The Perfect Mess Podcast

Let’s be very clear, sometimes friendships and do yourself a favor and never forget when times were good and you both looked out for each other in life. Always appreciate and remain thankful for those times. Thanks for listening, please check out the website www.raymolina.com follow me: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina

The classic, I haven’t had a chance…

Monday doesn’t always have to win…

Understanding, strengths and weaknesses in your players for whatever sport you are coaching is Paramount. In my opinion I hope this three minutes helps and if it does, please share it with somebody.

To those of you who helped make a dream come true...Thank You. This is for you... www.raymolina.com @itsraymolina @theperfectmesspod www.youtube.com/theperfectmesspod

I am big on setting the tone and energy for everything I do in life, especially coaching. I got tossed recently (haha) from a game...well, kinda...let's talk about it and why I did it and what has happened since...thanks for listening. www.raymolina.com @itsraymolina @theperfectmesspod www.youtube.com/theperfectmesspod Cashapp: $itsraymolina Venmo: @itsraymolina

The only way for things to change is for you to keep showing up every day, and yes, that means a difficult days as well. Those are probably the most important. I hope this episode encourages you and if it does, please share it with somebody thank you. Web: www.raymolina.com

Often times we need to refocus in life instead of having such a broad focus we need to hone in on the most important things in our life and that’s what I’ve been doing. Head down nose to the grind…I hope you enjoy this one. If you do, please share it with somebody thank you. Web: www.raymolina.com IG/tiktok - @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina YouTube: www. YouTube.com/theperfectmesspod Donate: Cash...

So I’m currently reading Don Miguel Ruiz Jr’s “the mastery of self” and he talks about the cycle of automatic and how some of us hold onto the person that we knew for years and when we see them again, that’s the image we have of them not taking into consideration that they may have changed. This is short, but hopefully it hits home for some of you struggling with wanting to change.

It's beautiful when you get to the point in life where you love the version of you, you see in the mirror. I can say, I am truly there right now and I want to share this with you and talk about the things that come with it. I hope you enjoy and if you do and feel someone needs to hear it...please share it, thank you! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @itsbeasto...

Maybe you're like me and often think your shit is the most important thing going and when you are going through it, why isn't anyone asking? I don't like when I do that either and I often check myself when that happens and I realize it. Well, tonight I was checked in a different way...and the reminder that my small time shit was just that compared to others...SMALL TIME. I hope this hi...

It ain't just the new generation people...it's across the board. The Ring don't mean shit nowadays...and I was wrong for thinking it was just the new age women because I found out today it is NOT. Follow me and let's talk about it here...thanks for listening. Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @itsbeastorfamine Youtube: www.youtube.com/theperfectmess...

Dad's we are failing our sons. I have mentored and coached kids for quite some time now and it always seems the overwhelming story is, "my Dad has never been around, we don't know each other" or, "he's around, I just never see him". Let's discuss this topic...maybe this will be our first Club House chat...share if you feel it. Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @...

I took a much needed timeout with my son after the last episode. Didn't know how much I needed it, until we finished our little outing. Then I reset my thinking and let things play out. They did. And now, it's GO TIME. What a whirlwind...but we still here and ready to rock. Thanks for tuning in... Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @itsbeastorfamine YT: www....

I am done addressing this everytime I see or hear from someone after this. I will now refer all of you here...haha. This coaching job has been an absolute shit show from the beginning and it progressively got worse and all I can do is vent here and be calm in person. It is what it is...let's talk about it. Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @itsbeastorfamine You...

I always seem to be reading the right book at the right time. Yesterday was a testament to that and the work I’ve done to become a better man. This is a short one but I’m sure it will hit home for some of you…

Damn it man...sometimes when you least expect it, a memory gets un lodged in the brain and reminds you of something you may have forgotten over the years. The other day this happened and I guess today, I just needed to get this off my chest so I didn't carry it around anymore. I hope you enjoy and if someone you know needs to hear it, please share...thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @t...

Let me be straight with you for a minute...if you are at a point in your life, where you finally love who you've become; don't start tweaking things to make others happy or "comfortable" around you. Be authentically YOU. Let's talk about this...if you feel it, please share it, thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @itsbeastorfamine YT: www...

Share it if it hits home and someone you know needs to hear it!!!

Once you’ve done the work to become the man that you know you were capable of becoming don’t apologize to those who haven’t done the same work and who feel intimidated by your lifestyle.

They say the thing that comes easiest to you is your calling. I also believe that at different stages in your life you have different callings. I just so happen to believe my current calling is baseball and has been for quite some time. God just needed to get a few things in order for me first then...he blessed me with the right opportunity. Let's talk about this today... Web: www.raymolina.co...

Staying locked in with friends through the years gets really tough. Today at the gun range I was reminded that it's something I need to put more focus on. If you're like me, you get comfortable being alone...but let's be honest, that's not good for us. It's a habit I need to break and maybe you do too...let's talk about it! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmessp...

This part of my life is called, "Clarity". Today I know why I was training for the last 7 years. Today I know there was always a bigger plan. And, today I realized...I am right where I am supposed to be. Let's talk about it... Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @itsbeastorfamine Youtube: www.youtube.com/theperfectmesspod Snapchat: Search - The Perfect...

Sometimes it turns back around...and today it did. We don't always get what we want, when we want or how we want. But today, I got what I wanted (in a way) and it wasn't how or when I wanted it...but that's ok. No time for nitpicking, just time to be thankful and get to work. Let's talk about this today...please share if it hits home! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @theperfectme...

Sometimes you just need to sit down and talk to somebody and get to know them and you realize so much that what you thought was so wrong. I hope this three minutes makes an impact on you. Have a great day.