The Perfect Mess Podcast

Sometimes things happen and you know a tough talk is in store and almost immediately you look up close your eyes and say, “God give me the words…” because you know this talk will be with them forever. Let’s talk about it…

Ever wonder if you’re raising the cool kid? A few things have happened recently that made me start to question that very thing. It’s fun watching your kids grow up and have their own lives aside from you. Let’s talk about this in detail.

Let’s talk about the hardest thing I do daily with my podcast. It’s not so hard anymore but there was a time when it was very very difficult for me.

We all have them. So what was your excuse today for not doing what you were supposed to do? Let’s talk about it.

I will attempt to do these every Friday just a quick one minute long inspiration on either fitness, mental, toughness, spiritual fitness you name it but anything to make you a beast and fight through the famine of the bullshit in this world today. Welcome to Beast or Famine Friday.

Sometimes as a coach, you need to step aside when you see something great about to happen. This weekend I saw one of my veteran older players step in to have a meeting with the team when they were struggling. I looked at my other Coach and I had them back off, so the kid could speak. And it was beautiful to watch. Let’s talk about letting kids be leaders.

I promise if you stay in the fight long enough your life will come full circle and will get better. But that is contingent on you doing what you’re supposed to be doing and getting better daily. Let’s talk about it…

Sometimes it’s OK to revert back to an older version of yourself. Let’s talk about that.

So many people are afraid to be alone because they’re afraid to be lonely. But there is a big difference between being alone and lonely. It comes with learning to be comfortable in your own skin and being OK with learning who you are before you jump into another relationship or anything for that matter. Let’s talk about it.

If you’re a coach and you’re looking for the easiest way to get results, this may help you. Let’s talk about it.

It’s a small world out there, don’t go around burning bridges left, and right because honestly you never know when you’re going to have to cross over one that has somebody on the other side who was affected by another bridge you burned. Let’s talk about it …

What a life it is...let's talk about the marathon to get to 50 years old....

I have a bad habit of venting to the wrong people. It just makes things worse because you don’t get the support you think you deserve. But let’s talk about it. Maybe you have the same issue.

How do we keep things moving fwd when shit gets hard? Let's talk about it...

Sometimes we hold onto shit too damn tight. When in reality, we just need to take the loss, walk away and let life happen. I have had to be reminded of that recently and I thought I'd share it with you so maybe you can save a little time and drama for yourself. Yea...buddy, let's talk about it and them.

90 Seconds of Inspiration

I'm struggling with my discipline of waiting and expecting more when it comes to a relationship for myself. I gotta be honest, I'm waiting for my Adrian...(Rocky Reference). Let's have a deep talk about love and relationships at my age. If you hear something someone needs to hear, please share it.

Let's just jump into this one...I needed to fix my relationship with my sister after years and the timing just lined up as GOD will have it of course. So, let's talk about it!

Back from Branson, MO...let's talk about and how much I love the midwest and already miss it. Back...and re-focused. Web: www.raymolina.com • www.youtube.com/@theperfectmesspod @itsraymolina @theperfectmesspod

This episode I talk about what we take with us when we’re gone. It isn’t the material things. We take with us what we gave to people and hopefully we’ve done our job and people can speak to our legacy and what it did for them. Coaching, mentoring, and being the best father I could be is helping me do that right now… Let’s talk about it.

I vent a lot, but let’s be clear if you take the same energy that you have while you are venting directly to the issue that you are venting about, more often than that you were going to lose. Let’s talk about it.

It feels good to work through the bullshit and finally get to some grown folks shit. Especially when it comes to great coparenting, shall we talk about it?

It’s important for young athletes to have a routine prior to game time. Especially for those who are trying to get to the next level. As most of you know I coach baseball for kids 12 and up on through high school and I see so many kids with no direction other than play the game and hope you’re good enough. It takes so much more than that. Let’s talk about it…

I think a lot of kids unfortunately I’m going to be in for a reality check once they get to high school for baseball and beyond. And my opinion for a lot of them it’s not going to be their fault. It’s going to be their parents fault. Hear me out. Let’s talk about it.

Sometimes you fail to realize that you have one final stitch to insert and mend the past. Let’s talk about it…