The Subspace Exploration Project

In this episode Ronen, Clay, & Todd talk about our experience at Dex Ranch and how it ranks as a kink venue. What makes for a good Dungeon? It turns out that a good Dom is needed to run and maintain a good Dungeon. After some reflection we can’t give Dex more than 2 out of 5 Ball Gags. With concerns about drinking, no Dungeon Monitors, and very poor attitudes and practices around consent, we d...

In this episode Ronen, Clay, & Todd get personal and talk about their kink and BDSM inclinations centered around shame and degradation. From group play and gang bangs, to piss play and shitting in front of other people, the vulnerability of exploring and conquering shame with a partner is far more intimate than anything found in the vanilla world. the Subspace Exploration Patreon: https://patr...

In this episode Ronen, Clay, & Todd sit down with Kyssandra Myrind to talk art, kink, mental health, and healing. Kyssandra is a multifaceted life adventurer specializing in identity development, facilitating creative expression, and planting the seeds of love along the way. In our talk Kyss explains how she got started in Kink, Polyamory, and how that led to teaching various Art Therapy class...

Come with us as we take a deep dive into Kink, Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy, Sex Education, Deconstructing the Gender Binary, Queer Culture, and building Healthy Communities. the Subspace Exploration Patreon: https://patreon.com/SubspaceExploration Lee Harrington Episode: www.subspaceexploration.com/subspacepod/lee-harrington-affirmation-healing Janet Hardy Episode: https://www.subspaceexplo...

This episode is a bit of an introduction to our co-host Ronen. In it Ronen, Clay, & Todd discuss how neurodivergence, kink, and non-monogamy overlap in our lives. And, when we embrace how these things intersect we find that it can immensely improve our communication. the Subspace Exploration Patreon: https://patreon.com/SubspaceExploration Episode Page: https://www.subspaceexploration.com/subs...

In this episode of the Subspace Exploration Project Todd & Clay talked with Ancient Historian, Educator, & Erotica Author TammyJo Eckhart. TammyJo walks us through her journey of studying and experiencing kink, polyamory, and authority dynamics. TammyJo explains some of the challenges of being part of these communities and offers advice on how to make sure to take of you and your partners’...

On this episode of the Subspace Exploration Project Todd, Clay, and Ronen spoke with Nathaniel Lundin, E-RYT, human physiology nerd, about social health and it’s impact on others. In this episode, we had a great talk with our friend Nate Lundin about how community, social and political structures directly impact our health, happiness and safety. From dysphoria to anxiety to numerous other issues t...

On this episode of the Subspace Exploration Project Todd, Clay, and Ronen spoke with Amandalyn at Bloom Pleasure Coaching. Working mostly with clients that have been socialized as women, Amandalyn helps people overcome barriers to intimacy and joy that are often wrapped up in gender roles, shame and embarrassment about our bodies, and the difficulties many of us face in talking about our own wants...

On this episode of the Subspace Exploration Project Todd, Clay, and Ronen spoke with Jessica Fern, psychotherapist and author of Polysecure and co-author of Polywise. From trauma, to neurodivergence, to mental health struggles, Jessica provides amazing insights & guidance on how to understand our attachment styles and negotiate the various types of relationships in our lives. the Subspace Expl...

On this episode of the Subspace Exploration Project Todd, Clay, and Ronen spoke with renowned Author, Educator, Kink Connoisseur, and Ethical Slut, Janet Hardy. Janet literally wrote some of the first books on non-monogamy and spent decades building healthy queer communities. We talk with changes in community and culture over the course of her career, and point to several things that appear to hav...

In this episode Clay, Ronen, and Todd toured the Dex Ranch, a Kink venue outside of Eugene, Oregon. We had a chance to sit down with Ken, the owner and operator of the Ranch, to learn why he put it together, the challenges of operating such a place, and a whole lot about his experience and understanding of the joys and risks in BDSM. the Subspace Exploration Patreon: https://patreon.com/SubspaceEx...

In this episode Todd & Clay talk with Clay’s roommates on their personal experiences in kink, age-gap relationships, community building, some of the therapeutic aspects of kink, and what it takes to achieve that level of intimacy in BDSM. Ahead of the interview with the owner of Dex Ranch, Clay and Todd talk about community reputations for Kink Clubs & Dungeons, and the very real risk of c...

Todd, Clay, and Ronen had a chance to talk kink & healing with Author, Educator, and Kinkster Lee Harrington. We wade into the deep end with with Lee about Spiritual, Mental, and Emotional Exploration and Healing through Kink. From Butt Bondage to Age Play, Mental Health Challenges to Gender Affirmation, cleaning up messes for the ones we love without saying a word or playfully humiliating the...

Throughout 2011, Janet W Hardy, Jenée Wilde, and Sarah Black hosted many progressive and thoughtful voices on the podcast The Female Voice. Not exclusively Female in perspective, TFV focussed on empowerment through sex, relationships, and various approaches to intimacy: Swinging, Polyamory, Goddess Worship, Kink, BDSM, Tantra, Sexual Orientation, Gender Identity/Roles, and the spiritual & cult...

the Subspace Exploration Patreon: https://patreon.com/SubspaceExploration Todd and Clay discuss the very real therapeutic aspects of kink when approached in a safe and healthy way. Kink as Harm reduction? This is an important discussion we will be having with a number of our upcoming guests. Join us as we take a deep dive into Kink, Non-Monogamy, Sex Education, Deconstructing the Gender Binary, Qu...

the Subspace Exploration Patreon: https://patreon.com/SubspaceExploration Starting January 2024: Be prepared to let us open you up. To help you feel appreciated & understood. To be taught what it is the you need. To learn to let go, to give in to that blissful calm that you’ve been aching for. What is Ethical Non-Monogamy? How can it fit into your life with your attachment style? What is Subsp...