The Vary Necessary Podcast

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  Is it REAL LOVE… or are you just somebody’s rebound? Getting into a new relationship after a breakup can feel exciting, but what happens when your ex is still living rent-free in your mind? Are you genuinely ready to love someone new, or are you using a new person to help you get over the old one? On this episode Yoshi and Von visit the Relationship Status Podcast for...

On this week's episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast,  the ladies check in  discussing their week, coworkers, cartoons,  and naps? It's  officially Scorpio season!  A Vary Happy birthday  to Yosh with the Most!  Listen as Yoshie talks about why her sign is the best sign! The ladies talk alittle sports talk. Sue pulls in our engineer who has a better insight on the topic of basketball.  Breaking Ne...

We’re taking it ALL the way back to one of those episodes you definitely don’t want to miss! ️ On this week’s re-airing of The Vary Necessary Podcast, the ladies of VNP needed Benson & Stabler from SVU because BABY… things got REAL! The trio traveled to the Queen City to support local talent at a comedy show—and let’s just say Von was VIOLATED! Tune in as the ladies break down what happened an...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast, we finally welcome our new friend Angel aka “Kim” from last week’s episode  We sit down for a candid conversation about marriage, divorce, starting over, and what it looks like to be single, free, and living life in your 40s. And then there’s dating… Chile, it’s no longer a dating pool. It’s a SWAMP.   We talk about learning to...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we examine beauty standards, body confidence, and what society considers desirable in 2026. Whether a woman is a size 6 or a size 26, is she valued for who she is or placed into a category? Is the bigger woman only seen as a good time while the smaller woman is treated like the trophy? We also discuss men who leave success...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, Von’s trip to Jamaica sparks a bigger conversation about perspective, privilege, and the belief that life must be better somewhere else in other countries. Tourists see paradise, while some locals see limited opportunity. Americans dream about leaving the U.S., while people elsewhere dream about getting here. We discuss th...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we ask: How much do you invest in someone’s potential before realizing they’re not investing in themselves? Time, money, resources, and opportunities mean nothing if the person receiving them isn’t appreciative or willing to do the work. Discernment is knowing the difference between helping someone build and allowing them...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we talk about when providing financially becomes a substitute for actually showing up. What happens when someone wants the relationship and family but still wants the freedom, priorities, and independence of single life? Money, gifts, and grand gestures may fill some gaps, but they can’t replace time, consistency, reliabil...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  On this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we unpack solitude, loneliness, isolation, and the importance of your state of mind Being alone doesn’t automatically mean something is missing. Sometimes it means you’ve finally learned that protecting your peace is necessary. and becoming comfortable with your own company. Getting older is inevitable; how we choose to mo...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  On this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we’re talking about what aging gracefully really looks like and it’s about much more than appearance. From surgery versus exercise and physical wellness to Pilates, kickboxing, salsa, pole dancing, flexibility, and finding a fitness routine that actually fits your life, we’re exploring how staying active changes as we get...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  On this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we sit down with The Scums for an honest, entertaining, and thought-provoking discussion that blends humor, raw perspectives, and unapologetic authenticity about music, magnetism, & magic. Life experiences and relationships to culture, personal growth, and everything in between, nothing is off-limits. If you’re looking...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  What happened to survival skills? On today’s episode Sasha and Mia introduce two young Ashley and Destiny. Same age. Same 24 hours. Two completely different paths. Disclaimer: This isn’t about tearing down Gen Z or romanticizing Gen X. It’s about asking a hard question: Have convenience replaced capability? Join us as we unpack the thought process & life skills man...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  ​Hey VNP listeners! ​This is Sue, just one-third of the awesome trio behind The Vary Necessary Podcast. This week’s episode is Vary personal for me. As many of you who have been following our journey for years know, we always share our triumphs and discuss our challenges. I truly believe that's why you tune in—because we’re right there with you, navigating this thing w...