The Perfectionism Project

Interesting and unexpected things happen when you achieve your goals, and it makes for an interesting month. After hitting my first 5 figure month in my business (a goal I've had since I first started), I've found myself unconsciously stopping myself from taking things further. So, as you might imagine, I've been doing A LOT of personal development work to keep myself on track! I also share the th...

I haven't shared any law of attraction advice for a while so I thought I'd answer a few questions about how to use LOA to create results in your life. In this episode, I'm sharing how I've been using LOA over the last few months to create success in my business as well as my advice on the most powerful thing you can do to manifest results and whether you can use an affirmation at the last minute t...

If you've spent any time in the personal development world I'd be surprised if you hadn't heard of B rené Brown. She's a shame and vulnerability researcher known for her powerful Ted Talks (particularly this one ), her best-selling books (like the one I talk about in this episode) and being adored by Oprah Winfrey (there's no better qualification than that). I first read Daring Greatly by Brené Br...

Fearing success is actually way more common than you'd think. And that's kinda crazy, right? Even though we're consciously working towards it, we unconsciously stop ourselves from getting it. It's no wonder we can feel so stuck. In this podcast episode, I share why we experience fear of success and my personal struggles with it. I also talk about 5 of the signs that you're scared of success and wh...

I often get asked whether overcoming perfectionism will make a person less successful. When I first started out on my personal development journey, I thought it was my perfectionistic traits that had created my success. I remember feeling worried that if I was kinder to myself and I didn't have crazy expectations, I wouldn't get as much done. What I know for sure is that it was my perfectionism th...

No matter what you're trying to achieve in life, there will be an element of uncertainty. And even if you're not trying to achieve anything, there will still be uncertainty. It's completely unavoidable! In this episode, I'm sharing practical advice and tips on how to handle uncertainty as well as the things that I personally do so that I can embrace uncertainty and make sure that I keep growing. I...

I often get asked for advice on how to change careers (since I did it myself last year) so I thought I'd record a podcast episode to share my thoughts and what I've learned. In this episode, I'm talking career changes, getting older and answering that good old question - when is it too late? I hope you find it helpful! Mentioned In The Episode: Tim Ferriss' Fear Setting Exercise Episode 3: Bloggin...

I've spoken about morning routines A LOT but I'm yet to share my advice on a night time routine, so here it is! Creating a powerful night time routine is an amazing way to get your life together and become more productive and organised. But not only that, it's also the perfect compliment to your morning routine. In this episode, I share 5 essentials of a night time routine and my best advice for d...

In this episode, I'm sharing how I've been dealing with the negative podcast reviews I've been receiving and the shame that's brought up. I'm also chatting about money mindset, the book that's helped me uplevel my money game and the work I've been doing this month to feel more abundant. And I give an update on how I'm tracking with my goals. I hope it helps you! And if you haven't signed up for Ge...

Becoming your best self sounds SO appealing. But what's rarely talked about is the process you have to go through to get there - and that it's not rainbows and butterflies. I've been a personal development addict for at least 5 years now and have found that I typically cycle through 3 stages as I continue to improve myself - discovery, implementation and recalibration (aka stagnation). I thought i...

I started Smart Twenties five years ago so I could blog about how to make the most of your twenties - a dilemma I was in the process of figuring out myself. As time has gone on, my focus has changed from figuring out how to make the most of my twenties to figuring out how to get out of my own way and overcome my perfectionist tendencies. But with the name 'Smart Twenties', that isn't particularly...

One of the most important things I've learned on my personal development journey is the importance of making my goals feel normal. It's easier said than done, but the more normal my goals seem - the less self-sabotage that happens. And that's always in a win! In this episode of The Smart Twenties Podcast I'm sharing practical advice to help you transform your mindset around your goals. I hope you...

When you hate your job it feels like the only logical answer is to get a new one. But the reason that doesn't work for so many people is that the job isn't the problem - it's the way they're thinking about it! And when they get a new job, their old thinking comes with them and they continue to have the same experience. In this episode, I'm sharing my best advice on what to do when you hate your jo...

Finding the personal development world can be thrilling, but it can also be hard to know where to start and what to spend your time doing. And whether or not you have the money to invest in working 1:1 with a coach , learning how to coach yourself is one of the most important skills you can develop. In this episode, I'm sharing a few different things that you can add to your own routine to become...

When my coaching clients start working with me, they feel stressed about their life and overwhelmed by their goals. In this episode, I'm sharing the simple step-by-step process I use to help my coaching clients get out of the headspace so they can start living into their full potential. I hope you find it helpful! I share the full step-by-step process in the episode but here are some questions tha...

For the last few weeks I've been feeling like I'm really on the cusp of something and in this podcast episode I'm sharing why. August was a month full of important realizations and big decisions. It's been an incredible month of growth for me, particularly in terms of my money mindset, and I'm so excited to be giving you an update on everything I've got going on! MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE Perfect B...

I get so many emails from readers and listeners saying that they can relate to what I talk about on the podcast but they don't think they're a perfectionist. So I thought it was about time that I explained what I mean when I talk about perfectionism! Perfectionism is something that underlies every single podcast episode I've ever recorded, but I've never actually done an episode on exactly what pe...

At the beginning of 2018, I set myself an 'impossible' goal of making $500,000 in my business. The first 8 months of 2018 have taught me SO much about myself and have been a steep learning curve, so I thought I'd share it all with you. I've learned an incredible amount about myself and my beliefs already, as well as what it means to work towards a goal without knowing exactly how you're going to a...

Over the last few years of my personal development journey, I've seen myself sabotage my goals in just about every way imaginable - some more obvious than others. In this week's podcast episode I'm sharing 15 reasons that you're not achieving your goals, particularly if you're a perfectionist! This was a fun one for me to record because it really reminded me just how many ways we undermine our own...

In the last two years, I've experienced an incredible amount of growth - both in myself and in my business. And in the last two years, I've started investing - both in myself and in my business. It's no coincidence. Without investing in myself I would not be where I am today. I believe that you don't NEED to invest money in yourself to get to where you want to go but it for sure speeds up the proc...

For years I was completely trapped in an all-or-nothing mindset when it came to exercise. I was either working out everyday of the week or not at all. I couldn't make it through more than four weeks of a fitness program without abandoning it (and then I had to start back at Week 1 so I could do it 'properly'). And I always beat myself up for not doing what I'd planned. I always thought my issue wa...

In the last month I've spent a lot of time out of my comfort zone, I've started to make big changes in my business and I've been settling into a new routine. It's been messy AF (as always!) but it's also been a great month - not because of any particular accomplishment I can point to, but because it feels like part of a bigger evolution. And that feels pretty magical. In this week's podcast episod...

A few weeks ago, I was feeling really lost with my blog. Again.  Even though I'd only recently revamped the way that I was producing content, I still felt something was off. I was putting a heaps time into my blog and yet it was stagnating. I knew it was time to reexamine the way I was doing things and when I saw The 4-Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss in the book store, I knew it would be the perfect...

Until recently, I did my best to hide my obsession with self-help from my friends. I was scared people would think there was something wrong with me - why else would I be trying to improve myself? If you've ever felt ashamed for being into self-help, you're not alone! In this episode, I'm chatting about the stigma around self-help, whether I talk about it with my friends and how I stopped feeling...

It's no secret I'm a BIG fan of morning routines. Since I've already written a few blog posts about what to do in the morning , I thought it was time I talk about how to do it. The reality is that a morning routine doesn't need to be elaborate to have a huge impact on your productivity and your willpower. There are simple changes you can make to your current morning routine (no matter what it is)...