Melissa Bottorff-Arey
The Leftover Pieces: Suicide Loss Conversations
Suicide loss changes everything. The Leftover Pieces® Podcast explores life after suicide through honest conversations with survivors, experts, and grieving parents learning to live forward after unimaginable loss. Parents, partners, siblings, and friends share what it means to keep living when the world has been forever changed. Hosted by Melissa Bottorff-Arey, whose 21-year-old son Alex died by suicide in 2016, the show blends intimate conversations with survivors, healers, and mental health professionals with short solo reflections you can actually use. Together we explore child loss, traum...
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Jul 6, 2026
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Grief Truth #12; August Daily Nuggets 12.08.2025 2:06
"Healing is not the same as forgetting." Welcome, fellow griever. This is your Daily Nugget from me, Melissa, your host of The Leftover Pieces. Today we will share a moment of presence, a breath of truth, and a reminder. Let’s lean in Some people think moving forward means leaving the past behind. But grief teaches us otherwise. Healing is not the same as forgetting. Healing isn’t about...
Grief Truth #11; August Daily Nuggets 11.08.2025 1:54
"Grief does not follow a straight line." Welcome, fellow griever. This is your Daily Nugget from me, Melissa, your host of The Leftover Pieces. Today we will share a moment of presence, a breath of truth, and a reminder. Let’s lean in If you’ve ever felt like you’re “doing grief wrong,” you’re not. "Grief does not follow a straight line." The path is messy. It loops back on its...
Grief Truth #10; August Daily Nuggets 10.08.2025 2:06
“Silence can be a sacred companion.” Welcome, fellow griever. This is your Daily Nugget from me, Melissa, your host of The Leftover Pieces. Today we will share a moment of presence, a breath of truth, and a reminder. Let’s begin. Before we start, plant your feet and notice how the ground holds you. Even now, you are supported. Silence can be a sacred companion. One of grief’s quiet tricks is co...
Grief Truth #9; August Daily Nuggets 09.08.2025 2:06
“This loss rewrites your story.” Welcome, fellow griever. This is your Daily Nugget from me, Melissa, your host of The Leftover Pieces. Today we will share a moment of presence, a breath of truth, and a reminder. Let’s begin. Let's take a breath together. Let yourself arrive. Sometimes we don’t need answers — just something true to hold. Here’s today’s grief truth. This loss rewrites your sto...
Grief Truth #8; August Daily Nuggets 08.08.2025 2:05
“Grief teaches you who you are beneath the pain.” Welcome, fellow griever. This is your Daily Nugget from me, Melissa, your host of The Leftover Pieces. Today we will share a moment of presence, a breath of truth, and a reminder. Let’s begin. Take a breath. Let yourself arrive. Sometimes we don’t need answers — just something true to hold. Here’s today’s grief truth. Grief teaches you who you...
Grief Truth #7; August Daily Nuggets 07.08.2025 3:12
“Some days are sacred, no matter how much time has passed.” Welcome, fellow griever. This is your Daily Nugget from me, Melissa, your host of The Leftover Pieces. Today we will share a moment of presence, a breath of truth, and a reminder. Let’s begin. Take a breath. Or Two - or three. Let yourself arrive. Sometimes we don’t need answers — just something true to hold. Here’s today’s grief truth. S...
The Eternal Last Day; A Poem for the Unimagineable 06.08.2025 3:58
Nine years ago tomorrow, my son Alex died & every August 6th became the eternal last day. I hadn’t found those words until now. The day before everything changed. The last day of “before.” This is a poem I wrote when I woke today—rising from the weight—where memory meets survival. Most days, I carry grief with grace. My soul is expanded. Alex is always with me. I now do work I never would&apos...
Grief Truth #6; August Daily Nuggets 06.08.2025 2:27
“Memories hurt — and they can also heal.” Welcome, fellow griever. This is your Daily Nugget from me, Melissa, your host of The Leftover Pieces. Today we will share a moment of presence, a breath of truth, and a reminder. Let’s begin. I invite you to take a breath -- or two. Let yourself arrive. Sometimes we don’t need answers — just something true to hold. Here’s today’s grief truth. Memories h...
