The Synchrony Podcast

All of us come into our marriages with assumptions and expectations for what it will be like, and only some of those expectations end up matching the reality of what couples build together. In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss some of the expectations they brought into their marriage that ended up crumbling in the early years, and what that taught them about their shared values and priorities...

If God knew that Adam needed a helpmeet, why was he created alone? What is the biggest personality killer that limits relationships, and why is love the opposite of fear? In this week's podcast, Megan and Steven dive into these questions and many more with Dr. Joshua Abrego, Assistant Professor at Christian Life College and the host of The Certain Sound podcast. Thank you Dr. Abrego for joining us...

We've heard about why Singles conferences aren't great for dating, but what would an Apostolic event look like that WAS a great dating opportunity? In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss some exciting events on the horizon and why Singles Ministries and churches should consider offering more that are like them.  Singles Chat, West Palm Beach, FL Join us on Saturday, April 5th 2025 for a si...

We've covered the pros and cons of matchmaking before, but not in light of the patterns we've seen after analyzing hundreds of surveys and interviews with Apostolic Singles. In this episode, Megan and Steven break down matchmaking in comparison to the other options available to Apostolic Singles and reiterate why doing things differently may be the right choice.  Want to Come Chat in Person?...

What if we told you that mastering three very learnable skills could make you more attractive as a dating partner, more successful in your career, and more dynamic in your ministry? In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss three skills that almost every Apostolic woman has mentioned in her Synchrony interview as key aspects of what she's seeking in a partner. They also give some recommendations f...

Steven and Megan went to a conference just for Apostolic Singles! What they found there surprised them.  Check out the Texas District Singles Conference pages on Facebook for sermon clips and resources! Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guide Here!   https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/from-singles-to-shepherds #Synchpin Registration:   https://the-synchrony-projec...

At the beginning of 2025, Megan and Steven launched a survey to gather data about singles' experiences with loneliness to help give Pastors and church leaders insight into its impact on the Church. In this episode, the unpack some of the data from the 500+ survey responses. Pastors--please take time to listen to this, and reach out to us with questions! Get the From Singles, to Shepherds Info Guid...

How do I get out of the dreaded "friendzone?" Why is the woman I'm interested in sending me mixed signals? Why are the expectations for men so astronomically high? In this episode, Megan and Steven chat about these questions and other FAQ's they've heard from Apostolic guys who are doing their best to navigate a wild dating culture. Send us more questions on Instagram or through the email below! A...

What makes Apostolic dating truly different from Worldly dating? In this episode, Megan and Steven break down the 10 Principles of Apostolic Dating that they wished everyone understood before they launched into a dating relationship. Send this to your youth leaders and teenage loved ones! Apostolic and Single?   Take the "From Singles, to Shepherds" survey now! https://forms.gle/KTt8UZEMA8ipH...

Trigger Warning: diet culture, disordered eating, body image. Dating in a fat body is different than dating in a thin body, and is in some ways much more difficult. Our dating culture has internalized the thin preference that is deeply rooted in Western culture, and that preference leaves many people struggling to find someone who appreciates their body and sees them as an attractive potentia...

We've collected survey data from 427 Apostolic singles so far, and the data is starting to show us some interesting trends. In this episode, Steven and Megan answer questions like: where do most Synchrony respondents come from? What is the racial and ethnic breakdown of the respondent pool? How many respondents are in each age group, and how many are male/female? We're also giving away someth...

  In the final episode of 2025, Megan and Steven discuss the surprising reasons why it may or may not be a good idea for you to consider dating a single parent. Spoiler: if you're avoiding it entirely, you could be missing out! Thanks to everyone for listening this year.  2024 End-of-Year Sale : You can get 40% of your Apostolic Matchmaking Consultation by applying the code: LONELY_SNOW_...

