The Trauma of Abuse

I share the way in which I processed the traumatic experiences I encountered and how I continue to today.

This episode discusses the positive side of social media messages we get and then some of the more negative ones. How this impacts us . How we can think for ourselves decide what is good for us and what is not.

Talking about validation of a person’s right to keep themselves safe and feel safe from intrusion and entitlement from abusers and unwanted individuals. How they may use excuses or people to gain access to you . Advice, insight and guidance for professionals and policymakers.

Series 3 episode 3 . Part 2 continues on . With how and when to think for ourselves , not necessarily others. Welcome back everyone 🤗

This podcast discusses the negativity of too much telling us what to do . It also mentions the labelling and stigma attached to people that prevents them getting any positive help. Part 1 of episode 2 series 3. Don’t forget to check out the resources on the trauma of abuse Facebook page and message me there with any information you think will help my research and future podcasts .

Welcome back everyone of my listeners survivors and insightful people. Hoping you have a positive new year and check out my Facebook page .. The trauma of abuse podcast for further materials and to share your experiences with me please message

Just a check in to tell you what topics I’ve been looking into and what has been drawn to my attention lately. Invitation to anyone with relevant true accounts of cyber grooming and topics covered here on the podcast. Contact me on Facebook page please search on Fb ‘The Trauma of Abuse podcast’ for articles and message me information.

Talking about how the language we use or accept others using about us, can enable the pursuant abuser or toxic person to think they have a right to us. Talking about changing our perspective on Christmas and holidays winter celebration after abuse and with Trauma

Introduces a Journal quoted in movement of mothers on social media and can be seen on the trauma of abuse Facebook page. By Emmiline Campbell . Available to the public free online. Re how abusers use tactics and abuse legal / processes to retain unwanted contact with victims.

The FB page is up now. Just a check in with the listeners . Gathering info and sharing. Best wishes to everyone. Louise Tickle . Link to YouTube.

What I’ve learned about the dishonesty that goes on and the sinister patterns of behaviour resulting in lies and false records . The impact that has on victims who look for help and get more harm.

Discussing the effects of toxic people with toxic behaviour. Call them Narcissistic or whatever the label you recognise. What’s coming up next .

Group solidarity and healthy connections and discussions. Mothers forced to send children to abusers and silly advice . Control tactics like silent treatment or sulking. ITV Angela Black . Maid Netflix YouTube the imaginary gallery recommended viewing. (Trigger warning)

Dispelling some of the myths abusers and workers put about . Sharing some of the experience of trying to get people working in the system to respect you boundaries and human rights. The experience of children and mothers powerless to stop external abuse happening indirectly. Without adequate protections. Misuse of relationship support and meetings can result in advantage of the abuser and wrongful...

Continuing the mummy diaries. True accounts from personal records and experiences of mum and child not being listened to. Averting domestic abuse and it’s impact on others

Welcome back. This episode shares real life medical opinions on a woman traumatised by facing her abuser in court proceedings. I also relate and refer to my own personal diaries of not being heard and a child who was not heard. This is only part one and a part two will continue to give examples and true life extracts of personal experiences and personal records never heard before. (Recommends a Me...

Discussing and addressing the possible theories behind problems in attitudes in the system and individuals . Where do they come from . Why are strange things happening?

Just suggesting some interesting reading and watching material for listeners. Some useful positive tools for good training and improvement to asking the right questions.

Discussing the push and pressure put on victims and survivors to enter mediation. The harm it can further and facilitate.

An episode sharing insight into the problems of attitudes, towards mothers and victims, by unaccountable services. How perpetrators of abuse and trauma behave. How the two can overlap.

Talking about people’s real experiences of poor services and how they can do better. What alternatives are there.

Rounding off our season 1 of this podcast. If you would like to contribute to funding the time and resources to support victims and survivors going through some of the issues discussed in this podcast . Please go to just giving . Com website and search for Hannah Barnard trauma podcast. You will see a photo of us with ‘future’ on a sweatshirt. DONATE what you can to support others and educate and...

This is a brief imagery and philosophical thought for the day . How to picture the destructive forces in life and how to feel empowered after stepping away from injustice or malpractice. Clear the debris and get creative.

Reference to BBC iPlayer’s is Uni Racist? Discuss first hand witness to everyday racism and cultural attitudes, we hold to each other. How can we deal with situations better and how can we re-evaluate the way we respond to being made aware of this.

Continuing on from previous podcast episodes. This is an extract of writing I have done under the book title of ‘Adult Tantrums’ for entertainment of the listeners. A story unfolding.