Grief Truth #5; August Daily Nuggets 05.08.2025 2:27
“Guilt and love often feel the same.” August 5 Daily Nugget Take a breath. Let yourself arrive. Sometimes we don’t need answers — just something true to hold. Here’s today’s grief truth. Guilt and love often feel the same. Guilt is one of grief’s heaviest companions. It creeps in through the cracks of “what if” and “why didn’t I.” But here’s something I’ve come to learn: guilt often masquerades...
Grief Truth #4; August Daily Nuggets 04.08.2025 2:27
Today's Grief Truth - “Some days are lighter. Some days are heavy — and that’s okay.” Welcome, fellow griever. This is your Daily Nugget from me, Melissa, your host of The Leftover Pieces. Today we will share a moment of presence, a breath of truth, and a reminder. Take a breath. Let yourself arrive. Sometimes we don’t need answers — just something true to hold. Here’s today’s grief truth. Y...
Grief Truth #3; August Daily Nuggets 03.08.2025 2:04
Today's Grief Truth - " Grief is Not Linear". There’s no finish line here. No checklist. Grief is wild and unpredictable. You might feel “okay” one day — and the next, the wind knocks you flat. But that doesn’t mean you’re back at the beginning. It means you're walking through it honestly. Progress in grief doesn’t move forward like an arrow — it spirals. It folds back on itse...
Grief Truth #2; August Daily Nuggets 02.08.2025 2:04
Here’s today’s grief truth. “It’s okay to laugh and cry in the same hour.” Grief is full of contradictions — and also full of truth. One moment, you’re sobbing in the car because their favorite song came on. The next, you're belly-laughing at the memory of something wild they once did. That swing? That unpredictability? It doesn’t mean you’re unstable — it means you’re human. We are wired...
Grief Truth #1; August Daily Nuggets INTRO 01.08.2025 5:34
Hello Fellow Griever— and Welcome Back. If you’ve been wondering where I’ve been… you’re not wrong. July was quieter than usual here on the podcast (totally quiet!) — but it wasn’t in vain. Behind the scenes, I’ve been pouring myself into some powerful new offerings: two brand-new grief coaching programs — each with their own beautiful workbook now published and available — and the long-awaited la...
Getting Real About Grief ‘Coaching’; Why I Do This & Why I Do it Differently 15.06.2025 13:57
Welcome today fellow griever. I appreciate you, I see you and thank you so much for listening and if you can, please --- Support the show Today, I’m taking you behind the scenes — not just of the podcast, but of why I do all of this. Spoiler alert: it’s not about making six figures. Not even close to what it's about! It started with a mic, a grieving heart, and the hope that I could create th...
New Ways to Heal Together; What’s New at The Leftover Pieces 01.06.2025 11:53
Welcome today fellow griever. I appreciate you, I see you and thank you so much for listening and if you can, please --- Support the show You may have seen soft mentions of some new things I’ve been building — maybe in your inbox or on social — and today I’m diving all the way in. If this is the first you’re hearing of it, then welcome — you’re right on time. In this heart-led episode of Down the...
Welcome to May 31; "We're All Mad Here" DAILY Mental Health Nugget 31.05.2025 5:25
" Hello --It is May 31st and welcome to Wonderland Fellow Griever. — “You’ve just stepped Down the Rabbit Hole — where mental health meets madness after loss. This is your daily dose of truth, grief, and yes, just the right bit of madness.” WEEK 5: The FINALE for may 2025 Daily Nuggets Day 31: Today’s truth is: "You're still here. That matters." Idea: Completion, continuation,...
Welcome to May 30; "We're All Mad Here" DAILY Mental Health Nugget 30.05.2025 4:10
" Hello --It is May 30th and welcome to Wonderland Fellow Griever. — “You’ve just stepped Down the Rabbit Hole — where mental health meets madness after loss. This is your daily dose of truth, grief, and yes, just the right bit of madness.” WEEK 5: The 3 Day Wrap -up for the Month Day 30: Today’s truth is: "Life, what is it but a dream?" Idea: The surreal nature of life after loss....
