The Susan Winter Show

Adventure Tube writes, “Hey Susan could you please make a video about bickering and what are your thoughts about it, and how do we deal with our emotions when somebody is so negative and holds onto everything!??”

Viewer Ceri writes, “Dear Susan, can you please share some practical methods one can possibly use to stop obsessively thinking about someone? Thank you so much!” Here's the adjustment you need to get out of the loop of mental obsession and move forward.

All new relationships have fits and starts. There will be gaps in communication, times you're left wondering if they still care, false cues and confusing moves. Here's how to keep your calm and maintain the connection (without blowing up the bridge).

Viewer Beauty Means writes, “Thank you Susan. I always benefit from your advice. I have a question: Can a relationship be successful if the partners have different interests and the woman is of much better education than the man?” My answer shows you how to gain balance and focus on the best your mate has to offer.

We all have insecurities. What may be a minor concern can become magnified as a major issue within a relationship. Here's how to handle the fears and self-judgment that arise when in partnership, and see yourself in positive and accurate light.

The hallmark of self-acceptance and self-love is to be able to stand in front of someone and be completely transparent and open. This is the exact opposite of hot and cold partners. Learn the secret they're hiding from you to turn the tables on the game.

Emilia Bianco writes, “When you're getting to know someone, you like them but you're not yet in love, how do you manage that and avoid hurting them, and how long should it take?” Here's my answer to your question on personal responsibility and expectations.

You know they want you. So why do they pretend they don't? Learn why your partner's self-protection gives you false clues, and uncover what they're really feeling.

Janet L writes, “Hi Susan, hope you're well. Speaking of break ups, could you do a video on why an ex wants to stay in touch? Is it to keep their options open, someone to talk to, booty calls, something more? (I'm speaking about men wanting this and I'm sure women do too) tx!”

Viewer Michelle Grenier who writes, “Hi Susan!  Can you make a video on tips for online dating for women over 40 or the red flags to spot in men online?” How does one mate and date over 40? Here's my general advice for both sexes, and my specific answer to Michelle.

We often fail to properly categorize our love interests, especially when a relationship ends. If we assume they were “The One,” we'll agonize their loss. But, were they? Really? Here's how to decode your true mate from a prototype, and apply that benefit to your future.

Why does your partner pull away the minute you finally relax? Learn the shocking reason for this dating game and regain your serenity with calm and confidence.

Viewer Follow My Logic writes, “I've heard it said over and over that according to research a woman is ‘more attracted to a man whose feelings are unclear'. Is this true in your experience? Might this be true with women of a certain age, more so than other ages?” Learn why this “appears” to be the case, but isn't.

Feeling like a non-priority? The goal isn't to make yourself okay with being treated badly, but to know our rights and speak up. Here's how to ask the right questions and incentivize the right treatment.

Claire asks, “How does one get over the anger of a failed relationship? I think I'm healing well, then this bubble of anger erupts when I think of him in an unguarded moment. At the end of the day, all he's actually guilty of is preferring someone else over me.  Any advice you can give would be appreciated.“

Here's the key to knowing how to navigate ‘game' and cut through dating confusion.  Learn how to clear out the conflicting voices of those around you, and discover the real truth of what you have with your partner.

Richard Gonzalez asks, “Hi Susan I really love the advice that you give I would appreciate (and I'm sure other viewers of your Channel would too) — your thoughts on how to handle a on-and-off relationship that's been going on for a few months or a few years I would really love your Insight on it.” Learn how to get through (and beyond) what keeps breaking you up.

Tired of being relegated to a ‘limited relationship?' Here's what you need to know in order to expand your connection and still show up as ALL that you are.

Viewer Bang Bang writes, “What's the difference between deflectors, the confused and game players?” With all the games that funnel through as bad behavior, here's the breakdown of the big 3 you need to know.

How concerned should you be if you find your partner looking? How much is normal? Here are the signs that signify ‘looking' denotes serious interest. This is part 2 of a conversation from my interview with International Business Times TV/Medical Daily: The Wandering Eye: Why We Check Other People Out In Front Of Our Partner http://video.ibt.com/wandering-eye-why-we-check-other-people-out-front-our...

Flowerdiva 18 writes, “Susan, how do we deal with a partner's ex that hasn't fully left their life? I'm dealing with this ex that I haven't met, and she keeps meddling in my boyfriend's life and he doesn't even realize it. I don't want to set ultimatums: it's me of her, but I find it a constant irritant that she's still manipulating him. Thank you Susan!” Here's my answer to solving this dilemma.

When did we contort the meaning of “telling the truth” to equate being vulnerable? Here's why being direct is a powerful technique for creating of partnership with a foundation of authentic connection.

Lionheart07writes: Do economic differences turn off an older woman from a younger guy? I'm worried that the money issue (or lack thereof) could be a deal breaker. My answer shows you how to make this type of dynamic work in your favor.

Do you want to eliminate your partner's confusion? You must do what your partner cannot. You must be clear to inspire their awareness. You must be direct to inspire their direct communication.  And you must be comfortable to say what you want and need out of the relationship so that they, in turn, can adopt the same level of comfort in sharing their truth with you.

Viewer Alexandra asks, “For those of us who want to get a real partner for a real relationship — which are the right steps to achieve this? How do we spot the right man for that, or right woman?”. Learn why the foundation of your relationship is created by the foundation of your thoughts.