The Redeemed Mess

In today’s episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy reflects on what it truly means to live with humility—especially when it comes to considering others above ourselves. Drawing from Philippians 2:3–4, she unpacks how humility isn’t about putting yourself down, but about shifting your focus off yourself and onto the needs of those around you. You’ll hear encouragement to: – Let go of assumptions and e...

In this deeply personal episode, Kathy shares her experience as a caregiver during the final seven years of her mother’s life—after cancer, loss, and the move to assisted living. She opens up about the moments she wishes she had been more gentle, the times she tried to encourage her mom to thrive again, and the beautiful shift that happened when she stopped trying to fix her—and simply began to en...

n this episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy opens her heart about something we all wrestle with: regret . Whether it’s a word you wish you could take back or a decision that changed everything—regret can feel heavy. But Jesus came to lift that burden. You’ll be reminded that while we can’t change the past, we can own our mistakes, share what we’ve learned, and let God use our mess for His glory. B...

What if you woke up today with only the things you thanked God for yesterday? In this episode, Kathy shares how that question reshaped her mornings—and how gratitude became a powerful medicine during one of the darkest seasons of her life. After the sudden death of her brother in 2010, Kathy found herself in a deep pit of anxiety and depression. But slowly, one “thank You” at a time, God began to...

In this heartfelt episode of  The Redeemed Mess , Kathy shares a deeply personal story about the painful effects of gossip and how false assumptions can quietly destroy reputations. When a moment of vulnerability during a health crisis was misunderstood and misrepresented, Kathy found herself at the center of a rumor she couldn’t defend herself against. That experience revealed how damaging gossip...

In this episode of The Redeemed Mess , I’m sharing a heartfelt reflection on how God uses even the hardest parts of our story—divorce, cancer, parenting struggles, abuse—for His glory. If you've ever wondered Will this pain ever have a purpose? , you're not alone. Join me as I ask the question, “Lord, what do You want to do with my pain?” and explore the truth that He never wastes a single tear. Y...

As we age, it’s not uncommon to feel like younger people—sometimes even our own children—begin to treat us like we’ve lost touch. But while times change and technology evolves, the deep wisdom that comes from lived experience is something no book or podcast can replace. In this heartfelt episode, Kathy reflects on her own relationship with her mother, the beauty of quiet strength, and the grace sh...

In this episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy speaks straight to the heart of the mom who’s been changed by God’s grace—but is still being reminded of who she used to be. Maybe your children or loved ones can’t see the new creation you’ve become. Maybe they still speak from a place of pain, and it leaves you feeling discouraged, unseen, or stuck in the past. But friend, you are not that woman anymo...

In this episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy shares a heartfelt reminder that feeling anxious or sad in hard seasons doesn’t mean our faith is weak—it means we’re human. She explores the meaning of James 1:2 and how real joy comes not from pretending everything’s okay, but from knowing God is with us in the midst of it all. Thanks for listening to The Redeemed Mess Podcast with Kathy! Where we talk...

Some absences are louder than words. In this tender episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy opens up about the ache we feel when someone we care deeply for doesn’t seem to care in return. When we carry others in our hearts and thoughts—but don’t feel that same care reflected back—it can leave us questioning our worth and wondering why. With gentle honesty and faith-filled encouragement, Kathy reminds...

As moms, we often pour our hearts into our children with quiet expectations—hoping that love, faith, and guidance will guarantee a certain outcome. But what happens when life doesn’t go the way we hoped? In this episode, Kathy reflects on Proverbs 22:6 and the freedom that comes when we parent faithfully but surrender the results to God. It’s a heartfelt reminder that our job is to lay the foundat...

In this tender episode of  The Redeemed Mess , Kathy opens her heart about the emotional weight of watching a child suffer. As mothers, we often carry the pain of our children—feeling helpless, heartbroken, and burdened with worry, even when we trust God fully. This isn’t about a lack of faith… it’s about deep love. Kathy shares the raw truth of what it’s like to grieve with your child, navigate t...

Have you ever felt disappointed because someone didn’t show up the way you needed them to? Maybe you expected your spouse to make you happy, or a loved one to meet an emotional need you could hardly explain yourself. In this heartfelt episode, Kathy shares how unrealistic expectations—especially in marriage—can quietly erode relationships. She reflects on her early misconceptions about love and ho...

