The Me in Us

In this episode we discuss the pitfalls of self criticism and how we can manage our self criticism to help improve and grow in our relationships.

In this episode with discuss the complexities and pressures surrounding the roles of initiating, rejecting and experiencing orgasms in intimate relationships. The conversation explores how these dynamics can create anxiety and tension, and how they are influenced by gender, societal expectations, and the evolution of a relationship over time. We delve into topics such as the differences in sexual...

In this episode we talk about Sibling Position. It is a discussion about how a person's position in their family as the oldest, middle, youngest, or only child shapes their personality and relationships. We talk about the origins of sibling position theory in psychology, common traits associated with different sibling positions, and how factors like family dynamics, gender, and culture influen...

In this episode we have an insightful discussion about managing relationships with in-laws. We explore common tensions that arise, cultural expectations, setting boundaries, the importance of open communication, and more.

In this episode we discuss the topics of masturbation, pornography, and how they relate to couples and relationships. We talk about the prevalence of porn, the porn industry, and the pros and cons of porn and masturbation when done individually versus as a couple. We explore questions around whether porn and masturbation replace partnered sex, how to have conversations with your partner about thes...

In this episode we have an insightful discussion about the joys and challenges of parenting across cultures. Drawing from our own upbringings in Venezuela and Switzerland and raising children in America, we share personal stories and perspectives on balancing multiple cultural identities. It's an interesting dialogue about the nuances of raising third culture kids. I think any parent who has e...

In this episode, we have an in-depth discussion about the role money and finances play in romantic relationships. We touch on topics like gender expectations, financial planning, communication between partners, and more. We share personal stories and examples from our experiences as therapists and in past relationships. And debate the various approaches couples can take in managing money matters,...

In this episode we discuss the prevalence of labels like "narcissist" and "bipolar" in a relationship, and how they affect the power dynamics. Are all men narcissists and women bipolar? Let's discuss. While actual diagnoses are relatively rare, these terms are commonly used as insults or excuses for poor behavior. We note that everyone demonstrates some problematic traits a...

In this episode we talk about the importance of sex in an intimate relationship and all the benefits it can provide. Let's see if we can answer the age old questions of: "who wants it more?"

Meet Dr. Olivia Schlapfer Colmer and Elsa Hines in the very first episode of The Me in Us Podcast. In this episode they talk about how to navigate friendships and personal relationships outside of a marriage.

This is The Me in Us Podcast. A conversation between two relationship therapists talking about real life issues. Based on what they have learned in clinical settings, working with clients and from their own experiences of motherhood, marriage, and parenting.