The Trauma of Abuse

More shocking practices- discussion . Let me know your experiences by contacting me on Facebook messenger and on the Facebook page or group called ‘The trauma of abuse podcast’

I have written some materials for those of us that have or are experiencing abusive bad practices and how that might play out. What is important understand or expect. How do we cope with the aftermath and effects once we have been through this ordeal

This week on the Facebook page and in my personal writing ✍️ about and for survivors. I am talking about how traumatised victims of family court cope. In a series about how do we cope how have we survived dealing with these various situations involving bullying, trapping, abusive behaviour in settings like these that still exist .

Discussing the fundamental problem with family law approaches . The belief systems that are harmful to traumatised people leaving situations. Anyone should be able to be free from forced relations and forced families. While we leave happy relationships alone to thrive and be free from state or dictatorship control or practices. Have a look at the trauma of abuse Facebook page. Check out my post ....

Hi get in touch if you would like to share your everyday experiences of hatred , misogyny or abuse, scams, bullies etc. You can message me on Facebook messenger or @traumaofabuse The trauma of abuse podcast Facebook page. Or if you would like to donate to support us and others .

Heartfelt moment to reach out to women on mother’s day

Discussing intrusion and encroachment in people’s lives how can we maintain boundaries and why is their bad advice and no service available to provide safety , maintaining boundaries, right to privacy and respect.

Hi everyone welcome back. Hope you are all coping. Just a quick podcast before the new year and a video for you all to watch on The Trauma of Abuse Fb page and group. Don’t forget to contact me or check out on the page how to donate to helping victims and survivors plus spreading awareness and education to those in services . Thank you 🙏🏼

Welcome back and wishing you all well over the Christmas period. Don’t forget to self care 💆‍♀️ my friends 😊

How does a woman experience motherhood through DV trauma and abuse . How do women’s first encounters with predators look . Share your stories with me @traumaofabuse and Trauma of abuse podcast. Hope this is an education to professionals who have a stereotype of how motherhood or separation looks .

This is the human resource for those surviving family court, social workers and lawyers etc. The reality vs the Myths we are told. How to be prepared for the bullying stress or fear and confusion. The strange things that have been reported to go on. From a woman and mother’s perspective rather than what we are told by lawyers , Cafcass, GALs , charities and society in general. Also I hope for thos...

I’m getting sick of hearing people dismissing, criticising, smear campaigning, labelling, gaslighting and bullying mothers. Let’s put a stop to it.

What next , after experiencing all this hell? Well putting all our experiences into a book 📚 that’s what. To help others and to raise the profile and issue we women face. Feeling so positive. See Fb page for more information. Join me for a chat and a live soon .

Empower yourself and others and make sense of what could happen, is happening, has happened with free and low cost access to information re family law and your rights/ responsibilities

Today’s episode covers the basics of requesting information about yourself or your children. How to put in a request. What to expect.

The term “ Body Count” how language is used to control women .

Tell me more about your experience of stalking. How to make a plan. How to recognise it. Where to get help. How to get help and what to expect

Thanks everyone for sharing with me your stories, information and facts about your experiences. I can collect this to update and educate . Hope you are all off to a positive January start and able to access my Fb page too. The trauma of abuse podcast Fb page . For further information, interest and how to contact me.

I’m often asked how can I avoid a bad relationship again or how can I decide if I should leave a bad situation. Apology if this recording is quiet may need headphones and I have a chest infection when recording. So not as clear as usual. Be sure to visit my trauma of abuse Facebook page .

Hi everyone, thanks for all your input into my research. I’m offering individual support and help to people who want help with documentation and understanding the system etc. get in touch @traumofabuse Fb page message The Trauma of abuse. Or to Donate ( optional)

Information ℹ️ needed for research into divorce trauma and abusive practices in process . Also any information you have re specific needs of children and approaches. Health and well being impact and examples requested. Get in touch via the trauma of abuse Fb page and message me in private to share if you want to .

Visit my page: Fb.me/traumofabuse Send me a message at : m.me/traumaofabuse or contact me for details of how to donate if you wish .

Welcome back. This episode is about online, radio and groups advertising advocacy legal services for Men. The potential dangers of these influences and effects on Men, Women and children in the long term.

We are all being faced with videos and photographs and trolling comments re a man taking a woman to court because she asked for boundaries. My feelings towards this trauma inducing practice. How can we take a better perspective and approach.

Wishing everyone a happier Valentine’s Day this year. Sharing the validation that these abusers / traumas don’t make occasions easy for everyone. New look 👀 at what this day means.