the dating pool become so tainted that women and men can't find their one? Are we asking for too much when dating? Where is the fun in dating? Tune in as the ladies give...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von   While the ladies of VN check-in, find out why the ladies are talking about the TV show GoodTimes. What are you willing to do for yourself? What steps are you taking to live the life you know you should live? When is soliciting prayers, waiting for confirmation from post and ministers enough?  The ladies of VN  give their thoughts on getting yourself out of the c...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von   What's that number zodiac sign???!!! Someone thinks it's  Scorpio. .... Listen as the ladies of VN talk about astrology and reveal if the traits for their sign match their character. The ladies also discuss their fun-filled weekend at the most magical place on Earth!     To support the show Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPodcas...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von This week find out why we were wrong and Yoshie was right ...(We will never hear the end of this). Jen announces new nicknames for the ladies!! Let us know your thoughts.  The ladies tackle the topic of coworkers. Von describes coworkers' characteristics and the ladies determine which one best fits them.  Are you a Gossping Glen, Debbie Downer,  Noisemaker Nancy,...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von   The ladies of VN  are back showing their support for  Breast Cancer and Domestic  Violence awareness month.  Yoshie dedicates this show to  two beautiful souls who succumbed to breast cancer.  Von and Jen provide statistics on both topics and how it affects the African American community.  The ladies discuss how important it is to seek a professional for physica...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von   While the ladies of VN check-in, find out why Yoshie gave Sue the nickname "Hood Rat Helen! Sue tells the ladies she has a strange feeling and why they are concerned about it.  Von shares her joys of doing community service this week. Do you know your purpose?  Have you always known what you were meant to do at an early age? The definition of purpose includes kn...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von   The Ladies of VN  conclude the series on How Long is too Long to Keep Dead Weight Holding On. All the ladies agree that there must be honest and open communication throughout the entire relationship even when you are making an exit.  The ladies individually weigh in on what dead weight they need to exit before moving on to another relationship.  In the end, know...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von   Let’s Get Into It: The Ladies of VN begin to dissect the “WHY”?   Of course, there are many different reasons & emotions why people stay when ultimately they know it’s over. Whether it’s no support, growing apart, death, personal vices…good, bad, or indifferent do I stay or do I go? Stay and fight or wave the white flag. Decisions, decisions…choose wisely!  ...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von   Real Talk: Have you ever been in a relationship/situationship/hostage-ship that should’ve been over with (maybe before it even started) forever ago but it’s just something that keeps us there? On Part 1: The ladies of TVNP discuss the viral video of the marriage proposal that went left & tell “interwebs” land how they would’ve dealt with it. We discuss the f...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von   You definitely don’t want to miss this Vary “Unapologetic” episode where the Vixens of Vary Necessary and The “Scums” of Scumbag Lounge meet up & get down and dirty! Please put your judgement ears up for this episode and if you don’t, don’t say the disclaimer wasn’t provider because oh hell yea it went all the way left! But one thing for sure, we all had a b...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von   Yoshie, Von, and Sue hold down the fort while Jen is out due to a family illness. Yoshie has COVID blues and discussed how it is messing up her plans. The ladies discuss the importance of accountability can improve daily living. Von gives the definition of an accountability partner and should you have more than one. Sue talks about her male BFF being a great acc...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von   Jen is out this week due to a family illness while Yoshie, Von, and Sue discuss gender roles, and question if  Steadman is doing what needs to be done! The ladies discussed inappropriate acts that get on their last nerves. If you don't tip please don't sit with us.  Family business, please don't air it out everywhere. For the love of God, do not ask how or why s...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, Jenn, & Von Join the ladies in talking about their first crush/love(s)!! The Ladies of Vary Necessary never disappoint! Hear how Sue's went from "WTF"   to a lifetime friendship. How Von's short-lived summer crush crashed and why. And since we know Yosh "don't love them heauxs", see who(what) she counts as her 1st love or crush. Then Jen shares her 1st boo, how they met a, wh...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie   The ladies of VN are all back together again! Jen has returned from her baecation and is glowing! Yoshie shares what's new in her life and the ladies are pleased with it. The ladies discuss their love for music and when they first fell in love with their favorite genre. Sue and Von elaborate on HipHop and rap on whether it is different or the same.  Tune i...

Sue, Yosh, & Von are minus Jen this episode so they decided to talk about having our house back to ourselves with the kiddos gone

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie   Do you believe  the deaths of JFK,  Dr. Sebi , and MLK was a part of a bigger plan lead by the government?  Do you believe the death of our beloved Kobe Bryant was a cover to release the COVID-19  pandemic?  Do you believe the Real ID  and social media platforms were created to secretly follow our every move? Join the ladies of the VNP as they discuss cons...

  Hosts: Vonchella, Sue, Jennifer, & Yoshie   As if we have left anything to the imagination with y’all yet? Yeah, we go deeper (literally). Join our super-informative yet, totally entertaining   “Talk About Sex Episode 20 where we dive into: -Taboo Talks with Spouse/Significant Others -STD’s     -Younger sexual self vs Older Sexual Self (Needs & Desires) -Is Life and Age Slowing me down o...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie   This show went all the way left y’all! The ladies of VN talk discuss singers/musical groups, comedians, athletes, & our personal instances of being blackballed. How unfair is it that people can’t speak their truth on their own social media pages without being judged and condemned based on the masses opinions and feelings? This new “Canceled Culture” me...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie What is the “G”irl Code? Are there rules to the friendship when sacred information has been shared and the friendship no longer exists? Do you take it to the grave or do you exploit what you know? Never break the G code for self-gain, if you want to keep the friendship solid. Listen to the Ladies of The VN Podcast express their take on the G code!!   To supp...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie   The ladies of VN tackle a very touchy subject this week... Finances. The ladies discuss Buyer's remorse and their experiences. Majority of the ladies admitted to being a shopaholic. Guess who doesn't feel as if they are one? Hmmm... All the ladies are working harder to continue to improve their financial outlook so they can be more prepared for the future,...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie   It’s so Vary Necessary that we celebrate the year of the woman!! It’s Black Girl Magic and nothing less!! For years we have been climbing the ladder to break down the barriers and to shatter ceilings. If you know if a local person in your hometown, or an aspiring young person, encourage them and shine the light they are deserving of! You never know the mag...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie The ladies of VN are bringing it to you raw about levels of cheating. Giving their two cents on broken vows, swinging, is once a cheater always a cheater, and is it room to grow after cheating Tune in to get your ears filled with the ladies of VN. To support the show Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPodcast Instagram: The Var...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie Yoshie, Von, Jen, and Sue pay homage to some very important men in their lives for being outstanding fathers.  The ladies discuss the increase of fathers having custody of their children compared to single mothers... The gap is closing in!!!  Male figures play an important role in children's lives just like mother figures. For anyone that has raised, mentore...