The Perfectionism Project

There are SO many intelligent women in the world who don't have healthy habits, not because they can't and not because they don't want to - but because they're constantly stopped by beliefs they don't even realise they have. In this episode, I go beyond the typical advice you hear about habits (get an accountability buddy, buy a cute workout outfit, follow inspiring Instagram accounts etc etc) and...

When it comes to my personal development journey, I usually feel like I'm moving backwards. But sometimes, you have a month where everything just seems to click into place - and this was one of those months for me! In this episode, I'm talking about taking a break from social media, the work I've been doing to consciously uncouple stress and money, how I managed my time and mind while launching my...

The way we think about money has a huge impact on what we do with money and yet so many of us leave this area of life to run on autopilot. The better you are with money, the more time you can spend focusing on the things that truly matter. In this episode, I'm sharing a whole heap of practical tools and beliefs that have empowered me to create a whole new reality around money. It all starts in our...

I received an email from Melissa asking for me advice on what to do if you're having a bad week or you just can't find motivation. She said she was on week 3 of her running plan, she hadn't gone for a run all week and she was feeling extremely guilty and sorry for herself. I've definitely found myself in the same situation many times before so I thought I'd record this episode to share my advice o...

One thing that perfectionists tend to have in common is an all-or-nothing mindset, and goal-setting is no exception. I'm frequently asked for my advice on how to achieve multiple goals at once so I thought I'd dedicate a podcast episode to this topic. In this episode I share what motivates us to set multiple goals, whether or not it's a good thing, how setting multiple goals can actually be self-s...

We've all heard that we're the average of the 5 people we spend the most time with and there's no doubt that the people we surround ourselves with have an impact on our mindset, our goals and our lives. But it's also important that we don't overlook the fact that we spend the most time with ourselves. And that there are subtle things we do that can render even the most supportive community redunda...

As perfectionists we tend to have our self-worth and identity all wrapped up in achievement, so reaching our full potential ends up becoming a primary concern. But what does it really take to reach your full potential? What will life feel like once you do? What are the things you need to be doing day-to-day in order to get there? Well, that's what I'm going to be answering in this episode. I hope...

Until very recently I was scared to be kind to myself. I was worried that if I didn't constantly talk down to myself and beat myself up, I'd achieve less and therefore be less. Even though being cruel to myself sucked, I thought it at least served a purpose. How wrong I was. One of the most misunderstood things about negative self-talk is that it helps us achieve more. In fact, it's the opposite t...

Interesting and unexpected things happen when you achieve your goals, and it makes for an interesting month. After hitting my first 5 figure month in my business (a goal I've had since I first started), I've found myself unconsciously stopping myself from taking things further. So, as you might imagine, I've been doing A LOT of personal development work to keep myself on track! I also share the th...

I haven't shared any law of attraction advice for a while so I thought I'd answer a few questions about how to use LOA to create results in your life. In this episode, I'm sharing how I've been using LOA over the last few months to create success in my business as well as my advice on the most powerful thing you can do to manifest results and whether you can use an affirmation at the last minute t...

If you've spent any time in the personal development world I'd be surprised if you hadn't heard of B rené Brown. She's a shame and vulnerability researcher known for her powerful Ted Talks (particularly this one ), her best-selling books (like the one I talk about in this episode) and being adored by Oprah Winfrey (there's no better qualification than that). I first read Daring Greatly by Brené Br...

Fearing success is actually way more common than you'd think. And that's kinda crazy, right? Even though we're consciously working towards it, we unconsciously stop ourselves from getting it. It's no wonder we can feel so stuck. In this podcast episode, I share why we experience fear of success and my personal struggles with it. I also talk about 5 of the signs that you're scared of success and wh...

I often get asked whether overcoming perfectionism will make a person less successful. When I first started out on my personal development journey, I thought it was my perfectionistic traits that had created my success. I remember feeling worried that if I was kinder to myself and I didn't have crazy expectations, I wouldn't get as much done. What I know for sure is that it was my perfectionism th...

No matter what you're trying to achieve in life, there will be an element of uncertainty. And even if you're not trying to achieve anything, there will still be uncertainty. It's completely unavoidable! In this episode, I'm sharing practical advice and tips on how to handle uncertainty as well as the things that I personally do so that I can embrace uncertainty and make sure that I keep growing. I...

I often get asked for advice on how to change careers (since I did it myself last year) so I thought I'd record a podcast episode to share my thoughts and what I've learned. In this episode, I'm talking career changes, getting older and answering that good old question - when is it too late? I hope you find it helpful! Mentioned In The Episode: Tim Ferriss' Fear Setting Exercise Episode 3: Bloggin...

I've spoken about morning routines A LOT but I'm yet to share my advice on a night time routine, so here it is! Creating a powerful night time routine is an amazing way to get your life together and become more productive and organised. But not only that, it's also the perfect compliment to your morning routine. In this episode, I share 5 essentials of a night time routine and my best advice for d...

In this episode, I'm sharing how I've been dealing with the negative podcast reviews I've been receiving and the shame that's brought up. I'm also chatting about money mindset, the book that's helped me uplevel my money game and the work I've been doing this month to feel more abundant. And I give an update on how I'm tracking with my goals. I hope it helps you! And if you haven't signed up for Ge...

Becoming your best self sounds SO appealing. But what's rarely talked about is the process you have to go through to get there - and that it's not rainbows and butterflies. I've been a personal development addict for at least 5 years now and have found that I typically cycle through 3 stages as I continue to improve myself - discovery, implementation and recalibration (aka stagnation). I thought i...

I started Smart Twenties five years ago so I could blog about how to make the most of your twenties - a dilemma I was in the process of figuring out myself. As time has gone on, my focus has changed from figuring out how to make the most of my twenties to figuring out how to get out of my own way and overcome my perfectionist tendencies. But with the name 'Smart Twenties', that isn't particularly...

One of the most important things I've learned on my personal development journey is the importance of making my goals feel normal. It's easier said than done, but the more normal my goals seem - the less self-sabotage that happens. And that's always in a win! In this episode of The Smart Twenties Podcast I'm sharing practical advice to help you transform your mindset around your goals. I hope you...

When you hate your job it feels like the only logical answer is to get a new one. But the reason that doesn't work for so many people is that the job isn't the problem - it's the way they're thinking about it! And when they get a new job, their old thinking comes with them and they continue to have the same experience. In this episode, I'm sharing my best advice on what to do when you hate your jo...

Finding the personal development world can be thrilling, but it can also be hard to know where to start and what to spend your time doing. And whether or not you have the money to invest in working 1:1 with a coach , learning how to coach yourself is one of the most important skills you can develop. In this episode, I'm sharing a few different things that you can add to your own routine to become...

When my coaching clients start working with me, they feel stressed about their life and overwhelmed by their goals. In this episode, I'm sharing the simple step-by-step process I use to help my coaching clients get out of the headspace so they can start living into their full potential. I hope you find it helpful! I share the full step-by-step process in the episode but here are some questions tha...

For the last few weeks I've been feeling like I'm really on the cusp of something and in this podcast episode I'm sharing why. August was a month full of important realizations and big decisions. It's been an incredible month of growth for me, particularly in terms of my money mindset, and I'm so excited to be giving you an update on everything I've got going on! MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE Perfect B...

I get so many emails from readers and listeners saying that they can relate to what I talk about on the podcast but they don't think they're a perfectionist. So I thought it was about time that I explained what I mean when I talk about perfectionism! Perfectionism is something that underlies every single podcast episode I've ever recorded, but I've never actually done an episode on exactly what pe...