The Redeemed Mess

In this tender, personal episode, Kathy invites listeners into her own real-time wrestle with Romans 8:28 as she walks through her daughter’s cancer journey. What does it mean that God works all things for good when life is so heavy? How can we apply that truth in the middle of trauma, illness, or heartbreak? Through honest reflection, tears, and faith, Kathy shares how she’s learning to live out...

At the end of last year, I recorded a heartfelt video for my kids—sharing my testimony and reminding them not to miss out on the abundant life Jesus promises. In today’s episode, I want to share that same encouragement with you. We’re looking at John 10:10 and what it really means to live an abundant life—not a life of riches or ease, but one of purpose, peace, and grace. I’ll also share the words...

In today’s episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy shares how reading and listening to the Psalms carried her through a difficult season of anxiety and depression after leaving her job. If you've ever felt lost, overwhelmed, or emotionally stuck, this heartfelt message offers hope and an invitation to rediscover peace through God’s Word—especially the Psalms. Thanks for listening to The Redeemed M...

In this deeply personal episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy opens her heart about a topic that hit close to home—humility. After listening to a BSF study through the WordGo app, Philippians 2:3 stopped her in her tracks and stirred something inside: “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” With honest reflection, Kathy shares how pri...

In this heartfelt episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy reflects on the true meaning of salvation. So many of us wrestle with the idea that we need to earn our way into heaven, but salvation was never meant to be earned—it was given. Through stories, Scripture, and a tender illustration she shares with her grandchildren, Kathy reminds us that Jesus paid the ultimate price on the cross, once and for...

In this heartfelt episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy shares her short testimony of faith—how belief in Jesus became true surrender. From growing up in religion to discovering the power of grace through a nervous breakdown, she opens up about her journey of letting go of control, confessing hidden hurts, and finally finding peace in Christ. If you're struggling with anxiety, depression, or the...

Have you ever felt like life just…paused? Like the world around you is moving forward, but you're stuck—waiting for healing, clarity, or peace? In this deeply personal episode, I share a conversation I had with my daughter, who is walking through a cancer journey, about what it feels like to be "frozen in time." Together, we reflect on the beauty and burden of waiting on God's wi...

Why do our kids sometimes come to us with all the heaviness—then turn around and seem completely fine with everyone else? In this episode, Kathy opens up about a common but confusing dynamic between parents and their adult children. She shares from personal experience and reflects on how God uses even these emotional moments to deepen connection and trust. If you've ever felt puzzled by your c...

Have you ever wondered why you feel spiritually restless—even when everything seems “fine” on the outside? In this episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy shares a heartfelt confession about the “little gods” she’s discovered in her own life—things like people-pleasing, worry, control, and even caring too much about what others think. These aren’t golden statues, but the subtle idols that quietly tak...

In this episode of The Redeemed Mess , I’m sharing a vulnerable look at my own habit of jumping to the worst-case scenario when it comes to worry—especially when it comes to aches and pains. Just the other night, I woke up with sharp, excruciating pain in my side. And instantly my mind went racing: “Is it a cracked rib? A tumor?” Before that, it was a pulled Achilles tendon that had me spiraling....

In this episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy opens up about one of her greatest pet peeves: the stigma and shame placed on Christians who struggle with anxiety and panic attacks. She shares her own journey—from once believing anxiety could be controlled by stronger faith, to personally experiencing how real and overwhelming it can be. With grace and honesty, Kathy explores why anxiety is not a spi...

In this episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy opens up about the tender topic of friendship breakups—why they happen, how to process them, and when to ask the hard question: “Was it them… or was it me?” With grace and vulnerability, she explores one-sided relationships, emotional manipulation, unmet expectations, and how sometimes the real work is within us—not just around us. Whether you’re grievi...

In this episode, Kathy shares her heart about the rise of “good vibes” and positive thoughts as a way of offering support during hard times—and why, as believers, that simply isn’t enough. If you’ve ever felt like the world’s comfort falls short, or you’ve caught yourself saying things like “sending good thoughts,” this conversation is a gentle but powerful reminder of where real peace comes from....

