The Vary Necessary Podcast

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast, Von, Yosh, and Sue are tackling the games people play and the drama we all see online. ​On the table today: The "Hard Chase": We’re breaking down that viral clip about men who love the "chase" and women who play hard to get. Is it a strategy for success or a one-way ticket to a toxic cycle? Privacy in the Spotlight: We’re discus...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  The bags are packed, and the vibes are high! Road trip season has officially arrived for the ladies. Tune in as Von, Yosh, and Sue break down their latest adventure—it’s been way too long since this trio hit the open road, and they’ve got the stories to prove it. ​Beyond the travel diaries, the ladies are diving deep into the chaotic world of modern romance. We’re navi...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  On this week’s episode, the ladies are diving deep into the dynamics that define us. Von takes the lead, schooling Sue and Yosh on the latest lingo you need to know to stay ahead of the curve. But it’s not all just talk; we’re getting into the heavy hitters: Emotional Availability: Why does it feel like a disappearing act for so many men? The Boundary Blueprint: Why se...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on the Vary Necessary Podcast, the air was thick with insight as the ladies dove deep into that viral Jill Scott clip. There is something uniquely grounding about Jilly from Philly's wisdom—it’s not just "advice," it’s a frequency. ​The conversation centered on a powerful evolution: how growth and understanding aren't just milestones, but the raw materials re...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  The ladies are back and the conversation is moving fast! From the jarring shift of Daylight Saving Time to the cosmic energy of planetary alignments, no stone is left unturned. ​But it’s not all stars and clocks—the daily concert circuit has the group buzzing. Sue shares a heartbreaking update on a major bucket-list item currently on pause thanks to those dreaded "Sold...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  The ladies are back, and this week, the vibes are high, but patience is low! From questionable habits to those phrases people say that make absolutely zero sense, the crew is diving deep into the world of the "Vary Unnecessary." We all have those moments where we stop and think, “Now, why did they just do that?”—and in this episode, no one is safe from the side-eye. Th...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  The shenanigans are at an all-time high! On this episode of the Vary Necessary Podcast, Yoshie gives us the full rundown on her night with Mr. Midnight, Raheem DeVaughn. (Warning: She’s officially the #1 now!) ​Plus, Producer Yusuf in the Building, joins the ladies to pose a VARY intriguing question, and we react to a viral clip about the complexities of Trauma Bonding...

So... what has 50 Cent done now? The ladies of the VNP are diving into the latest digital war zone. Between the Super Bowl trolling and the back-and-forth with T.I., we have to ask: Is Fif still the strategic genius of the "get back," or has he officially become the butt of all jokes? • We love a good clapback, but when do you take pettiness too far? • If there’s smoke, let’s hear it in a verse! W...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week, Von and Yosh discuss the fine line between staying current and being "too seasoned" for new slang. Plus, Sue returns from her space travels just in time to talk about why aging is actually fun, the new music we can’t stop playing, and our latest girl crushes. ​It’s a Vary Necessary conversation you don’t want to miss! Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  The ladies of the Vary Necessary Podcast are going IN on the First Family of Music! Von, Yosh, and Sue talk all things The Jacksons—from Janet to Jermaine and everyone in between.  ​Inside this episode:  Did MJ really have beef with 2Pac? The ladies talk rumors vs. reality!  Prepping for the Michael biopic (April 24th!) and the Dionne Warwick movie.  Is modern Black TV...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  In this episode of the Vary Necessary Podcast, Von, Yosh, and Sue start things off with some lighthearted "doggie talk" before tackling the high stakes of Valentine’s Day—a holiday Yosh takes very seriously. ​The crew breaks down the differing expectations between men and women, exploring whether the tradition of "pampering" should be a two-way street. With special gue...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast Von, Yosh, and Sue are talking about losing that loving feeling Are you a city soul or a country heart? The ladies of the Vary Necessary Podcast are taking a walk down memory lane this episode, reflecting on their wildest adventures from the rural backroads to the urban concrete. ​They explore the "perception vs. reality" of bein...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast Von, Yosh, and Sue are talking about losing that loving feeling As our Vary Important People know, the ladies of the Vary Necessary Podcast are women of a certain age... and with that comes a whole lot of wisdom, maturity, and—you guessed it—hormonal shifts! ​Today’s word of the day is CORTISOL. It’s the silent guest at the party...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast Von, Yosh, and Sue are talking about losing that loving feeling ​Yoshie, Von, and Sue are back for 2026! After a refreshing break, the ladies are returning to the mic with more laughs, the latest celebrity gossip, and their unfiltered takes on modern living. ​This week, we’re diving deep into the "Soft Life" movement. We see the...

