The Queer Confidence Podcast

Making money isn’t complicated. And it’s not hard. Making money is easy, when you know how. In today’s episode, I teach you how to make value, and communicate that value in a way that makes you money. Lots of it! Get full show notes and more info here: https://coachalexray.com/podcast/6 Get on the best email list for building your confidence, sign up and receive my free 21 Sassy Affirmations for C...

In today’s episode I share with you 3 beliefs you’ll need in order to overcome shame. I am enough. I am worthy of love. I am safe. Get full show notes and more info here: https://coachalexray.com/podcast/5 Get on the best email list for building your confidence, sign up and receive my free 21 Sassy Affirmations for Confidence Got a guest nomination, question, or topic idea? Email podcast@coachalex...

In today’s episode, we discuss people-pleasing. People-pleasing is just manipulation in drag. It sounds nice. It looks kind. And it lip syncs along to someone else's voice. It is a performance. But it’s destructive. People-pleasing comes from insecurity and in this episode I teach you how to overcome 3 reasons why we people please. Get full show notes and more info here: https://coachalexray....

When facing conflict, we tend to either run, or throw punches. Both of these reactions are triggered by insecurity. In today’s episode, I’m going to teach you step 3 to becoming confident: how to have your own back. Having your own back means you remain engaged in the confrontation without throwing punches. There are no winners and losers in conflict. Listen on to learn how to confidently create s...

We often rush to change the situation when we feel insecure. When we feel lonely we pull up Grindr, so we can feel connected. When we feel fearful before a conversation, we reschedule it for later. But these actions always keep you dependent on changing the situation to feel better. In todays episode I teach you how to take actions that boost your confidence instead of worsening your insecurity. Y...

We queers are professionals at avoiding ourselves. If you want to feel more confident, you have to stop escaping. Booze, sex, social media, Grindr… we surround ourselves with quick access to an escape any time we feel insecure. In this episode, I’m teaching you HOW to allow discomfort. Because every time you escape you become even more insecure. Instead, when you allow yourself to experience the f...