The Redeemed Mess

In this episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy reflects on Matthew 5:46 through 48 and what it really means to love everyone, even the people who challenge us. She talks about how God uses uncomfortable moments to reveal what is going on in our hearts and how His grace shapes our responses. Kathy shares her own struggles with avoiding people who stir things up inside her and how she invites God to se...

In this episode, Kathy opens her heart about what it really means to trust God when our prayers aren’t answered the way we hoped. We often hear that whatever we ask for will be given—but what happens when we pray for healing, and the diagnosis still comes back as cancer? Kathy shares her own experience of praying, waiting, and learning to rest in God’s goodness even when the outcome wasn’t what sh...

In today’s episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy dives deep into Galatians 5:16-26 , unpacking the battle between the flesh and the Spirit. Life can feel like a constant tug-of-war between doing what we want and doing what we know is right. But when we walk by the Spirit, we find a new way of living—one full of love, joy, and peace. Kathy shares how the Holy Spirit produces fruit in us, transformin...

In this episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy shares how letting go of the need to be right has brought peace and freedom into her life. Drawing from the wisdom of the Big Book of AA and God’s Word, she talks about how humility, surrender, and silence can calm anxiety and prevent unnecessary conflict. If you’ve ever felt weighed down by the urge to prove yourself, this episode will give you fresh ho...

Do you ever catch yourself overthinking everything? You’re not alone. I truly believe God designed women with this tendency—to protect, prepare, and cover all the bases. But when that design spills into worry and endless “what ifs,” it can steal our peace and keep us from moving forward in grace. In this episode of The Redeemed Mess, we’ll talk about why overthinking comes so naturally, how to rec...

Have you ever been discouraged by another believer’s criticism? In this episode, I share a story about being told an author I enjoy wasn’t a “good Christian.” That moment reminded me how quick we can be to judge—and how harmful that can be, especially for new believers. I’ll talk about my own early walk with Christ, how the Holy Spirit taught me discernment over time, and a moment when a mature Ch...

When tragedy strikes, faith can feel fragile. Some may even feel like turning their back on God if He doesn’t answer prayers the way they hoped. In this episode of The Redeemed Mess, I share my heart about trusting God’s sovereignty, even in suffering. He is the only source of supernatural strength and eternal hope. Thanks for listening to The Redeemed Mess Podcast with Kathy! Where we talk about...

I used to get offended so easily—it would send me straight into defense mode. But watching my husband, who rarely takes things personally (even when people push back on his work ideas), has been teaching me a better way. The Bible calls it “overlooking an offense” (Proverbs 19:11), and Jesus modeled it perfectly. Here’s what I’m learning about letting go, trusting God with my reputation, and choos...

In this episode of The Redeemed Mess, I share about a recent conversation with someone who believes we are our own god and that we can manifest our reality. It would be easy to back away, but that’s not what Jesus calls us to do. People who believe differently need us to stay in relationship with them, not alienate them. Join me as we talk about why it’s so important to listen with grace, stand fi...

On this episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy opens up about a deeply personal truth: how fear, control, and self-preservation often lead us to act without seeking God first. Especially as moms, we try to protect our loved ones—but sometimes, we’re really trying to protect ourselves from the pain of watching them suffer. Now, in her senior empty nest years, Kathy shares how she’s finally learning to...

What if the most peaceful moments in life come when we stop trying to control everything? In today’s episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy shares what she’s been learning in her senior years about releasing the need to always be in charge. From simple decisions like where to walk the dogs, to deeper reflections about trusting God’s leading, she invites you into a conversation about the quiet freedom...

Resentment doesn’t always roar. Sometimes, it whispers quietly through unresolved conflict, unmet expectations, or the pain of feeling unseen. In this heartfelt episode, I share how resentment has shown up in my own life—especially when I’ve felt misunderstood or pushed aside by someone I love. We’ll talk about where resentment begins, how it can quietly grow, and the toll it takes when left unadd...

Do you ever catch yourself stuck in a spiral of “what ifs”? In this episode, I’m talking about how overthinking can quietly take over our peace and how we can gently shift our focus back to what’s true. With encouragement from Philippians 4:8 and a few simple steps that help me get out of my head, we’ll talk about choosing peace instead of panic. You’re not alone in this. Let’s walk through it tog...

