The Other Side of the Struggle (Healing from Betrayal Trauma)

Send us Fan Mail I ALWAYS hear, "Erin, how do I trust this person again?" Since I coach a lot of women who have husbands that have a porn addiction, often the person in reference is their husband. I decided to answer that question today with my good friend and fellow coach Kyson Kidd. Kyson helps men and women become immune to porn and living a life full of freedom, wellness, and joy! I...

Send us Fan Mail We tend to misunderstand what forgiveness is. We've been taught that it is a certain thing and that certain consequences come along with it... and its no wonder why those of us who have dealt with trauma aren't buying it. But, when we understand what it truly is, it COMPLETELY unlocks the door to healing, and allows us to finally drop the trauma for good! If you would li...

Send us Fan Mail There are four main boundaries that I check myself by in life that keep my joy and freedom close to my heart, and in my own control. We are talking about the first one today which is the Boundary of Love. I know! I know! That sounds really generic, but I think everyone has to decide what love is to them and how they are that very thing already. Listen in today, to set your own lov...

Send us Fan Mail I'm not going to lie you guys! This is going to knock your socks off! Daniel discusses what boundaries are and how they are an absolutely BEAUTIFUL blessing and how they help create more abundance in our lives. If you are looking to doing some serious manifesting for yourself, you are ready to step out of the trauma and into "living your best and highest life", this...

Send us Fan Mail Oh my goodness you guys!!! This boundary blueprint is SOOOO powerful. Using it has helped me create some really wonderful and supportive relationships... even from those who were previously not very loving and supportive. So! Take a listen! If you are ready to have relationships that show up to support you in the way you need to, this is a GREAT start! If you would like to book a...

Send us Fan Mail Hey everyone! This is a HUGE topic when you are trying to create boundaries because people often don't consider creating a boundary with themselves. Yet, it's SO important and essential to do before you create boundaries with others. Creating loving, trusting, and truth filled boundaries with yourself helps you to recognize what you need to create with those around you s...

Send us Fan Mail  Well this is an unusual subject! But where there are so many people who struggle with making and understanding what to do when boundaries are broken, I figured that this is a GREAT place to start discussing how to create amazing boundaries. In this, we discover a blueprint of boundary making so you can start to create your paradise of a life! Don't forget! You can come join...

Send us Fan Mail Ok! Let's be honest here. Boundaries do get broken, but what comes next after the boundary is broken is what we are a bit more unsure of. This is where people find that they get themselves stuck! This week, we are discussing how to start to create boundaries by getting clear with what you want, getting clear with what that means, and then getting clear with the action to take...

Send us Fan Mail This episode may go down in history as one of my most, ALL TIME FAVORITE, episodes EVER!!! Kushla Chadwick joins me today discussing how to be abundant even when we deal with trauma, even with uncertainty in our way, we can still be abundant. That kind of abundance creates a self confidence that helps you always know your way, no matter what! Take a listen because Kushla has some...

Send us Fan Mail This tier seriously taught me so much about where I was at in my relationships. It really helped me see how I wanted to be and who I truly was because it it caused me to really think about what I wanted to create with other people. We often get stuck in this tier and sometimes because of that, we tend to get the wrong idea about what the "stuckness" means. So, today, we...

Send us Fan Mail So, this is one that I get a lot. Women, and men, who are going through trauma often have a very damaged self confidence. That can leave them feeling very vulnerable and unhappy. But, once they realize the truth, it changes how much joy then end up creating for themselves in their lives. Take a listen to this week for an extra boost to your self confidence! Support the show If you...

Send us Fan Mail Who is God to you and do you understand how that perception of who he is can help you heal from trauma? In this Episode, we discuss the God tier, how he is and can be your perfect father, and how to get to know him even better. Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https://calendly.com/erin-anderson-coaching/creating...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back my luvs! This week is a juicy episode because we are diving into how to change your results by changing your thoughts. It doesn't mean AT ALL that we are ever ok with our hubby's addictions. It means that we see it for what it truly is and what we truly are. Understanding ourselves as a goddess helps us to take goddess action! Tune in! Support the show If yo...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back everyone for a new episode of "The Other Side of the Struggle"! In today's episode, we go into more detail about the 5 steps from Stimulus to Results and how to get more of the results you are looking for in your life. I also talk about some of the thoughts that were keeping me stuck in the trauma, the results I was having from those thoughts, and what...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back! In this weeks episode, I talk about the 5 step thought process that can either keep you rooted in trauma, or start you on your healing journey. This is a juicy episode guys! You don't want to miss this! If you are wanting peace, then this is the podcast for you!  Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a tim...

Send us Fan Mail Hey my luvs! So, last week I talked about some of the trauma I have seen in my life, especially in my marriage, and how that lead me to the beginning of my healing journey. But, I wanted to talk with you about the very first thing I learned along my journey with healing.  In this episode, you'll learn which relationships you need to focus on first to heal from the betrayal th...

Send us Fan Mail It came to my attention that there were some things that could have been clarified in my earlier story! In this episode, I am retelling my story about where I was when I was in my betrayal trauma. Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https://calendly.com/erin-anderson-coaching/creating-your-unbreakable-boundaries Ge...

Send us Fan Mail To gain healing means that we need to make choices that get us healing. We have to move forward, but it's hard to move forward with your healing when you're rooted in fear. Time to get honest with yourself and gain some honesty from others as well! Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https://calendly.com/...

Send us Fan Mail In today's episode, I am talking about how when we have been betrayed, we think that we want Justice. We want that other person to suffer for what they've done. But, that's actually a trust issue with Christ. Fix the trust issue, and you begin to fix your pain. I explain how in this episode. Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on th...

Send us Fan Mail One of the biggest things that we struggle with when we are victims of betrayal trauma is how to finally feel safe again. I get that question a lot, "How can I be safe again?". In today's episode, we talk about what safety truly is, and how we get it back! Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https://...

Send us Fan Mail In this week, we are discussing all things new! When you are trying to heal from trauma, you are wishing that those that created the trauma would stop. You are wishing that you could just continue with your life. You feel like you are being chained and held back by the choices of another. You feel like you can't have freedom until the other person makes better choices. Today,...

Send us Fan Mail One of the questions I get a lot is, "How do I set a boundary that doesn't get broken? He is always breaking them, mistreating them, and not taking them seriously. I'm tired of feeling cast aside and unseen." Today, I address setting proper boundaries that don't get broken, and letting him know that this is a serious issue. Support the show If you would li...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of The Other Side of the Struggle, we are discussing how gratitude is the very thing that can help you heal from your trauma. Without gratitude, we are literally locking ourselves in a room with the trauma without a way out. Gratitude is the key to freedom! Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https:...

Send us Fan Mail In this week we tell a story about two brothers. One who was foolish, one who was wise. What ending shall we give the wise one? Join in to see how you can use the story of these two brothers to be a better steward of your joy. Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click on this link to schedule a time: https://calendly.com/erin-anderson-coaching/creating-...

Send us Fan Mail Hey everyone! So this was a super fun episode this week. So many people believe that if you forgive someone, you are allowing that person to hurt you over and over and over again. But, in this episode, I show you how that's not true and what forgiveness really is. It truly is your own God given super power! Support the show If you would like to book a free coaching call click...