The Perfect Mess Podcast

Sometimes you need to remind yourself to take a break and to give yourself a personal time out from all the BS going on in the world.

There is no in between, either we are getting better or we’re not.

This is for all the strong men pay attention…

The right woman is going to ask the right questions even if they’re tough pay attention.

You know the grudges we hold against people after a while only affect us because those people don’t even realize we still have those grudges. So how long are you gonna hold onto yours?

Take time to focus on you. We lose sight of that all the time. Dont forget about you and your peace.

I’ve been there. Never wanting to love the way you did because the pain you felt when it ended. But there is only one way to love…please share it if you feel it.

Ever been told “I don’t understand you or relate to you anymore?” Good, so have I. That means you’ve changed, done the work and your past has no idea how to connect with this version of YOU.

What does it mean when things start to go your way? well, in short, it means you’re blessed but let’s talk about it a bit more and I’ll share mine.

Ladies, the balls in your court…there are no wrong answers🤔

Let’s talk about the feeling of imposter syndrome. And once you realize that you are where you are for a reason and that’s because of all the hard work you’ve put in. Let’s talk about how you need to earn it every day so that doesn’t affect your forward progress.

Falling in love is easy… Perspective

When the chasing is over we can get real…

Ep. 191 - Even harder repairing a broken man…

The answer is always GOD…

Perspective - When she has that unbeatable bond with her Father…

Let me give you some perspective…

Hopefully, you guys had a great Christmas. I’d like to share a little bit about my holiday experience after seven years. Things have improved so much that I couldn’t be more happier with where God has put me and my family. He has healed our broken family and show us that there is a path to be successful at coparenting and I’m very thankful. I also share with you the deeper meaning of what it means...

When God has a plan, there is nothing that could stand in its way. When I tell you, I am thankful… Words could never explain. I’m going to do my best on this episode to tell you how thankful and blessed I really am. This chapter of my life is called. We did that..

Man, when I tell you, God is good and that he is listening. I tell you no lies. When I tell you that my relationship with my grandfather was strong, I can’t even begin to tell you that it is still strong to this day and he’s been gone for nearly 3 years. Please listen to this story that happened last night. I hope this hits home for somebody and if it does, please share it thank you.

Let’s talk about John Mayer and how he played a role in me, bouncing back in my life and finding peace.

Recently, I’ve asked a question, am I at the right place obviously, I’m talking to God. But every move that I make as I get older, I try to be as calculated as possible because I know that every move that I make as a father affects my children, so let’s talk about that on this short episode.

Yep, it flies by what am I talking about? Raising your boys. It is a very fine line to give in to their independence, but to also keep them connected to you as a Father. Let’s talk about it.

Man, I had this very moment. I am fully humbled and to be honest a bit emotional. Let me share the story with you. And if you’re broken as a man and have been like I have… Maybe you’ll understand.

Being the one to win the game is amazing right? But being the one to lose the game is more important to experience for growth. Let’s talk about it briefly.