As we settle into 2026, Yoshie, Von, and Sue are looking back to move forward. This episode is all about transition. We start with the lighthearted—the "Happy New Year" expiration date—before diving into the symbolic transition from the Year of the Snake to the Year of the Horse. ​The heart of today’s show is our 2025 Personal Recap. We share the questions we asked ourselves to pivot into a succes...

This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast! Von, Yoshie, and Sue talk a little music, share how they spent the holidays, and agree that this year’s celebration just felt different. The ladies wrap up by reflecting on what they’re most grateful for in 2025. And as always, to our amazing VNP listeners — we are most grateful for YOU! Happy Holidays! 

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast Von, Yosh, and Sue are talking about losing that loving feeling Is it just us, or is this becoming a thing for women of a certain age? Are we really taking care of ourselves to enjoy each other the way we should? And what’s going on with the fellas—why are so many men in their early 30s dealing with ED? Spill the tea! Is this hap...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  Von, Yoshie, and Sue are back! The ladies have a lot to say about the recent election results. Sue’s under the weather (as always ), but that doesn’t stop the conversation! They’re diving into the impacts of the government shutdown, celebrating birthdays, and discussing where we go from here. Tune in—you don’t want to miss this oneTune in with an open mind and heart, a...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  The ladies continue to share their thoughts and concerns about the ongoing government shutdown — and explore possible solutions. Producer Yusuf in the Building joins the conversation, bringing his take on the current culture and climate of politics. Tune in with an open mind and heart, and don’t forget to share your thoughts, whether you agree or not! Subscribe, Share,...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von   One of the ladies is in complete denial about perimenopause—guess who? On a more serious note, the trio shares heartfelt concern about the state of America, especially as two of the three are personally affected by the government shutdown. Tune in with an open mind and heart as they navigate the laughter, the real talk, and the search for understanding and solutions....

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast, the ladies—joined by Yusuf in the Building—dive into Dame Dash’s fiery Breakfast Club interview. When is it time to take a hard look in the mirror and own up to your choices, good or bad? And let’s talk boundaries—celebrities have them too! But do shows like The Breakfast Club sometimes cross the line with their interviews? Tune...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast, Von, Yosh, and Sue are serving up some real talk on wellness, resilience, and why check-ins matter—at school, at work, and in life! Sue breaks down Trauma-Informed Care, and Yusuf in the Building jumps in with the reminder that sometimes people just need somebody to listen.  Spoiler Alert, The crew spills on that wild Netflix do...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast, the ladies get real right away, and producer Yusuf had to chime in with a guy's take on the topic. They talked about their journeys and all agreed they're exactly where they should be. Where are some places you would like to visit and live? Let the ladies know. Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPo...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast… Von, Yosh, and Sue reflect on the unexpected passing of the legendary Malcolm-Jamal Warner. His impact sparks a heartfelt conversation about living life with intention and purpose. What goals are you chasing? What do you want your legacy to say about you? That little dash between your birth and your final day—that’s where the re...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast… Von, Yosh, and Sue reflect on the unexpected passing of the legendary Malcolm-Jamal Warner. His impact sparks a heartfelt conversation about living life with intention and purpose. What goals are you chasing? What do you want your legacy to say about you? That little dash between your birth and your final day—that’s where the re...