The Perfect Mess Podcast

Is your bitch voice winning again? Is it making excuses for you that you're buying into? STOP...I have those issues too, but let me share with you something so simple to help you beat it. I hope you enjoy and this helps a bit...if you do, please share it! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @itsbeastorfamine Youtube: www.youtube.com/theperfectmesspod Club House:...

Listen, someone is always going to tell you what they think "You Need..." to do etc. But if you know and believe in what it is you are doing. You need...yes, YOU NEED to stay the course and see it through. Let's talk about it and how I am dealing with it....Thanks for listening! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @itsbeastorfamine Youtube: www.youtube....

What do you say to someone who says things like, "if your God is real then why does he let (insert bad/evil thing here) happen?". This was the topic of todays home church with my sons. Let's talk about Free Will on today's episode. I hope you enjoy and if you do, please share it! Thanks. Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @itsbeastorfamine Youtube:...

3 years...let's revisit this shit hole predicament I was in and this pos bed I had to sleep on. Today is the 3 year anniversary of Episode #26 "Rock Bottom" where I talk about being homeless and how I pulled myself out of it. That episode is not on Youtube but it is on Spotify and Apple. Links below... Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6h6L4qoskqGynlQd1c83hv?si=62122a4eeed74e...

How you do one thing is how you’ll do everything… Let’s talk about it.

Lost another one recently, a coach that is and it got me to reflecting on other coaches and the impact it had on my life. Short and sweet...let's talk about it. Thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @itsbeastorfamine YT: www.youtube.com/theperfectmesspod Donate: Cashapp $itsraymolina Venmo @itsraymolina

If your kids are like mine, driven by passion and goals...then you're going to want to listen to this one. My sons have dreams and goals larger than I ever imagined and I talk about my approach regarding these dreams and goals. Also, why it's important to give them encouragement, have faith in them and mix in some "Real Talk". It's important to be somewhere in the middle on t...

After that talk with my son Jayden...I couldn't help but feel like I needed to share a few instances where my Father showed a glimpse of what he could've been as a Father and Grandfather. I felt I needed to let people know, that there were moments (although very far and in-between) where I looked at him and said, "there it is...he's in there...I see it". Unfortunately they di...

Listen, when these kids get older they have REAL questions. This ain't for the faint at heart. My son Jayden and I had a real talk for our first Father Son date in a while. It was DEEP. Let's talk about it and then touch on how I channeled my inner Pastor Ray this weekend. Hope you enjoy and if you do, please share it! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @its...

Without saying too much here, I enjoyed this book. I listened to the audiobook on Spotify and will be buying the hard copy for my library. I am knee deep in another book so the audio for this one was a must. I hope you enjoy this review as much as I did this book. Please share it if you do...thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @itsbeastorfamine YT: www.youtub...

I know damn good and well that I am choosing the longer road by not having guests on my podcast thus far. I get it, trust me. But I don't do this to grow off another man's story...I do it to share mine. But when I do have guests, they will be along similar lines and have fantastic stories of how they regained their lives back and it will be to encourage all of you who've been listening...

Man I have been on such a growth journey for so long that I just now really embracing everything that comes with it. I hope this hits home for someone and if it does, please share it. Let's talk about it...Web: www.raymolina.comIG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @itsbeastorfamineYT: www.youtube.com/theperfectmesspodDonate: Cashapp $itsraymolina Venmo @itsraymolina

I been battling a lot lately, anybody else with me? Are you battling things left and right these past few weeks? Let's talk about some of the things I been sparring with and maybe it can help the both of us out. If you like this episode, please share it with someone thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @itsbeastorfamine YT: www.youtube.com/theperfectmesspo...

You’ll notice a theme in my life of taking walks with the people that I love… I hope this short episode hits home and if it does, please share it with somebody you love.

I wake up and pray every morning and one of the things I ask from GOD is to use me however he needs me. Now that is very vague and I understand that. But, GOD may need me in ways I am not familiar with and I need to be open to that. I am glad I am also, because he has been at work with me in recent months. I am performing some tasks I am in no way shape or form familiar or comfortable with. Let's...

We're in some soft times where today's "hard" is actually self inflicted "cater to me" BS. Let's talk about how we've lost our way and some of the differences of what hard really is compared to what hard really isn't in today's young world. I hope you enjoy this episode and if you do, please share it! Thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfect...

It's two years since his passing and man do I miss him. So, I thought this would be a great opportunity to tell a few cool stories about my Grandfather. Maybe it will give you some more insight as to why I am the man I am today and how close me and this man were. I hope you enjoy, if you do...please share it with someone thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolin...

We're human, we all have triggers...this includes me. I hate admitting this, it makes me feel weak. And to be honest, it should. Triggers ARE weaknesses. I had a trigger I didn't realize I had until this past weekend. It infuriated me and took me out of my situation for about an hour and even that was too long in my eyes. So, let's talk about it and break down how triggers can affect u...

I always teach my kids about peaks and valleys. And recently they have hit a valley when it comes to jujitsu and they’ve gotten discouraged. I have learned I get better results when I jump in the mud with my sons and show them that I am willing to battle whatever it is that they are going through alongside them. I think them this, because I also want them to understand that is how I approach life,...

Sex can screw things up right? Yea, I know when I was younger...who cared, we did it whenever we could. But let's talk about how different it gets when we get older into our 30's, 40's and pushing into our 50's. I gotta be honest, a lot changed for me and I share some of my own stories here with you. Let's dive into it...I hope you enjoy this episode and if you do please share...

Once you've locked in on your new life and new journey, one lesson you're going to have to learn is...what other people think about it or you is not your business. This includes (if you are a believer) GOD's plan for you. You can pray on things but how you get them or get there is his plan not yours and straight up, it is not your business. Let's talk about focusing on the present...

I get asked often, why or how I've changed. Recently, I was asked this on IG when I updated my profile pic to me in a black and white photo wearing a cowboy hat. I understand some have left since I quit music years ago and periodically come back shocked with who they now see...but let's talk about how this came about and the trips around the country that help contribute to growth, understa...

Our kids are like sponges, if we pour into them wonderful knowledge and life lessons they will soak it up. They will learn and they will apply it. More importantly you will not only see this first hand in their everyday life and know one thing is for sure...you have prepared them for life more than most parents. I love this podcast and topic, I hope if you do you will share it with someone you lov...

What a year. Ever had a year where you almost didn't realize how much you got accomplished? That was me this past year. Let's catch up and talk about my year and what I want to do moving fwd. I hope you had a great and safe NYE and a blessed 2024. If you like this or any other episode, please share, review, comment or rate! Thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @itsraymolina @theperfec...

Let’s talk about how resilient our children can be. If this hits home, please share with somebody. Thanks for listening.