Welcome to May 29; "We're All Mad Here" DAILY Mental Health Nugget 29.05.2025 3:56
" Hello --It is May 29th and welcome to Wonderland Fellow Griever. — “You’ve just stepped Down the Rabbit Hole — where mental health meets madness after loss. This is your daily dose of truth, grief, and yes, just the right bit of madness.” WEEK 5: The 3 Day Wrap -up for the Month Day 29: Today’s truth is: (Finale echo) "I can't go back to yesterday..." Idea: Reinforcing transf...
Welcome to May 28; "We're All Mad Here" DAILY Mental Health Nugget 28.05.2025 4:05
" Hello --It is May 28th and welcome to Wonderland Fellow Griever. — “You’ve just stepped Down the Rabbit Hole — where mental health meets madness after loss. This is your daily dose of truth, grief, and yes, just the right bit of madness.” WEEK 4: Resilience & Reclamation Day 28: Today’s truth is: "Why did you come out here at all?" Idea: The isolation of grief. There are day...
Welcome to May 27; "We're All Mad Here" DAILY Mental Health Nugget 27.05.2025 4:29
" Hello --It is May 27th and welcome to Wonderland Fellow Griever. — “You’ve just stepped Down the Rabbit Hole — where mental health meets madness after loss. This is your daily dose of truth, grief, and yes, just the right bit of madness.” WEEK 4: Resilience & Reclamation Day 27: Today’s truth is: "It sounds uncommon nonsense." Idea: Navigating unhelpful advice. Grief comes wi...
Blackbird; A Mother's Reflection on Grief, Loss & Life After Suicide; Betsy Thibaut Stephenson 26.05.2025 1:28:02
Welcome today fellow griever. I appreciate you, I see you and thank you so much for listening and if you can, please --- Support the show Today, I release a recent conversation with Betsy Thibaut Stephenson to talk about her son Charlie who was a smart, witty, reserved, and was (silently) living with being 'unmotivated' & being depressed. Despite doing what seemed like all of the rig...
Welcome to May 26; "We're All Mad Here" DAILY Mental Health Nugget 26.05.2025 3:53
" Hello --It is May 26th and welcome to Wonderland Fellow Griever. — “You’ve just stepped Down the Rabbit Hole — where mental health meets madness after loss. This is your daily dose of truth, grief, and yes, just the right bit of madness.” WEEK 4: Resilience & Reclamation Day 26: Today's truth is: "I shall be punished... by being drowned in my own tears." Idea: Emotional o...
Welcome to May 25; "We're All Mad Here" DAILY Mental Health Nugget 25.05.2025 4:12
" Hello --It is May 25th and welcome to Wonderland Fellow Griever. — “You’ve just stepped Down the Rabbit Hole — where mental health meets madness after loss. This is your daily dose of truth, grief, and yes, just the right bit of madness.” WEEK 4: Resilience & Reclamation Day 25: Today’s truth is: " Why is a raven like a writing desk?" Idea: Unanswerable questions. This is one...
Welcome to May 24; "We're All Mad Here" DAILY Mental Health Nugget 24.05.2025 4:01
" Hello --It is May 24th and welcome to Wonderland Fellow Griever. — “You’ve just stepped Down the Rabbit Hole — where mental health meets madness after loss. This is your daily dose of truth, grief, and yes, just the right bit of madness.” WEEK 4: Resilience & Reclamation Day 24: Today’s truth is: "Then you shouldn't talk." Idea: The silence around grief. Sometimes, we si...
Welcome to May 23; "We're All Mad Here" DAILY Mental Health Nugget 23.05.2025 4:00
" Hello --It is May 23rd and welcome to Wonderland Fellow Griever. — “You’ve just stepped Down the Rabbit Hole — where mental health meets madness after loss. This is your daily dose of truth, grief, and yes, just the right bit of madness.” WEEK 3: Control & Surrender Day 23: Today’s truth is: "Try again: draw a long breath..." Idea: Starting over. Some days, you start over fi...
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