In this episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy shares an honest reflection on the burdens we carry that were never meant for us. With warmth and wisdom, she invites listeners to surrender unnecessary worries, trust God's perfect boundaries, and find peace in letting go. If your heart feels heavy, this gentle reminder is for you. 💬 Thanks for listening to The Redeemed Mess Podcast with Kathy! Whe...

In this episode, I reflect on the quiet beauty of sisterhood—both biological and spiritual—and how God’s gentle provisions have shown up during my daughter’s cancer journey. From flexible work schedules to loving support from family and friends, I’m learning to see His blessings in the background. If you're walking through a hard season, may this message remind you: God is working, even in the...

Do you ever feel like your faith just isn’t enough? You’re not alone. In this episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy shares how faith is not something we earn—it’s a gift from God. Backed by Scripture and full of encouragement, this message reminds us that even when our faith feels weak, we can ask God for more. He delights in giving generously—without judgment. If you’re tired, doubting, or simply h...

In this episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy shares a heartfelt reminder that we don’t have to pretend to be okay when we’re not. God invites us to be real—with Him, with others, and with ourselves. His strength meets us right in the middle of our weakness. 💬 Thanks for listening to The Redeemed Mess Podcast with Kathy! Where we talk about the messiness of life—and how Jesus redeems it all. ✨ St...

In this episode of  The Redeemed Mess , Kathy reflects on a quiet moment of heaviness—remembering past mistakes and the weight of sin. But then, the Holy Spirit gently reminds her of a powerful truth: Jesus already carried that weight. Tune in for a grace-filled reminder that you are forgiven, redeemed, and deeply loved. 💬 Thanks for listening to The Redeemed Mess Podcast with Kathy! Where we tal...

Have you ever experienced peace that made absolutely no sense? The kind that comes not after the storm but right in the middle of it? In this episode of The Redeemed Mess, I share a powerful personal story of when my husband had a heart attack in Texas — and how God’s supernatural peace carried me through every moment. From the phone call to the airport, and even attending my granddaughter’s movin...

Even at 67, I’m learning the beauty and wisdom of not saying everything I’m thinking. In this episode of The Redeemed Mess , I share how past words made messes I wish I could take back — and how God, in His grace, is still sanctifying me. He’s teaching me to pause, to listen, and to let love lead the way. If you’ve ever wrestled with saying too much or speaking too soon, you’re not alone. There is...

In this episode, I’m opening up about the painful journey of watching my daughter go through cancer treatment. I wasn’t there when she shaved her head—I just couldn’t do it—and that moment broke me. From scans to side effects, it's been heartbreaking to witness. But even in the middle of it all, I’m seeing God show up. Through love, support, and her unshakable faith, He’s reminding me we’re no...

In this deeply personal episode of  The Redeemed Mess , Kathy shares how her daughter’s brave attitude during a cancer diagnosis has become a powerful testimony of faith, humor, and gratitude. Despite fear and uncertainty, choosing joy has brought light into the darkness. Kathy reflects on how acceptance doesn’t mean giving up—it means trusting God with the outcome. She also shares how God is meet...

I’m sharing how the calling in Titus 2 invites us as women to mentor and encourage others—mess and all. Our imperfect stories can become a ministry when we show up with honesty and faith. Let’s explore how God can use your life, just as it is, to impact someone else’s. 💬 Thanks for listening to The Redeemed Mess Podcast with Kathy! Where we talk about the messiness of life—and how Jesus redeems i...

In today’s quiet reflection, I share what God revealed during a simple walk—how trials can become sacred spaces where my heart is softened, refined, and made more compassionate. From memories of my mother’s grief to the lessons I’m learning in my own season of sorrow, I open up about the purpose God brings through my pain. If you’ve ever struggled with grief, regret, or wondered what God is doing...

What does it truly mean to be  redeemed ? Is it just about making up for our mistakes—or is there something deeper, something more beautiful? In this episode of  The Redeemed Mess , I’m unpacking the difference between how the world defines redemption and what God says about it. We’ll look at Scripture, reflect on the grace of Jesus, and remember that no mess is too great for His mercy. If you’ve...