The Latex Files

Jessica relays an awkward, surprising and disappointing booking and request that she had with a client recently. She explains that she is increasingly experiencing clients who look to her to provide unpaid labour and high-level emotional support, using guilt and manipulation tactics to get their needs met.

In this filler episode of The Latex Files podcast, Jessica shares an absurd dream that she had where she was a silver spoon who had fed Joe Biden and Donald Trump on Air Force One.

What happens if a client initiates a chargeback via their bank, after the sex worker has provided services? What recourse does a sex worker have in relation to the money? Does the client commit an offence? Jessica discusses all of these points because sex workers should understand their rights and avoid spreading misinformation on social media.

Jessica mentions some surprising life updates including that she now has a boyfriend and her instagram account got suspended.  Then she sits down to interview another of her clients who she affectionately dubs "skinny Santa" due to his tendency to bring many presents to his bookings.  Skinny Santa explains what it was like going to see an escort after many years of no sexual contact or intimacy.

Jessica shares an update on her stalker situation and then sits down for a chat with one of her clients.  Her client shares his experience as a first time user of the service as an older gentleman, following a very traditional upbringing into adulthood where sex was considered a taboo topic.

In this episode, Jessica breaks down a list with real-life examples of some of the controlling behaviours that may be exhibited by clients of sex workers.  She explains how these behaviours can escalate or repeat, leading to the "straw that breaks the camel's back" and the negative fallout that the escort needs to consider when cutting off a client.

Jessica shares some brutal truths about the practices and habits of some sex workers that clients hate.  These include a lack of preparation and professionalism - e.g. forgetting necessary supplies to work - through to fake photos.

Jessica explains how the celebrity and influencer status afforded to some sex workers risks the marginalisation of sex workers being believed and actioned upon.  If some sex workers are being flown first class around the world, invited onto commercial television stations, offered book deals, etc, it's really hard to convince the general public that sex workers are often being treated prejudicially...

Jessica, an Australian based sex worker, interviews another of her clients about his experience in the realm of full service sex work.  This particular client has valuable insights and advice based on a number of encounters with massage parlour workers, brothel workers and independent workers.

Is what is being shown on TikTok and Instagram true?  Do sex workers make thousands of dollars per year and live lavish lifestyles?  In this episode, Jessica gives her insights and opinions on the likely salaries of full service sex workers.

Police are able to identify and apprehend a suspect in relation to the Jasmine Crathern and Julie McColl murders.  But is Francis Michael Fahey also responsible for the earlier attacks?  If not, is there a killer or killers on the loose? Link to the Forensic Files episode for this case: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_svqu6FATlE

Jessica explores the murders of four Brisbane sex workers occurring in the late 90s and early 2000s, Karen-Ann Redmile, Elizabeth Henry, Jasmine Crathern and Julie McColl.  Was a serial killer targeting sex workers on the loose in Brisbane?  Or was this the work of more than one offender?

Do sex workers expect gifts and tips?  Are the gifts and tips shown by popular sex workers on social media just bullshit?  What is a typical gift or tip for a sex worker?  Jessica answers all of these questions.

In this episode, Jessica recounts and provides comments on two recent print and TV stories about assaults against sex workers in New South Wales.  Links to the stories: https://www.reddit.com/r/wollongong/comments/1rw4xiw/postbreakup_outburst_dapto_man_bashes_male_escort/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J70N7hn0CFQ

Jessica discusses some of the constraints facing sex workers in deciding whether to tour domestically or internationally, such as the increasing costs of flights and accommodation and the legality (or otherwise) of sex work.

Jessica's ex-husband returns to the podcast to provide some further comments regarding jealousy and why romantic relationships between sex workers and their clients are unlikely to work.

Jessica sits down for a chat with her ex-husband.  Mr X gives some insight into what it was like to be married to a sex worker and answers some listener questions including whether he felt jealousy, whether Jessica is the best f*ck he has ever had and whether he has booked Jessica since the split. Apologies for the echo in parts of the audio.  Learning process with new equipment!

Jessica gives some insight into the risks and issues that arise for sex workers divulging personal information to clients, including their legal names.  Jessica explains why it is preferable for sex workers to use a stage name.

Jessica explores the question of whether or not a sex worker has a legal obligation or duty of confidentiality to their clients. 

Jessica provides some insight into the demographics of clients that tend to book her service.  She also comments on whether incels book sex workers.

Some people will say a sex worker charges too much.  Some will say she doesn't charge enough.  Some will say she needs to see more clients.  Some will say she sees too many.  In this episode, Jessica explains how it is impossible to fulfil the expectations and standards set by both consumers of sexual services and the general public.

Do sex workers kiss their clients? Does size count? Jessica answers. https://buymeacoffee.com/msjessicajaye

In this short episode of The Latex Files, Jessica provides some insight into what's in her touring suitcase, how AirBNB and Reddit discriminate against sex workers using AI and answers some questions about the Lawyer to Lingerie podcast and whether love is on the horizon.

Jessica explains the differences between the various types of vibrators that women commonly uses and gives suggestions on how you may want to deploy them to spice up your bedroom activity.  The Hot Take this week concerns the Christmas and New Year season for sex workers.

In this episode, Jessica talks about issues faced by trans women sex workers and opines that there are probably way more "hetero" men interested in experiences with trans women than we know. https://buymeacoffee.com/msjessicajaye