When life turns upside down—through illness, heartbreak, or loss—something sacred happens. The fluff fades. The distractions fall away. And what’s left is the real you… the wheat God planted deep within your soul. In today’s episode, Kathy shares how walking with her daughter through cancer has changed her perspective—and how suffering reveals what truly matters. If you’ve ever felt like everythin...

Have you ever caught yourself pretending just to be accepted? Saying yes when your soul is tired, smiling when you're breaking, or serving others—not out of joy, but out of fear? In this vulnerable episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy shares how years of people-pleasing and performing slowly became one of the biggest messes of her life. She opens up about the fear of abandonment that often hid...

Have you ever wondered if your need for space and solitude is actually self-protection in disguise? In this episode, Kathy opens up about the tension between healthy boundaries and isolating barriers. What’s really going on when we say we're just "not a people person"? Maybe it’s time to ask God to search our hearts. Thanks for listening to The Redeemed Mess Podcast with Kathy! Where...

In today’s episode of The Redeemed Mess, we’re diving into that familiar phrase—“It takes one to know one.” But what if that’s not about judgment… what if it’s about grace? When we recognize a struggle in someone else, it might be because we’ve lived it ourselves. There’s a holy kind of knowing that comes from walking through the hard stuff. And rather than using it to criticize, we can use it to...

Are you exhausted from always being the strong one? In this heartfelt episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy opens up about what it’s like to reach your threshold—when holding it all together just isn’t sustainable anymore. She shares how faking strength can become a quiet performance rooted in pride, and how God gently invites us to be honest, broken, and real before Him. Scripture reminds us: “He h...

When life hands us heartbreak, betrayal, addiction, or a devastating diagnosis—where do we turn? In today’s episode, Kathy reflects on what real hope looks like in the middle of chaos. She opens up about her daughter’s cancer journey, her own nervous breakdown, and how years of trying to control everything eventually gave way to true surrender. If you’ve ever wondered how people make it through ha...

When you’re walking through a season of deep trial—like a diagnosis, a loss, or a season of uncertainty—it can feel impossible to find joy. But James 1 reminds us that these trials are doing something far deeper than we can see. In today’s episode, I share how this passage has encouraged me during my daughter’s cancer journey. God is not only working all things for good—He is forming perseverance...

Have you ever found yourself saying, “Well, that’s just how I am”? In today’s episode of The Redeemed Mess , we explore how this common phrase can quietly hold us back from the growth God wants for us. Whether it’s a lack of compassion, avoiding emotions, or clinging to old habits, we’ll talk about why we don’t have to stay stuck—and how the Holy Spirit gently invites us into transformation. You a...

In a world full of belief systems, denominations, and spiritual labels, how can we lovingly and boldly say that Jesus is the only way? Today I’m sharing my heart about what it means to be a Bible-believing, born-again follower of Christ—not just a “Christian” by name, but someone transformed by grace, guided by truth, and filled with the Holy Spirit. If you've ever felt confused by modern Chri...

In this heartfelt episode and blog, Kathy reflects on how her daughter’s cancer diagnosis has shifted her priorities and refined her heart. With transparency and grace, she shares how God is showing her what truly matters—reminding us that He works even the hardest seasons for our good. If you’re walking through a trial, this is a reminder that God is faithful, even when life feels uncertain. Than...

In today’s episode, I read and reflect on a blog post I wrote back in 2014—a raw and honest look at the season when I had lost all confidence and couldn’t even bring myself to decorate for Christmas. It’s a story of anxiety, panic, and God’s quiet strength showing up in the smallest moments. I also share the difference between being saved and being surrendered , and how true confidence only comes...

What do you do when you’ve already forgiven someone… and then they hurt you again? In this episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy gets real about walking through fresh betrayal, why forgiveness doesn’t mean re-entry, and how to protect your peace while honoring God’s call to forgive. If you’re struggling to forgive someone who keeps breaking trust—this honest, heartfelt message is for you. Thanks for...