The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast , Nick and Amy uncover the hidden “superpowers” we all wish our spouses had! Not talking about flying or X-ray vision... although we would also love that. Amy recently ran a poll asking husbands and wives what superpowers they secretly wish their spouse could wield in marriage, and the results spot on! Curious what your spouse secretly wishes for in...

Are you tired of arguments that spiral out of control, or do you find yourself having the same arguments over and over again? Do you wish there was a better way to navigate conflict in your marriage without resentment, frustration, or toxicity? In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast , Nick and Amy share the transformative advice they wish they had known earlier in their own marriage with...

In our last episode, we sat down with Monica Tanner to explore the bad marriage advice many of us have been given, advice that can quietly undermine even the strongest relationships. This week, Nick and Amy dive deeper into the topic in The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast , sharing more examples of the misguided guidance that couples often hear and the real impact it can have on a marriage. Tune in as N...

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast , we dive deep into the often overlooked and sometimes misguided world of marriage advice with Monica Tanner , the brilliant mind behind the eye-opening new book, Bad Marriage Advice . Monica pulls back the curtain on the most common pieces of advice we’ve all heard, and sometimes blindly followed, and she explains why these “tips” could actually be...

Have you ever felt like you and your spouse speak completely different love languages? Maybe you crave words of affirmation while they’re all about acts of service. Or perhaps your need for physical touch feels invisible while they’re busy showing love in ways that don’t resonate with you. In this episode, we dive deep into the reality of opposite love languages in marriage, why they happen, why t...

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into a fun and eye-opening discussion: what counts as bare minimum in marriage, and what truly deserves princess or prince treatment? We go through real-life examples, giving flowers, planning surprise date nights, foot rubs, sending appreciation texts, initiating intimacy, cooking meals just because, and more, and ask each other whether ea...

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into one of the most common struggles couples face: keeping score in marriage. So many couples reach out to us feeling overwhelmed and frustrated because things don’t feel “50/50. in their marriage. One spouse feels like they’re doing more, and resentment begins to creep in. The harder they try to keep score, and keep things equal...

Mathew 6:28 "But I say unto you, That Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in is heart." We have got a ton of people contacting us about this subject so we decided we needed to share our thoughts on this with you. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast , Nick and Amy dive into the tough but important topic of lusting after some...

Emotional safety is the foundation of lasting intimacy and trust in marriage. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into what it really means to feel safe with your spouse, and being able to share thoughts, feelings, and vulnerabilities without fear of judgment or rejection. We’ll explore the signs of emotional safety, the common behaviors that destroy it, and practical ways to...

Do You Love Me as Much as the Kids? A Conversation Every Couple Needs  One of our friends recently asked his wife, “Do you love me as much as the kids?” and it sparked a powerful conversation about love, priorities, and intimacy in marriage. Many husbands have shared with us, through messages or emails, that sometimes they feel like they come after everything else, especially the kids. And yes, th...

In this episode, we dive into a topic that’s often whispered about but rarely discussed openly—sexual intimacy aids and the powerful role they can play in relationships. Far from being just “toys,” these tools can help couples communicate better, deepen emotional connection, and reignite passion that may have faded into routine. We explore ten key ways intimacy aids can strengthen partnerships—fro...

When most people think about sexual libido, the first thought often goes straight to the physical aspect of things such as “Why doesn’t my spouse have any sex drive?” or “Something must be wrong with them physically.” But what if a spouses desire to be sexual (libido) really isn't physical, but is tied to how they feel emotionally connected? In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast ,...

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast , we (Nick and Amy) dive into a common concern we hear from many husbands: “Intimate Time Feels Like a Moving Target!" For some couples, intimacy seems to come with a long checklist such as chores finished, the house spotless, kids taken care of, emotional connection felt, and the right mood set... before intimate time is even an option. While...

"What We Feed Grows, And What We Starve Dies" - This is one of our favorite quotes from our good friends Greg and Julie Gorman with Married For A Purpose. We love this quote because it is so powerful and true! In marriage, our thoughts, beliefs, and attitudes act like seeds, what we feed our thoughts grows stronger (good or bad), what we starve our thoughts dies.  Your thoughts truly sha...

This episode is intended for couples in a healthy relationship who are looking to create better sexual balance in their marriage. Sexual intimacy is a very important aspect of a healthy and thriving marriage. However, many if not most couples find themselves in a dynamic where one spouse has a higher sex drive than the other. This is completely normal, as no two people have the exact same libido....

One of the most common things we hear from couples is that their marriage isn't fun, flirty or passionate anymore, and that they just feel like roommates.  Marriage doesn’t have to be all serious, it CAN be fun, flirty, and full of laughter! In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast , we explore how playfulness and connection can deepen your intimacy and strengthen your marriage. We’re...

Many of us grew up learning about sex through a worldly lens, leaving us with feelings of guilt, shame, or discomfort around sexual intimacy. But the truth is: sex is a beautiful, natural expression of connection. It’s a way for couples to be truly vulnerable with one another, like no other relationship allows. In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast , we dive into the powerful truth that...

Your first thought may be "what mistakes could happen after making love?" What happens after sexual intimacy can be just as important as the intimate moment itself. Yet many couples unknowingly make mistakes that can lead to disconnection, hurt feelings, or missed opportunities for deeper connection. In this episode, Nick and Amy share the six most common mistakes couples make after bein...

Why dedicate an entire episode to kissing? Because this simple, sweet act is packed with incredible benefits for your relationship and your health! Did you know that kissing can burn calories, strengthen your immune system, and even boost your mood by reducing depression? Plus, research shows couples who kiss often tend to enjoy stronger, more connected marriages. In this fun episode, Nick and Amy...

We were sitting on the couch the other night laughing about how much of our daily life as a married couple could sometimes be straight out of a sitcom. No one writes this stuff... it just happens in our house.🤣 In this podcast episode we share the funny things that happen in our marriage and with our kids that make us wonder "are we the only ones that do these things?" For example: Do y...

We often hear about how a lack of intimacy affects men, but what about the women? What happens when he’s the one with little to no sexual desire? Or if a wife is withholding or doesn't want sexual intimacy? Either scenario, the negative impacts are the same. A man’s healthy sex drive often fuels romance, emotional connection, and the drive to pursue and cherish his wife. But when that is miss...

Let’s be real, marriage comes with a whole lot of love... and a few cringe-worthy things we didn’t sign up for. From open-mouth chewing to chronic nagging to that "Thanks-for-nothing" attitude, sometimes the smallest things can flip the switch from turned on to totally turned off.  In this episode, we share "your" poll answers on the things that really turn you off. These are t...

You've heard us talk about how different men and women are when it comes to sexual desires, and what puts a husband or wife in the mood. Men can be ready to go at any moments notice, and sex for most men is the way they feel loved, and gives them the validation that they are loved. For women, they need to feel loved before they are going to have the desire for sexual intimacy. For a woman to...

This might just be one of our most powerful and influential episodes we have ever done packed with insight, wisdom, and practical tools that apply to every marriage , no matter where you are in your relationship journey. In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Tamara Fackrell, a divorce attorney, author, and PhD in Marriage & Family Relationships. Yes, you read that right! A divorce attorney w...

Is Your Date Night Falling Flat? Or… are you skipping it altogether? In this fun episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast , Nick and Amy dive into how to turn your average date night into a great night! They’ll share real answers from couples in their latest poll, fresh ideas for planning unforgettable nights, and the dos and don’ts that can make or break your time together. If your date nights ha...