The Vary Necessary Podcast

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie Podcasting is just one of our destinies fulfilled. Our futures are big and bright! See what other roads lie ahead for the ladies of VN. Desired travel destinations, savings, careers, marriage or NOT, etc. It’s always a Shady Pines Hot Mama Party with Jen, Sue, Von, & Yoshie Gyrl so make sure to tune in to this week's show! To support the show Subscribe,...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie As the ladies is VN dig into the stereotypes and stigmas of race and relationships in the black community, we discuss how society targets our black men and it takes the spotlight off other races and their negligence of disrespect. Comment and let us know your thoughts? Do we make it easy for society to target black men and women? What are the disparities? Le...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie This week's show is a fun, freestyle, of foolishness. I mean when have you ever just been beyond tired?   The ladies have had it with the same ol lies, “another sad love song” victim stories, lame inbox come-ons, etc. I mean as crazy as we are we’re just getting too old for the craziness and enough is enough already! Meet our newest VN personality Glodine Fa...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie This week the ladies of VN  discuss where do they go from  here!! Tune in as  Yoshie,Von,Jen and Sue  discuss their pressing challenges that has them saying " NEXT CHAPTER ME PLEASE " !!!!! You are guaranteed to get a good laugh,cry, and a WTF response! Remember , we are like a box of chocolates...  you never know what you're going to get!  To support the sh...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie Check out our 1st Our Oh So Vary “Situationship” letter. Is it crazy to believe that a fairytale romance couldn’t happen in our 40’s & 50’s? And what’s with all this online dating & hooking up? Do you just go with it or are you senses heightened with the times, red flags, & frustrations of past? When it’s all said and done trust your gut! To supp...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie Happy Mother’s Day!! It’s so VERY necessary that we pay homage to our mothers Cynthia, Virginia, Ernestine, and Linda for the unconditional love, guidance, tough love, and life lessons they have instilled into us to become the mother and women we are today. In this episode, each of the Vary Necessary Ladies come together to express what it’s like being a mot...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie The ladies of Vary necessary get serious on Trauma. All the ladies share their trauma experiences and how it has impacted them long term.     Jen shares how over time she finally found the courage to fight for her life to rid the feeling of shame and guilt and how to live her self again. Sue opens up about how her attacker used tactics to try lure her into n...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie The ladies of Vary Necessary took an online quiz to see what’s their love language. To much surprise, Jen & Vonchella are more alike than they thought, who knew!! Sue is surprised by her scores as she reveals it and the ladies reacted in amazement! Yoshi, being in tune with her clairvoyance discovered she is on point with her love language. I hope you di...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie This week's episode is all about Friends (How many of us have them? Past, Present, & are New Friends Welcome or Naw? Ever been “UNFRIENDED” or “GHOSTED” & was like “WTF?” Here’s how VN balances or just say deuces to friendships, & the ex-homies/heauxs that had to be funeralized

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie In this week's episode, we go back to our childhood and past relationships to dissect if we were really groomed to be single/married with children? We delve into finances, dealbreakers, the stigmas of “why aren’t you married(yet)”, & what’s the plan if there’s no husband on the horizon? This one was very controversial so you don’t wanna miss this one

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie This week's episode is all about “Self-Care” The ladies of Vary Necessary give their interpretation of self-care and discuss their individual self-care regime. They also touch on why they feel self-care is important. Do men practice self-care? Is therapy a facet of self-care? Is sex or abstinence a form of self-care? We will also reveal different components...

Hosts: Vonchella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie This week's episode is all about communication and how we interpret and process it in our relationships and friendships. Have text messages & social media destroyed the way we communicate with family & friends? We also hit on how the tone of conversations can be misread if not articulated appropriately. Listen to how we discuss the different types of...

Hosts: Voncella, Jen, Sue & Yoshie This week's episode Dating Over 40 the “Vary Vixens” discuss how women 40+ struggle with dating and acknowledge and the many challenges (kids, age difference,etc). We also break down solo dating vs serial dating, emotional attachments, & more!   To support the show Subscribe, Share, Like, Review   ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: TheVNPodcast Instagram: The...

Hosts: Vonchella, Yoshie, Sue & Jen Join the ladies as they discuss everything under the sun from a female perspective. Unplug from the world and plug into the Vary Necessary ladies while they cover everything from love to careers. And remember self-care is Vary Necessary