In this episode, Kathy reflects on the peace and purpose found when we live according to God’s design. From past mistakes to present surrender, she shares how obedience and trust in Jesus lead to a life of contentment, joy, and lasting transformation. Thanks for listening to The Redeemed Mess Podcast with Kathy! Where we talk about the messiness of life—and how Jesus redeems it all. ✨ Stay connec...

In this heartfelt episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy reflects on a voice memo she recorded in 2019—marking 40 years since she surrendered her life to Christ. Through raw honesty and tender gratitude, she shares the highs, the wanderings, and the deep grace that’s carried her through decades of imperfect faith. If you’ve ever wrestled with regret or wondered if your past disqualifies you, this me...

In this heartfelt episode, Kathy reflects on a season when she was asked to step into a leadership role—and the surprising reaction that followed. It stirred up old feelings of failure… but also reminded her of God’s truth: He doesn’t waste anything. Whether you’ve started something and stepped away, or stayed in a role longer than God intended, this message is for you. God works in seasons, and H...

We don’t talk about meekness enough—but it’s such a powerful, Christlike trait. In this episode of The Redeemed Mess , I share a raw and honest moment when I fell short… and how God reminded me of His grace. I don’t want to take that grace for granted—and maybe you feel the same. If you’ve ever wrestled with shame after slipping up, this one’s for you. Let’s walk this road of spiritual growth toge...

What guides your decisions when the world’s standards keep shifting? In this heartfelt episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy shares how the Word of God—the Bible—is her unwavering moral compass. She unpacks why simply “being a good person” isn’t enough to enter heaven and how true salvation comes through faith in Jesus Christ. If you’ve ever wrestled with what’s good enough, this message will point...

In this episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy shares a heartfelt reminder for anyone feeling unsure about their calling or purpose: you don’t have to do something big or flashy to be used by God. Sometimes, the most powerful ministry happens in the quiet, ordinary moments of life. From folding laundry to encouraging a friend, every small act done in love matters deeply to the Lord. If you’ve been w...

In this heartfelt episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy shares a vulnerable moment about choosing not to attend a family event involving her husband's side of the family—and how that decision stirred up old feelings of resentment. With honesty and grace, she reflects on what it means to surrender those hidden heart struggles to Jesus, support a spouse through differences, and walk in emotional...

Friendship is a beautiful blessing—but it’s also messy at times. In this heartfelt episode of The Redeemed Mess , Kathy opens up about the many kinds of friendships she's experienced over the years: the faithful ones, the seasonal ones, and the ones that left her feeling drained or hurt. From one-sided relationships to church friends who vanished once she walked away, Kathy shares honest refle...

Prayer is powerful—but sometimes, the answers don’t come quickly. In this episode, I share two deeply personal prayers I carried for years. One took four years. The other, three. And just in the past few months, I’ve seen God answer them in ways that still leave me in awe. But what truly stands out isn’t just that He answered—it’s when . His timing was not my own, and through the waiting, I learne...

What do you do when your day doesn’t go as planned? In this episode of The Redeemed Mess , I share a recent story that could’ve left me flustered, frustrated, and fuming. But instead, it turned into a sweet reminder of just how powerful acceptance can be. I open up about a simple morning mix-up that reminded me how far I’ve come in learning to let go, stay calm, and trust that God is in control—ev...

In this heartfelt episode, Kathy shares a reflection from a moment of quiet that turns into powerful truth. After hearing about a loved one facing a possible cancer diagnosis, she opens up about her own journey with cancer in her family: her mom, her husband, and now, her daughter. Through it all, she reminds us that while fear may knock, it’s faith that answers. Join Kathy as she speaks encourage...

In this episode, I reflect on a powerful worship song that reminded me of the promise that one day—there will be no more tears, no more suffering. As I prayed for my children and gave thanks for all God has done, I felt the weight of emotional pain that we often try to avoid. But it’s through Jesus that we find the strength to face each day. He carries our burdens, knows our hearts, and loves us—a...