The Unexpected Us Podcast (with The Flirty Pineapples)

In this episode, we sit down with Ashley and Rob from United By Swing, a fully bisexual married couple creating community for bi men and mixed-orientation relationships in the lifestyle. We talk about the stigma bi men still face in sex-positive spaces, why many feel pressure to hide, and how fear, shame, and outdated masculinity myths can impact connection. Ashley shares compassionate advice for...

Want more ENM matches on dating apps?  You've come to the right place! In this episode, we start with a real message from a solo guy who found himself in a deeply confusing and stressful situation with a couple who kept using their “code word” to signal discomfort, while continuing play anyway. What unfolded highlights a dynamic that doesn’t get talked about enough in the lifestyle: couples p...

In this episode, the hosts discuss the importance of confidence and approachability in lifestyle events, sharing personal experiences and practical tips for navigating social interactions. They emphasize the significance of setting boundaries, especially when dealing with clingy couples, and provide strategies for polite disengagement. The conversation also highlights the unique dynamics of social...

In this episode of the Unexpected Us podcast, the hosts delve into the challenges of flirting and navigating ghosting in the lifestyle, offering practical advice and scripts for handling rejection. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, emotional intelligence, and maintaining a positive perspective in the face of rejection. The hosts also encourage listeners to create their o...

In this conversation, Bella shares her personal journey with jealousy, contrasting her experiences with those of her partner, Prescott. They discuss the emotional complexities of jealousy, the impact of past relationships, and the importance of communication and trust in navigating their open relationship. Bella reflects on her insecurities and the work she has done to overcome them, emphasizing t...

In this episode of the Unexpected Us podcast, Bella and Prescott delve into the complex topic of jealousy within the lifestyle of open relationships. They explore their personal experiences with jealousy, highlighting how it manifests differently for each of them. Prescott shares his journey from not experiencing jealousy to facing it head-on during their adventures in the lifestyle. The couple di...

In the relaunch of the inaugural episode of the Unexpected Us podcast, hosts Bella and Prescott share their journey into the swinging lifestyle, discussing their origin story, goals for the podcast, and the experiences that shaped their relationship. They aim to provide insights, coaching, and real-life stories to help others navigate the lifestyle, while also reflecting on their personal adventur...