The Susan Winter Show

 Did you lose yourself (while loving your partner)? No need for guilt or shame. Regain your connection and confidence by doing this: #video #love #selflove  

  Wondering if an ‘open relationship' is right for you? Here's what needs to be in place for this type of romantic design to work: #video

  Introducing a new playlist to my YouTube channel: Top 3 Requested answers 3 viewer's questions, all centering on one theme. Today, we're examining relationship insecurity.#video #insecurity #datingadvice 



 Breakups activate our worst fears: “Will I ever find #love again? Will I be alone forever?” Here's the remedy to calm your fears and move forward with confidence and conviction. #video #breakups #alone #fears

 Are you trying to make yourself indispensable to your partner through over-giving? Learn why this tactic is bound to kill off the love you seek to secure: #video #overgiving #datingadvice   Are you doing everything for your partner so they'll see you as indispensible? Are you buying his or her love? Fixing everything, including them? Beware of this double-edged sword. You're teaching your partner...

  What's (really) happening when your long distance partner pulls away? Are they cheating? Here are the red flags, as well as exclusions:

  You want to get back with your ex. Your ex feels the same. BUT — his or her friends are blocking the way. How do you move forward? Watch this:

  Did your partner dump you because you're ‘too good to be true?' Here's why you're punished with breakup backlash for being “too perfect:”

  Tired of being taunted with hope? Here's how to counter ‘breadcrumbing' and get free from the partner that wants you on standby:

You finally spoke up, stated your needs, and now…got dumped? Here's how a narcissist will punish you for having boundaries

  You're wild for an older woman who feels the same about you. So, why did she push you away (when you know she wants you)? Here's the answer, and the remedy:

  Are you standing on the precipice of a decision to stay or leave? Worse yet, are you thinking of leaving to avoid being dumped yourself? Here's a better choice:

  Have all your friends found love, but you? You've done you inner work and know what you want. Wondering if you're ‘unlucky' in love? Before you lose hope, listen to this:

  Having trouble getting over your ex? This #video shows you how taking them off ‘the pedestal' (and seeing them accurately) helps you to move forward. #breakups #ex #movingon

Trying to make sense out of the illogical is a fool's errand. If you're exhausted trying to figure out your #partner's position, consider this approach instead: #datingadvice #confusion #mixedmessages

He couldn't wait to see you. She melted in your arms. What happened? Welcome to the dating game of pursuit and retraction: #mixedmessages #pullingaway #hotandcold You're hooked — not by who they are now, but who they were before.  The guy who texted you every morning and couldn't wait to see you. The woman who showed you affection and said she'd never felt like this before. What happened? It's the...

Why would a #partner resort to #ghosting as a form of #breakup? Here's the mindset of an escape artist, and how you can turn the tables:

  How can you tell a player from a prospective mate? If you want a committed relationship, here's what you need to know: #players #love #partnerselection 
Maria writes, “Hi Susan. First and foremost, thank you for your advice and open dialogue on each and every video.  Those of us who actively want a serious committed relationship and be there 100% have encountered and met partners who are there f...

Not sure if you can be friends with someone you've #loved in the past? The right action depends on the answer to this question: #ex #breakup #friends

Alex writes, “Is it possible to become friends with an ex-- with someone you once loved? I can't help but think: Why waste love? Why become strangers? I long for her in my life. We broke up due to incompatibility (age) and it was a loving breakup. E...

If your #partner say's they need time, should you wait? If so, how long? Here's how to know if your #relationship is worth the wait: #video #wait #moveon 
Skyler writes, “Met this guy on a hook-up site. It's been a few weeks now we regularly spend time together, in and out of the house. We cuddle and kiss but he will not have sex with me again. Says he's in a time of transition and doesn't want to...

  At one point, your #date couldn't get enough of you. Now, they've pulled away.  Here's why they've lost interest (and what you can do about it).#video #datingadvice #pullingaway   Your partner thought you were exciting. Now you've lost your lustre, and you're no longer a priority. Why are you suddenly devalued? Here's what happened, and here's how to reestablish your worth.

Susan writes, “Hi Susan. I want say a big thank you to you first. I had a big awakening experience after I watched your videos. I allowed people who I loved to walk over my feelings, devalue me, and I'd always forgive them. I suffered and kept quiet. I decided to walk away from the guy that I'd been dating for a year who kept hurting my feelings. A question: how to become a receiver rather than al...

Cliff writes, “Hi Susan, I love your videos. They are really helpful to me and I enjoy watching them. My question I would like you to answer in the video is about the ex bf. I like a girl, but I fear her ex bf is still on her radar and keeps appearing on all her social media, liking and commenting on every post. How to I deal with this to not let it bother me? Thank you.”

Your partner was into you but now they're pulling away. ‘Pushing' for reconnection won't work. Here's how to engage the internal shift that allows your partner to shift in correspondence, and without resistance.

Franzi writes, “Dear Susan,I was dating a young man I thought I would end up in relationship with. A year ago he was dating a woman who treated him badly. She suddenly contacted him and he decided to give it another try with her. Can feelings just reappear? Or is it something else that led him to return to her, even though she's already treating him badly again? Thanks in advance.”