The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women

You're talking to this girl, she's super hot, and things seem to be going well. You want to stay in touch but have no idea whether you should go for her Instagram or just try to get her number. While you might have a preference about which one you like more, the truth is they both have pros and cons that you need to evaluate carefully. Leveraging the correct contact method could be the difference...

Due to an unfortunate mountain biking accident, today's intended episode has been delayed until Monday. Don't worry! Your coach is okay. But while he recovers, today's episode will instead be revisiting one of the greatest NLP visualizations ever created. This visualization known as "THE SPARTAN KING" will get you fired up, in touch with your inner warrior, and increase your testosterone so much t...

As men, we're subject to a ton of mental conditioning designed to make us feel ashamed of our sexuality, ashamed of the fact we desire women, and even ashamed of something as normal as masturbation. Not only is this conditioning detrimental to our overall well-being, but it also affects our confidence when it comes to approaching and attracting women. Today this stops. Mark's going to set the reco...

Any woman who's on the dating apps these days has a ton of options. So if you're not building attraction with her QUICKLY, there's a good chance she's going to ghost you. Normally, this means game over as blowing up her phone and acting needy will only make her less attracted to you. But did you know there actually is a way to re-initiate with a woman who's gone cold by using Mark's "Black Hole Te...

You might not realize it at first, but every single question a girl asks you, and every question you ask a girl is an opportunity to demonstrate value and elicit massive attraction in her. There is no such thing as a boring conversation once you always know what to say. With Mark's decades of experience, he's been able to distill this concept into a 3-part question/answer protocol that you can lea...

When talking to women, you are the one who's responsible for keeping things fun and entertaining. This isn't always easy when the woman has no game and is asking you generic, boilerplate questions. In today's episode, Mark explains how you can morph boring questions into an engaging and attraction-building conversation by answering in ways that are playful while simultaneously demonstrating your v...

Something all men need to understand is that when they talk to women, the burden of performance is on them. Ultimately it's you, the man, who needs to lead the conversation and you are the one who is responsible for making sure you both have a good time. If a woman brings up a topic which leads the conversation to a boring place, she'll call you boring, and all she'll remember is that she didn't h...

On the surface, Dan Bilzerian's life looks like every man's dream. Money, hot women, yacht parties, everything you could ever wish for! But after a decade of living this dream, has it provided Dan the fulfillment he was expecting? After a few candid interviews, you might be surprised by the answer. In today's episode, Mark offers his perspective on Dan's high-octane lifestyle and the myriad of pit...

It doesn't matter how cool you are with people, it's inevitable that you're going to have some arguments. Whether it's your girl coming unpeeled because you didn't agree to meet her for the 457th time that week, an angry Karen who's mad at how you parked, or the insecure guy at the bar trying to AMOG you so he can impress that 3/10 sea donkey. It's an inevitable part of life. Participating in thes...

Lots of guys struggle to strike up interesting conversations when cold approaching women. This can be due to a mixture of nerves, lack of experience, or incorrect body language and tonality. So having a good idea of how a conversation should flow in order to pique her interest and get her invested in you is vital. Mark calls this "The Social Hook Point," and in today's episode, he's going to expla...

While confidence and believing in yourself are good things, when taken too far, this can turn into the belief that you are superior, that you're better than women, and the reason you're not achieving success with them is that they aren't smart enough to understand you. This egoic belief system is not only untrue, but it's also a huge barrier that sits between you and the women you want to be attra...

Testosterone is the superhero hormone of manhood, ensuring muscles bulk up, energy levels are high, and the elite commando between your legs is always ready for battle. Without good testosterone levels, your life as a man is going to be pretty lackluster. But did you know that seemingly inconspicuous products we use and activities that we partake in every single day actively harm our own testoster...

In  today's  world, women  are inundated  with men to choose from. With social media connecting everyone and dating apps that flood women with options, you need to make a strong impression  or   you'll  be forgotten  along with all the other boring men she encounters every day. The good news is that most men are so boring and  don't  have a strong personality ,  it's  pretty easy to stand out from...

You heard it right! Farting in front of girls, when executed in the correct manner, can actually be a tool to help you build frame and demonstrate that you have unfathomable amounts of confidence. Don't believe us? Then listen to this episode where Mark explains why men who are top-level girl magnets do this and how farting in front of girls is actually an elite seduction tool. Apply for Mark's 3-...

One of the biggest barriers preventing men from developing the skills needed to become incredible with women is the illusion that it's a massive, unattainable goal. The reality is that being good with women is not exclusive to those who dedicate 10 hours a day to practicing. No, not only is it achievable, it often requires much less work than you might think! To help put this goal into perspective...

We know that women want to be with a quality man who has a good personality and a strong frame. However, it's not always easy to convey these traits to a woman when you have limited time together. By allowing her to see how much other women desire you, you provide instant confirmation that you are a quality man. After all, why would all these other women want you too if you weren't a bona fide leg...

One of the primary reasons why men struggle with women is because we use logic to try and appeal to them. Surely by giving her everything she wants and being a good boy, she's going to fall in love with me, right? Nothing could be further from the truth, when you over-supplicate and confirm to a woman, she ends up losing both respect and attraction for you. All you will do is turn into someone you...

As a Neuro-Linguistic Programming Specialist, Mark is the only dating coach who's able to systematically eliminate negative meta-programs, archetypes, and schemas that are preventing you from reaching your full potential both in life and with women. But NLP is not a commonly used technique among dating coaches which sparks a lot of curiosity from people who want to understand how this whole thing...

We've all experienced that moment of crippling self-doubt before approaching a woman. What if she laughs at me? What if her friends laugh at me? What if Channel 4 news broadcasts a story on how badly I embarrassed myself in front of a beautiful woman? The reality is that approach anxiety is hardwired into our DNA as a protection mechanism. But by understanding where anxiety comes from and what it...

There is an intrinsic link between core masculine virtues and having women find you attractive. No matter how much game you study, or how many pickup lines you memorize, if you are not fundamentally a masculine man, women aren't going to feel that base-level desire to be near you. This is a fundamental that so many guys miss, they study game before having grown into a truly masculine man. So to se...

A lot of time is spent on the Unapologetic Man Podcast teaching you to how handle women while they try to test and frame-check you. But something you're also going to have to deal with out in the nightclubs and bars is other men trying to out-Alpha you. They're going to try and flex up on you to look superior and get women's attention. But you're an Unapologetic Man, you're not going to stand for...

During any interaction with a woman, the burden of performance is on you to keep yourself in the masculine position. Many guys relinquish this position without even realizing it by submitting to women's requests. While a woman asking for a favor is not necessarily an implicit frame test, being too quick to perform favors at a woman's request will make her think she's got control over you. But you...

Something you MUST learn to deal with if you want to become good with women is frame checks. These are essentially a way for women to test how secure you are as a man. They'll make comments about your clothes, question why you are doing something, or give you small, seemingly unnecessary criticisms. Most women aren't even aware they do this, but it's part of their biological wiring to test for cra...

The importance of simply feeling good as you move through life cannot be overstated. Maintaining good energy, or good vibrations, will permeate out into every aspect of your day and objectively improve almost every facet of your life. Especially when it comes to your interactions with women! But, life's hard sometimes, there's no way around it. So it's not always easy to maintain good vibrations a...

In the early stages of talking to a woman, you're probably trying to make a connection, get her into her emotions, and to open up with you. While these are all good things, a common trap guys find themselves stuck in is becoming the person she uses to complain and download all her issues onto. Not only is it miserable to hang out with someone who constantly complains, but if you become her emotion...