The Perfect Mess Podcast

I was deep in conversation today about kids, age and fear of being alone in our latter years...then I rolled up on my own neighborhood where we had a house on the hill as a kid and lost it all. Then it all came out and I needed to spill that here...let's talk about family and 2nd chances...I hope you enjoy and if you do, please share this one. Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @itsraymolina @t...

Casual conversation on this one...talking to all the men/fathers going through a divorce, break up or separation. It's dark, I know. You probably look at yourself and think, who's gonna want me like this? I thought the same thing...out of shape, broken, single with kids, stuggling financially...trust me I know. But let me encourage you so you know that it doesn't have to stay that way....

Let's talk about baseball in Las Vegas and how this trip showed me my teenager is growing up before my very eyes. Man...it does not slow down, not one bit. Fathers, you need to hear this one if your son plays travel ball...you'll appreciate it. Thanks for listening, and if you hear something you think someone you know needs to hear...please share this episode! Web: www.raymolina.com IG: @i...

Well...I thought I only had to deal with my high schooler growing up too fast. But, I was wrong because me lil man is moving faster and I am trying to keep it together over here. Let me tell you a little bit about it today. I hope you enjoy, and if you do...please share it with someone, thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @itsraymolina @theperfectmesspod @itsbeastorfamine Youtube: www.youtub...

"Where have all the good men gone?" - We're tired...listen, and follow me on this. This is such a hot topic right now and I have my own experience with this I would like to share. I hope you enjoy and as always if it hits home...SHARE IT! Thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com IG: @itsraymolina @theperfectmesspod @itsbeastorfamine TikTok: @itsraymolina @theperfectmesspod @itsbeastorfamine Do...

Ever wonder if you are better off being single? At 49 I wonder that often...I often say "I miss the noise". Meaning, the family...kids, partner, animal...all of it. But what is it going to take to get back there and is it even possible after being single for so long? Let's talk about that on this episode. Web: www.raymolina.com IG: @itsraymolina @theperfectmesspod Youtube: www.youtub...

I know we've talked about this exact topic I think back in May of 2023...but it needs to be said once more. I hope you find that hustle in you when your businesses or trades are slowing down and things start to pile up on you financially. This has been my story recently and I am sharing with you how I am working through it...I hope it helps you. If so, please share it! Web: www.raymolina.com I...

We all have at least one. A "friend" who does things out of the "kindness of their heart" only to unleash them on you when you least expect it. It's usually when you've told them something they needed to hear that may jeopardize your friendship moving forward. This episode is direct, to the point and a bit vulgar...(sorry about it) but sometimes it calls for it. Hope it...

Does the perfect ten even exist? Let's talk about it and I will give you my thoughts and if you feel so inclined once you are done listening...I would love to hear your input. Let's talk... Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @itsraymolina @theperfectmesspod @itsbeastorfamine Youtube: www.youtube.com/@theperfectmesspod Cashapp: $itsraymolina

Tough episode...but necessary. Let's talk about how we always muck up the message and make decisions on our own and use the word to defend it. This will hit different depending on where you are in your walk with Christ...but if it hits home, please share it...thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @itsraymolina @theperfectmesspod Youtube: www.youtube.com/@theperfectmesspod Donate: $itsraymo...

Today I share a story that should put a smile on your face, and hopefully inspire you from when I was shopping in the dollar tree, have a blessed day. IG/TIKTOK: @itsraymolina / @theperfectmesspod • Web: www.raymolina.com • YT: www. YouTube.com/@theperfectmesspod

I hope this story I’m sharing with you today inspires you to help somebody.

Sometimes it’s just the way we look at things it’s all perspective. If this hits home for ya, please share it thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com • IG/TikTok: @itsraymolina • YouTube: www. YouTube.com/@theperfectmesspod

We spend a lot of our lives being afraid to be the guy who says, "naw...I don't think I'll be there" or "it depends on who's going...I may or may not come". We or I for that matter never wanted to be that guy, but as I've gotten older it's more important than ever to "Be That Guy" because it's putting you first and looking out for you. That is...

I hope this helps you like it helped me. Sometimes things happen throughout our day that we have no control over. What we have control over is how we react.

I'm back from the road y'all. Fresh off two baseball road trips for my kids to San Diego, CA and Branson, MO. Won a championship in SD and came home with a winning record in Missouri! Lot's to catch up on and I hope you enjoy this episode. If so, please share it! Thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com IG: @itsraymolina @theperfectmesspod (TikTok as well)

Sometimes we get the call to go a completely different direction in life. I find myself struggling with this but I am finally coming around to answering it and living in the moment. So, let's talk about it and I hope this helps you with something you may be going through that is similar. Thanks for listening here are the links you need: Web: www.raymolina.com IG/TikTok: @itsraymolina YT: www.y...

Let’s talk about inspiration and influence and which is best for your kids and you. Hope you enjoy this episode and if you do, please share it! Thanks! Web: www.raymolina.com • IG/TikTok: @itsraymolina • @theperfectmesspod • @itsbeastorfamine

I was asked a question after episode 104 as to why I left corporate and what made me want to pursue becoming an entrepreneur. Hopefully this answer gives some of you clarity and maybe for the right people it inspires you. As always, if this hits home for you or you feel someone needs to hear this please share it. Thanks for listening. Website: www.raymolina.com • IG/TikTok: @itsraymolina • YT: www...

Let’s talk about doing whatever it takes to achieve your goals. See some of us are too proud to do certain things in order to do so and that only hurts YOU. So let’s get real one second and discuss how I deal and have dealt with this. I hope this hits home for you and if it does please share it. Website: www.raymolina.com • IG/TikTok: @itsraymolina YouTube.com/@theperfectmesspod

As a kid, who’s passionate about sports and would love to someday, somehow try and make this a goal to do for a living. It is difficult to hear a parent say, it’s just a game. I hope this hits home for somebody and if it does, please share it.

As I’ve gotten older my tolerance for adults who’ve failed to grow up and act respectfully around kids has dwindled. I have found that I don’t want to be around anyone because of it. This episode I discuss this issue and how I’ve dealt with it. Yes, I was rucking again so this episode was recorded while I was on the go! Thanks for listening…be sure to check out my site: www.raymolina.com and follo...

This is a message to the fathers: your son doesn’t need anything material, not money, not cars, not namebrand clothes none of it… He needs you your time and your love and more importantly your lessons. If this message hits home for you, or you think someone needs to hear it, please share it. Thank you so much for your support. My website is www.raymolina.com and my IG/TikTok is: @itsraymolina

This is your friendly reminder that time is not your friend it does not wait. In fact, it flies, and before you know it, things will change in the blink of an eye, so cherish today. If this hits home for you, please share it with somebody. Thank you. My website is www.raymolina.com my IG/TikTok is @itsraymolina

Yes, I know…I said “Creative Gene” in the beginning of this episode…haha when you do these on the fly sometimes that happens. Anyway, let’s talk about the Competitive Gene and if you have it…was it learned or born with? Can it be taught? I hope you enjoy this episode and if so, please share it with someone thanks! Website: www.raymolina.com • IG/TikTok: @itsraymolina