The Susan Winter Show

Marlena writes, “Hi Susan. Hope all is well. I've been watching your videos and you're really awesome! My question is; I'm in a 9-year relationship off and on. My partner told me he needed time to see other people this year in order to make a decision at the end of the year to formalize our relationship. How would you handle a situation like this??! I am frustrated and confused....”

We'll never be free to love when our focus is the fear of getting hurt. That outlook negates happiness as it keeps our guard up and locks love out. Here's how to make smart choices and trust yourself.

Viewer Lola writes, “Hi Susan! How do you move on from rejection and not let it affect your self worth?”  Though your ego is bruised, one person doesn't determine your worth. Here's how to process what occurred and move forward.

Jelena Gavranovic writes, “Dear Susan, Nearly all men I date send out a strong signal that they want to take me to bed. I'm sometimes at a loss in finding the balance between taking time to get to know someone, or the instant attraction (happened once) where it all went too quickly and after 3 months he said he wasn't ready to commit. Must attraction be there from the very beginning? And if so, at...

Viewer Torrie T writes, “Hi Susan. I've held this question in my heart for many years and would love to hear your advice. How do you move forward in dating/relationships after a history of sexual trauma (any type). I know this is a touchy subject, but I believe that you give wise, insightful counsel. I would truly appreciate your input. Thanks!”

We've all heard the phrase, “Love conquers all.” That can be true — when both partners are unified in their goals and dreams. Love is not enough when the price you pay is compromising your own goals and dreams. Here's how to know when you've given too much.

Viewer Erica K writes, “Hi Susan. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us:) I have been dating a guy from Tinder for 8 months now and he recently asked to be exclusive and ”more serious”. I asked him if he still uses Tinder, he said no.(I deleted my profile a long time ago) Yesterday I found out that he still is on Tinder and it really is bugging me and I feel really sad. How do I confront him w...

Viewer Maryam writes, “How to deal or empower yourself when you finally find someone you think you deserve, but you keep doubting yourself and your ability to secure happiness?” Thanks Maryam! Here's the technique I use to eradicate limiting thoughts and rewrite my inner directives.

Viewer Sam King writes, “Do you think you can make us a video regarding why do we still love people who do not love us back ??????? i love your work , you are awesome in every way. “ Learn how you can turn the pain into strength by spinning a win from your loss.

Viewer Maryam writes, “How can I avoid getting down and depressed when I experience challenge after challenge in dating, and see that most of my friends have found their match much easier. “ Here's the antidote to this negative thought and how to avoid feeling despair.

George Wolf writes, “Hi Susan! I have a suggestion for a video — haven't seen it covered on your channel yet. How to handle dating in the workplace? Should it be avoided? If we are to proceed, how would you handle it? Many thanks and wishing you the best!”

Has your partner become complacent? Are they taking you for granted, bored or losing interest? Here's how to reboot your relationship and reactivate their passion, interest and desire.

The nagging question of self-love leaves many daters feeling defeated. What if we don't fully love ourselves? Does it exclude us from finding love? Remove the pressure to be perfect and learn how this natural process occurs throughout life (to aid you in all your goals).

Adventure Tube writes, “Hey Susan could you please make a video about bickering and what are your thoughts about it, and how do we deal with our emotions when somebody is so negative and holds onto everything!??”

Viewer Ceri writes, “Dear Susan, can you please share some practical methods one can possibly use to stop obsessively thinking about someone? Thank you so much!” Here's the adjustment you need to get out of the loop of mental obsession and move forward.

All new relationships have fits and starts. There will be gaps in communication, times you're left wondering if they still care, false cues and confusing moves. Here's how to keep your calm and maintain the connection (without blowing up the bridge).

Viewer Beauty Means writes, “Thank you Susan. I always benefit from your advice. I have a question: Can a relationship be successful if the partners have different interests and the woman is of much better education than the man?” My answer shows you how to gain balance and focus on the best your mate has to offer.

We all have insecurities. What may be a minor concern can become magnified as a major issue within a relationship. Here's how to handle the fears and self-judgment that arise when in partnership, and see yourself in positive and accurate light.

The hallmark of self-acceptance and self-love is to be able to stand in front of someone and be completely transparent and open. This is the exact opposite of hot and cold partners. Learn the secret they're hiding from you to turn the tables on the game.

Emilia Bianco writes, “When you're getting to know someone, you like them but you're not yet in love, how do you manage that and avoid hurting them, and how long should it take?” Here's my answer to your question on personal responsibility and expectations.

You know they want you. So why do they pretend they don't? Learn why your partner's self-protection gives you false clues, and uncover what they're really feeling.

Janet L writes, “Hi Susan, hope you're well. Speaking of break ups, could you do a video on why an ex wants to stay in touch? Is it to keep their options open, someone to talk to, booty calls, something more? (I'm speaking about men wanting this and I'm sure women do too) tx!”

Viewer Michelle Grenier who writes, “Hi Susan!  Can you make a video on tips for online dating for women over 40 or the red flags to spot in men online?” How does one mate and date over 40? Here's my general advice for both sexes, and my specific answer to Michelle.

We often fail to properly categorize our love interests, especially when a relationship ends. If we assume they were “The One,” we'll agonize their loss. But, were they? Really? Here's how to decode your true mate from a prototype, and apply that benefit to your future.

Why does your partner pull away the minute you finally relax? Learn the shocking reason for this dating game and regain your serenity with calm and confidence.