Apostolic and Single? Take the "From Singles, to Shepherds" survey now! https://forms.gle/KTt8UZEMA8ipHreTA In this episode, Megan and Steven introduce what may be the largest initiative they've undertaken to understand the Apostolic single experience. We'll be using the survey above to gather as much data as we can about the impact of Loneliness on our Singles, and the consequent impact on the Ch...

The holidays are rough if you're a Single Apostolic person OR a feral South Florida iguana, and we're here to support you in either case. In this short and sweet episode, Megan and Steven talk some tips for making it through the holidays without falling into temptation or angering the wildlife. 2024 End-of-Year Sale: You can get 40% of your Apostolic Matchmaking Consultation by applying the code:...

How easy is it to meet someone at Bible College? How does it feel to date as an Apostolic after dating in the World? How likely are you to meet someone at your national youth events? Are there any great singles left in the Church? These are just a few of the questions we cover with the five young Singles we chatted with at ALJC National Youth Convention. Special thanks to Connor, Sarah, Emmanuel,...

Our end of year sale launches FRIDAY, 11/29! Scroll for details. Does using a matchmaker subvert the will of God? In this special interview, Megan and Steven sit down with Pastor and Apostolic thought-leader Rev. Jimmy Toney, who happens to also be their shepherd. Get ready for lots of laughs, some unfiltered opinions, and a wealth of wisdom on how the Church can address loneliness and build Kingd...

So you've been "talking" for weeks now, and all signs seem to point to the fact that both of you want more. How do you take this new relationship into "official" territory? In this episode, Steven and Megan break down the healthy, adult conversation that can propel your connection into a dating relationship. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://sync...

We've romanticized the idea of being swept off our feet by one look across a crowded room, but sometimes love blossoms more slowly, with better results. In this episode, Megan and Steven are joined by their dear friends Rev. Jennifer Peyton and Rev. Johnnie Peyton (EdD), whose commitment to their values of ministry and spiritual education drew them together gradually. Their story bucks all of the...

What if the way you're choosing potential dates is actually what's keeping you from finding someone? You could be prioritizing something that scripture warns us not to care too much about, and it could keep you from the spouse that you need. In this episode, Megan and Steven launch into a spirited, unfiltered conversation about the idol that most singles are secretly worshipping--even if they don'...

This is the second in a two-part series about identifying values, and this time Megan and Steven are talking all about how you can ascertain what someone else's values are early on in a dating relationship. They'd like to make a special shoutout to Killer Whales for making this episode possible.  Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronypr...

What are your values, and why do they matter to your dating journey? The Synchrony Approach revolves around identifying and utilizing your values to match you with great dating partners. In this episode, Megan and Steven break down what your values are and why they matter to your relationships. There's more on this to come, so stay tuned for part 2!     Interested in working with an Apos...

If the phrase "break up" makes you feel a bit squeamish, you probably need to listen to this episode. Healthy dating sometimes involves moving on when a relationship is no longer working, and very few of us are taught how to do it well. In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss reasons why you may need to consider breaking off a relationship and how to do it in an Apostolic way. Spoiler: ghosting...

So, you met someone interesting--great! You're now in the "talking" phase, which is exciting, but also full of potential pitfalls and presents a real opportunity to slip unwittingly into a dreaded 'situationship.' In order to make this connection progress to a fulfilling relationship, you need to take some steps to make this period of time count, and move out of it quickly. In this episode, Megan...

Humans look for signals, patterns, premonitions, and signs in everything, and sometimes we use those patterns to confirm what we want--not what God wants for us. In this episode Megan and Steven share their raw testimonies of how misreading 'signs' from the Lord led them down dark paths in their dating relationships, and how leaning on the Word led them back to Godly dating and ultimately, to each...

If you're single in an Apostolic social space, it can be nearly impossible to know who around you is available for a dating relationship. We're making that easier! In this episode, Megan and Steven introduce Synchrony Pins (aka Synchpins), a wearable accessory that is EXCLUSIVELY for Apostolic Singles. Get yours for free at UPCI General Conference by visiting the Kaffe117 Booth, or register to hav...