The Slutty Elixir

We all have expectations when it comes to dating, relationships, and sex—but where do they actually come from? In this episode of The Slutty Elixir , Mr. B explores the fantasies, assumptions, and cultural scripts that shape modern gay relationships. From stereotypes about masculinity and sexual roles to the influence of porn, social media, and hookup culture, we're unpacking the stories we tell o...

Secrets aren’t just things we hide—they’re things that shape us. In this unapologetically raw episode of Dirty Little Secrets, we get real about the lives we edit, the men we protect, and the patterns we keep repeating behind closed doors. From quiet shame to hidden relationships to the thrill of taboo, this conversation peels back the layers on what secrecy is really costing us—and why it can fee...

[EXCERPT]...There’s something interesting about fear. We don’t usually announce it. We curate around it. We compensate for it. We build personalities on top of it. And in our community… we’re very good at looking fearless. ...So today, we’re not performing. We’re not flexing. We’re not posturing. We’re talking about Big Gay Fears. The quiet personal ones. The cultural ones. The ones that shape how...

From leather harnesses to mismatched socks, from jockstraps to the fetishes you only whisper about in the dark—this episode of The Slutty Elixir goes there. Building on last week’s Hook-up Diaries , Mr. B asks not just how much sex we’re having —but what kind of sex we’re having . Join him as he dives into the most popular gay fetishes with hot takes, explores the taboo and the fringe with curiosi...

In this week’s pour of The Slutty Elixir, Mr. B cracks open the Hook-up Diaries — a candid exploration of body count, one-night stands, and the friends-with-benefits phenomenon in gay culture. From the numbers game and what they really mean, to the thrill (and reality) of casual encounters, to navigating the sweet spot — or the trap — of FWB, this episode pulls no punches. With humor, raw honesty,...

From the subtle signals that spark attraction, to the blurred lines between love and lust, and finally the making of a modern sex symbol — this episode dives headfirst into the codes of desire. Mr. B stirs up stories of misread signals (is he flirting, or just being polite?), contrasts real-life chemistry with its online “smile trap” parallel, and unpacks how sex appeal as a brand can both liberat...

Well here are are back again for a some candid, raw and much needed discussion about love sex and relationships. When it comes to relationships, nothing reveals who we are more, than a revealing look at who we've been with. In this episode I launch into the messy and ritualistic nature of exes - to poke at why we develop patterns, go back to places and people we have no business with and is it tab...

Happy pride month lovers! Welcome back to Gaylandia. What does gay pride mean to you? Well it would only make sense that it means different things to all of us. Yet, even in 2025 gay pride seems as big as a revolution as ever but it's not always rainbows and sunshine. The journey to out, is one with secrets, lies, and double lives. Let's face it, the road to 'gay and proud' is more of a gauntlet,...

This episode is called Talk to Me Nice. You know what I find sexy? I think it's sexy getting to know people, the curiosity, the flirting and the anticipation: Even if its brief, there's something about those encounters that send a rush of blood through you. For people like me, who make content for your pleasure, getting know you is what makes it fun for me and let's me know what you want to see......

When it comes to queer connections, we haven't always had the prominent culture we know today. In fact, gays over 30 probably know that the only compass available to help navigate these connections were our Basic Instincts. Whether it's flirting, finding lasting friendship or just understanding the rules of gay friends with benefits, there are spoken and unspoken rules...most of which we learn by...

Does anyone have a copy of the gay agenda because the way the conservatives talk about it, you'd think it's an actual document. Once again, we are entering what will surely be uncertain times, especially to those who make up our community and we can't just sit by and let it happen either. So what if we, the gays really had an agenda? What I do know is that it's all fun and games until we self iden...

Whether you are looking for love, in love or all loved-out, when it comes to queer relationships, it's a circus. Dating-as-a-gay, is as exciting as it is frustrating and then on the topic of finding love on apps - I think we might be ready to give arranged marriages a try. So on this Episode of the Slutty Elixir Podcast, I went down the rabbit-hole of gay dating and unconventional relationship mod...

Recorded December 23rd, 2024 this is the conclusion of Sexposé. In this episode I poke around at our relationship with porn, by discussing the ways we have changed our stance on the adult industry; the role adult content and the creators play in helping us find sexual balance and fulfillment - while confronting biased and unfair censorship; and we wrap this topic by celebrating a few of the creato...

We are back with another saucy episode of the Slutty Elixir podcast. This time around we are putting a magnifying glass in the world of sexual interactions by diving into the deep end of sex. From incognito sex, to race-play, hardcore penetration and even the psychological, we are search for the reasons behind why we want what we crave and looking for the connections between our environment, past...

This episode we are taking an all-inclusive trip to Gaylandia - The closet, the sauna and the culture of kink. I'm discussing gay people's fight for survival and the transformation we have made in the last 20 years. This is an episode about gay coming of age, in an isolated religious environment. This time around we will discuss how repression and secrecy intertwines with desire, how social media...

I wanted to begin this new journey with some intimate and personal thoughts on sexuality. This podcast is your safe space to confront the taboo, the sultry and raunchy aspects of sexuality and personal personal connections. This episode host and creator Mr. B, takes you through this philosophy and the reality of boldly stepping into his sexual power and confronts topics like, Onlyfans and online s...