The Queen Of Pleasure

There are so many messy middle parts of marriage that NO ONE talks about. Well, luckily for you, I DO! I struggled silently for many years because I didn’t want to look bad and be judged. Until one day, I did the bravest thing and shared with my friends that I thought my marriage was over. In March 2023, my husband and I were planning our separation. Who would stay at the house, care for the dog,...

The one with the play party is Jose and my story of attending our first Temple Party in Los Angeles. Told in front of our best friends for dramatic flare.  I apologize in advance for the background noise; it proved difficult for four people to sit quietly. In this episode, Jose and I talk about our most recent experience attending a Temple Party. We explain what a Temple Party is and the...

Hello from Bali!! Where I am halfway through my solo trip to Bali, (which was inspired by Perimenopause) In this mini-episode, I share why I am in Bali, what it took to give myself this trip, and how I am learning to love this body. I also share about my perimenopause journey. XO, CJ PS. Have questions or want to share about your experience? Email me at Withpleasure@Carlijo.com or DM me @path...

Carli Jo is joined by two of her best friends, Alex & Evin Terranova, to have a real & raw conversation about their experience of having a miscarriage and how they navigated it as a couple. Being one of Evin's best friends, I was in awe of how they stayed connected in communication and reconnected sexually. In this episode, we discuss: - Less pressure, more play when bringing sex back&nbsp...

 Rachel and Kelsey join Carli Jo for coaching on their feelings about raising a child together, leading vs. following, masculine and feminine polarity, and supporting each other through their obstacles. **Want to know about Carli Jo's events and offerings?! Get on the list  here * ** Want to be coached on the podcast?! Apply here

Have you ever thought men were idiots because they couldn't locate your clit? Like, really, dude, how hard is it to find?! Well, I discovered while doing a practice called Orgasmic Meditation that locating the clit is much harder than you think! It's very sneaky! Which gave me a newfound appreciation and compassion for men. What you'll get in this episode: Discover what I learned stroking a vulva...

In this impromptu episode recorded on a cell phone, Carli Jo drops some truth bombs on Jose. It is proven that communication is the access point to connection and intimacy So get talking! Discuss the following: Are you taking, giving, receiving, or allowing in your relationship? Is it consensual? Is this dynamic working? If not, what needs to change? Which role DO you want to play? Are you treatin...

The one where Jose rain checks sex on my birthday is a real and raw conversation between Jose and me about my request for sex on my birthday, his response, and the promise of future sex. You'll soon discover that the title of this episode is incorrect. Jose did not rain check me, but rather.. listen and learn for yourself. P.S. There's also a funny bit about how I handle earthquakes...

Jose and I talk through a real and raw conflict for the FIRST time in front of a live audience. I highly recommend listening to this one with your partner!

Listen if you want to here our anniversary Recap: Including very sensational sex on a massage table, a rippling orgasm story, and choosing pleasure over pressure.

Have fun listening to how Jose had a getaway plan in case our first kiss went bad, the hilarious way he said "I love you" for the first time, and how we argued during his proposal.

Jose and CJ go on a trip to the desert. They hit some obstacles and are here to clean it up. https://www.bhaktifest.com/

Welcome to the first episode with Jose and CJ. CJ shares that Jose's initiation for sex makes her feel weird in her body. They talk about optional methods and a possible resolution going forward. 

Yo yo yo, it's Carli Jo, known on the internet streets as the Queen of Pleasure! Comin' at ya on a sunny Thursday afternoon from my backyard giving you a teaser of what's to come. (Husband 'Jose' says my intro is totally awesome!)