Chris Lomboy

The REALationship Method

Society EN ↓ 106 episodes

The REALationship Method is a comedic podcast about dating, relationships, and advice, blending tips with plenty of tangents. With stories and experiences shared by the cast and guests, it offers cautionary tales to help you avoid making the same mistakes. So sit back, relax, and maybe learn a thing or ten!

Author

Chris Lomboy

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.buzzsprout.com

Latest episode

Jul 7, 2026

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Episodes

Experiencing homophobia for the first time, being a hoe with standards, and secrets to not climaxing too early 28.11.2023

Send us Fan Mail The infamous Franny rolled through and as you know, we got it in!  We talked about what made Franny comfortable with his sexuality, how common for straight guys to hit up gay men, gay men making out with lesbians is a thing,  Franny found out he was dating a married man with kids,  dick choice: skinny or girthy, how common straight men/women go to gay clubs, and more! SPITTERS ARE...

Handling someone's relationship baggage, controlling your liquor, and aunties and uncles that do too much on social media 21.11.2023

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we have Youtube content creator, Dr. Okada! We talked about  Tik tok trends, how hard it is to be original nowadays, getting caught off guard by a fan, and more.  MIND YO BUSINESS AND LET GOD TAKE THE WHEEL.

How men take every interaction with a woman as 'she wants to smash', being a good ex gf/bf, and is there ever a right age to cheat? 15.11.2023

Send us Fan Mail SLAY TE HOUSE, BOOTS DOWN!! In this episode, Lori, Jay, and Chris talk about how they were in their past relationships and how they were once they broke it off, handling work wives/husbands, having close friends of the opposite sex that you WILL NOT shoot your shot at, what is the synopsis of 'taking a break?', and more.  PROTECT YOUR INNER PEACE AND ENERGY!

Falling for people we have no business in falling for, the art of letting a person go, and high school should stay high school 24.10.2023

Send us Fan Mail Our first time going live on IG and it was......  We talked about how men are still men and women are still women, regardless of status, how to break up with someone who doesn't communicate, the aftermath of letting go of someone that you clicked with, the value of chillin' with our boys and girls, high school should stay high school, and falling for people we have no bu...

'That noise, that glow', adding value to a persons life, and being careful on how much love you give people in your heart 10.10.2023

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we go into the REAL reason why Chris started the podcast, to talk about 'The REALationship Method' blog that he wrote 20-25 years ago.  In this episode, they primarily go in on, 'That noise, that glow'.  Lori, Jay, and Chris go into the importance of core values, being careful about how much love we give people in our hearts, being an option in...

Can women be aggressive flirters, the 'where my hug at' guys/girls, and the significance of ghosting 03.10.2023

Send us Fan Mail YOUR FAVORITE TRIO IS BACK!!!  Lori, Jay, and Chris gave updates on what has been happening the past couple of months. We talked about Jay receives his first Army coin, Lori's powerlifting start, and how Chris received free drinks at the club with his first aggressive female. Also, Lori is off the market folks!!

Is there such thing as a genuine person, does someone's history matter, and correcting your partner in public 29.08.2023

Send us Fan Mail We got Fashion Model and teacher, Sienna, rolled through the podcast!! We talked about her degree in Elementary Education, how Chris tried to be cool by bringing a cordless home phone to school, the era of pagers, are elephant/white lies okay?, how to deal with modeling gig rejections, how to correct your partner in public, and is it possible to work with an ex. 

How to get it in with a small package, do women appreciate chivalrous acts, and good s3x making you say the dumbest things 16.08.2023

Send us Fan Mail Unfortunately, our disk ran out and the last fifteen minutes of the podcast got cut off. Vid on youtube will be up soon.  We got Gavin of Kampai Sugai Podcast rollin' through the set and we talked about BJ Penn being a guest on his podcast, what gyms need, addressing DM's that want us to speak more about serious topics, how Chris got his black card, if it's okay to...

Least favorite form of foreplay, dealing with family that don't like your partner, and what to do when your partner is always on their phone 24.07.2023

Send us Fan Mail We have digital creator and foodie, Cassie, on this episode of the REALationship Method podcast.  We got into how Cassie got into digital creating, realizing that we're digital creators/influencers, responding to someone saying 'that's cute' after confessing you like them, using the race card to get what you want, and more. 

Is head important, dealing with 'no condom' situations, and what to expect when you get tested for STDs 11.07.2023

Send us Fan Mail Recording artist, Sophia Alfa , rolls through the podcast. We talked about producers shooting their shots, taking in the bad comments, whether is it okay to get with your godsister/brother,  the first lay after a long relationship, how to work around micro penises, and more. 

Saying 'no' instead of giving excuses, is there truth to talking sh*t, and getting h*rny over petty arguments 05.07.2023

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we introduce Lori to the REALationship Method team, how Chris started podcasting, Lori breaks down statistical stats in shit-talking, how Jay doesn't pay attention during arguments, our personal glow-ups, and more. 

Being emotionally busy, should we be ashamed for liking IG baddies, and slangin' breast milk 14.06.2023

Send us Fan Mail Jose Dynamite rolls through the set and we chopped it up about hating more and more things as we get older, our assholes looking like starfishes, guys make peeing a game, ever wonder what the person in the next stall is doing?, taking really long in the shower, the significance in smacking your partner's ass when you pass by, feeling violated after getting getting 'credi...