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  A simple “Hey Hey Hey Hey” was all it took to spark an entire conversation about our favorite TV show couples on The Vary Necessary Podcast! ​Join Yosh and Sue—plus producer Yusuf in the building—as they break down onscreen romances, debate who should have ended up together, and tackle some thought-provoking questions. ​We want to hear from you: ​How do you truly know...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  In this episode, as we approach these VARY NECESSARY proms, summer holidays, and celebrations, join us in unapologetic conversation regarding getting back to the basics and simplicity of things. From reflection and gratitude to reconnecting with faith, family, purpose, and peace, this episode is a reminder that sometimes the most meaningful moments don’t have to break...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast, Von, Yosh, and Sue are tackling the games people play and the drama we all see online. ​On the table today: The "Hard Chase": We’re breaking down that viral clip about men who love the "chase" and women who play hard to get. Is it a strategy for success or a one-way ticket to a toxic cycle? Privacy in the Spotlight: We’re discus...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  The bags are packed, and the vibes are high! Road trip season has officially arrived for the ladies. Tune in as Von, Yosh, and Sue break down their latest adventure—it’s been way too long since this trio hit the open road, and they’ve got the stories to prove it. ​Beyond the travel diaries, the ladies are diving deep into the chaotic world of modern romance. We’re navi...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  On this week’s episode, the ladies are diving deep into the dynamics that define us. Von takes the lead, schooling Sue and Yosh on the latest lingo you need to know to stay ahead of the curve. But it’s not all just talk; we’re getting into the heavy hitters: Emotional Availability: Why does it feel like a disappearing act for so many men? The Boundary Blueprint: Why se...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on the Vary Necessary Podcast, the air was thick with insight as the ladies dove deep into that viral Jill Scott clip. There is something uniquely grounding about Jilly from Philly's wisdom—it’s not just "advice," it’s a frequency. ​The conversation centered on a powerful evolution: how growth and understanding aren't just milestones, but the raw materials re...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  The ladies are back and the conversation is moving fast! From the jarring shift of Daylight Saving Time to the cosmic energy of planetary alignments, no stone is left unturned. ​But it’s not all stars and clocks—the daily concert circuit has the group buzzing. Sue shares a heartbreaking update on a major bucket-list item currently on pause thanks to those dreaded "Sold...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  The ladies are back, and this week, the vibes are high, but patience is low! From questionable habits to those phrases people say that make absolutely zero sense, the crew is diving deep into the world of the "Vary Unnecessary." We all have those moments where we stop and think, “Now, why did they just do that?”—and in this episode, no one is safe from the side-eye. Th...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  The shenanigans are at an all-time high! On this episode of the Vary Necessary Podcast, Yoshie gives us the full rundown on her night with Mr. Midnight, Raheem DeVaughn. (Warning: She’s officially the #1 now!) ​Plus, Producer Yusuf in the Building, joins the ladies to pose a VARY intriguing question, and we react to a viral clip about the complexities of Trauma Bonding...

So... what has 50 Cent done now? The ladies of the VNP are diving into the latest digital war zone. Between the Super Bowl trolling and the back-and-forth with T.I., we have to ask: Is Fif still the strategic genius of the "get back," or has he officially become the butt of all jokes? • We love a good clapback, but when do you take pettiness too far? • If there’s smoke, let’s hear it in a verse! W...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week, Von and Yosh discuss the fine line between staying current and being "too seasoned" for new slang. Plus, Sue returns from her space travels just in time to talk about why aging is actually fun, the new music we can’t stop playing, and our latest girl crushes. ​It’s a Vary Necessary conversation you don’t want to miss! Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️...

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  The ladies of the Vary Necessary Podcast are going IN on the First Family of Music! Von, Yosh, and Sue talk all things The Jacksons—from Janet to Jermaine and everyone in between.  ​Inside this episode:  Did MJ really have beef with 2Pac? The ladies talk rumors vs. reality!  Prepping for the Michael biopic (April 24th!) and the Dionne Warwick movie.  Is modern Black TV...