Kickin' it with Pornstars with a size 18 shoe, opening for Dave Chappelle, and getting flown out! 30.05.2023

Send us Fan Mail We got James Mane rollin' through the set to speak his shiiiiit about kickin' it with pornstars, how he started comedy, coming back from bombing on stage, how he turned down smoking weed with Dave Chappelle, different comedian material for different types of people, the debate on who's cooking better chicken nowadays and more. 

Started in the FRIENDzone now we're here, would you say happy bday to an ex, and Jay's bike accident! 16.05.2023

Send us Fan Mail UH Women's Hooper, Kelsie, came on the set to speak her shit! We answered your ex questions; could wishing a an ex happy birthday open a door, still having presents from an ex, etc.  It all went down in this episode from naming our Sanrio characters, going to the book fair and NOT buying books, Chris' reason why he wore clothes from his exes, buying presents for your oth...

When to listen to the vagina, would you let someone in the friendzone hit?, and searching public records before a meet up 09.05.2023

Send us Fan Mail 94 Blocc foreva!! Crystal, jackie of all trades, came through and just killed it. We talked about making fast money, hookin' up during the job, drunk stages, how big is too big,  drawing in while being vulnerable, recovery time when you get older versus the recovery time when young, the lost art of fingering, the last time the ladies got 'swooned', and more!

They're 'not it' in bed, PTSD from bad oral, and strawberry booty eating 01.05.2023

Send us Fan Mail Allow me to introduce her ass, her name's Lori!  We have Sati rollin' through the podcast and we talked about being sexually free, lower enlisted soldiers shootin' their shot with her and Lori, Strawberries and whip cream booty eatin', falling asleep/passed out while getting oral, conducting an 'after- action- review' after the deed, is biting the vag...

Pageant spills, running into bullies, and being an ABG back in the day? 25.04.2023

Send us Fan Mail We got Bey-sia from Music.ly folks!!!  Shout out to Asianna for choppin' it up with us on this episode.  We talked about her being a mental health advocate, handling depression and being bullied, being an actress in high school, her secret talent as a SLAM poet/writer, and more. Such a genuine, down-to-earth person to have as a guest on the podcast. If you know anyone going t...

Losing a top muncher, not knowing you're being a flirt, and living in the pre screenshot era 18.04.2023

Send us Fan Mail Missed five minutes because my dumb ass forgot to push record. Watch it on Youtube! J is back from his one month hiatus, WELCOME BACK! We have Alexandria on set and we talked about how she pranked some Marines to eat crayons, going through depression,  handling the elephant lies, and more! Apologies for the delay! We had technical difficulties.

Would you date you?, going back with an ex, and who's going through a mid-life crisis' 28.03.2023

Send us Fan Mail Ya'll kept on askin' on when I'll get my wife on the podcast, this is the episode.  Tiff and her homegirl, Ammo, rolled through the podcast and spoke their 'bad bitch' shit.  We talked Tiff's invite to the Maldives, Ammo's unexpected game night, how to keep a marriage/relationship alive, how important 'me' time is, Tiff giving out flowe...

Gym stalkers, does family matters, and BBL in stock! 21.03.2023

Send us Fan Mail Back at it again with the tangents! We have Lori coming back to give us an update on her dating situation and Irin giving advice to potential stalkers in the gym. 

Who's fighting the fight, male or female?, digging deeper with Friends with Benefits, and moving on 03.01.2023

Send us Fan Mail HAPPY FREAKIN' NEW YEAR!! CHEE-HOO!!!!  In this episode, we talk about what's expected in a relationship, what's expected in being an uncle, old school movies and shows that wouldn't cut it in today's weak and sensitive society, how evil is Mickey Mouse, and more! 

Dating apps vs social media, nude modeling shoots, and becoming a 'yes man' 27.12.2022

Send us Fan Mail We got Camille joining us on the podcast. We talked about what jump started her modeling career, creepy dm's and selfies, our first times being ghosted, when we fist realized old people are actually getting 'old', phone calls over texting, and when did social media become the new tinder?, and more on this episode. And a very special 18th birthday shoutout to my fore...

What do men do in the bathroom, trusting women's intuition, and the secret to the 'eye contact' 20.12.2022

Send us Fan Mail Ho, ho, ho!! Happy holidays and Merry Christmas!  Janique rolled through the podcast to educate us on what and what not to say at a job interview, dating tips in the '30s, the last time she did something for the first time, how horny it is to meet someone organically, her insight on why men are intimidated to strong women, how she finally got out of her abusive relationship a...

Know your role as a side dude, men liking their assholes ate, and upgrading the sex ed curriculum 13.12.2022

Send us Fan Mail From Soundcloud to Sonic 2, Allaijah Malik came through the podcast to talk about being on anti-depressants, not overdoing it as a side dude, men getting their assholes ate, schools upgrading their sex ed curriculum, fucking a tranny, and more. 

Trusting ones privacy, ups and downs of open relationships, and new opposite sex friends! 29.11.2022

Send us Fan Mail Brooklyn comes on and speaks about setting boundaries at work with her spouse and dealing with guys AND gals flirting with her wife. Is there such thing as being 100% healed from past relationship trauma, Self-Love being #1, showing interest in new things and experiencing them together and more helpful advice for your relationships!  Plant that seed!

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