The Kitchen Sink, ENM and Kink Podcast

This week Pedro and Tink talk about a situation that can come up at clubs, house parties, hotel parties or anywhere really that there are play rooms. If you are in a room with the door open and a couple asks to join, how do you politely tell them you’re not interested? But if you pass on one person/couple but say yes to another how do you handle the ones you turned down? Then we skip Polyamory thi...

In this weeks Mothers Day episode Pedro and Tink discuss their views on building intimacy and “reconnecting” after a play session or swap in the swing lifestyle. Polyamory’s topic this week is Hierarchal Relationships and how they can be detrimental to partners. Pedro has some strong feelings on this, let us know if you agree or disagree. For the Kink and BDSM segment Tink discusses sub space and...

In this weeks episode Tink and Pedro discuss what happens when people misrepresented themselves during the ice breaking period when sending pictures through text. Then to stay on the picture theme we talk about if it’s ok to take pictures and videos during a play scene in the swing segment. In Polyam this week we talk about letting family and friends know about your lifestyle. Is it a positive or...

It’s been 40 episodes now, wow how the time flies when you’re being kinky sluts. In the swing segment this week we discuss how to navigate when your partner finishes with their swap partner but you may not be done yet. How long do you wait for them to finish? Listen to how we handle things and let us know what your thoughts are for your dynamic. In the Polyam segment we talk about a topic that ari...

This week your hosts Pedro and Tink talk about 3-ways in the swing lifestyle. MFM, FMF, FFM, and even MMF. The pro’s and con’s to each style and what we prefer. In the Polyam segment we talk about a post in which a poly couple is outed at work because a co-worker saw the female partner out with another man. How we would handle the situation and how to potentially avoid this scenario. Then in the K...

This week Pedro and Tink talk about what happens when a couple breaks their own rules and commit what we consider a cardinal sin in the lifestyle. Tips on how to avoid this drama filled situation and the fallout it can cause. In the Polyam segment we talk triads or throuples and what happens when one of the partners isn’t emotionally invested in the relationship. Then Tink is back with another seg...

In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink explore the differences between the members of the swing world when it comes to posting in groups online. Are they looking for connections or are they just attention whores? We talk about it. In the Polyam segment this week Tink makes Pedro talk about whether or not a strong mental connection can overcome any physical attraction short comings when considering d...

In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink discuss turning vanilla friends into swing friends, or Making swingers into friends, the pro’s and con’s of both and our experiences. Then in the Polyam segment we talk about dating people new to polyamory, and whether we feel that is a good idea or not. The next segment is our featured orgasm of the week thanks to a dedicated listener. And then we talk pleasur...

In this episode we talk about fullswaping, the do’s and don’ts, how to approach other couples, boundaries to discuss and things to keep in mind while doing the dirty with another couple. Then in the Polyam segment we discuss whether you should be open about your Polyamory or keep it discreet, the challenges of both and what our opinion is. Then in the Kink and BDSM segment we talk about Exhibition...

In this episode Pedro and Tink discuss when one person in a couple makes plans that may push their partner out of their comfort zone. Then Tink talks about her Hotwife/Vixen weekend and if she would do it again or not. Then in the Polyam segment we discuss how does a poly couple afford multiple partners if only one half of the couple works. Then in the BDSM segment we talk about the differences be...

In this episode we have a special guest where we discuss bad advice given to new swingers. And our perspective on how newbies can navigate through the BS. In the Polyam segment we talk about what happens when a male partner doesn’t want a female partner to have another male partner who is a Dominant type. Then in the Kink and BDSM segment we discuss how a persons role is often assumed based on the...

This week Pedro and Tink talk about sexpectations in the swing lifestyle when talking to other swingers. Should play be expected if someone shows a little bit of interest? Listen and find out what we have to say on the subject. In the Polyam segment we discuss when we realized we were polyamorous and things that could clue you in on why you may not feel “normal” as a monogamous  person. Then in th...

In the swing segment Pedro and Tink talk about the 3-Way dynamics. Specifically the FFM and MFM. How to go about finding these partners and how not to go about finding them. Then we have a super special segment thanks to a loyal listener! Make sure there’s no vanilla’s around for that part. Then Tink talks about her struggles of learning to be a FemDom. Pedro talks about his role as a submissive w...

In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink are back to talk about how to handle encountering other pineapple people in the wild. What to do and of course what NOT to do. There may also be talk of grocery store road rage. In the Polyam segment we discuss what happens when Polyamory overlaps with BDSM and a D/s couple encounters a new relationship with another Dominant type. Then to close out the show we...

In this episode Pedro and Tink talk about the struggles of the swinger lifestyle. A lot of stuff we may not talk about with friends or other people in the lifestyle for fear of sounding like a complainer. But we spill the beans on what we struggle with. Then in the Polyam segment, Tink asks if its possible people in the swing lifestyle look at us or treat us differently because we are also polyamo...

In this weeks episode Pedro and Tink discuss rejection and how to handle those feelings in the swing lifestyle. We also touch on what to do if you start getting too many feelings for a play partner. In the Kink and BDSM segment Tink talks about a possible solo play and MFM scenarios that may be happening for her in the very near future. To close out the episode we play Brutally honest questions, w...

In this episode Pedro and Tink discuss what happens in a polyam dynamic such as a triad or quad when everyones love langue is touch. How to handle the possible jealousy and ways to make it all work. They then hop into the Kink and BDSM segment where they talk about their roles in their 9 year long dynamic. What each role has meant to them and how the roles have evolved over the years with time and...

This episode is all about swinging! This weeks topic was so good we decided to make this whole episode about swinging and the gut checks we all need to do in order to get the most out of the lifestyle. We talk about what it can feel like when you don’t fit in, or if you feel like you don’t have anything to offer others in the lifestyle. Pedro carries much of this episode with Tink weighing in. Jus...

In this weeks episode we discuss how to deal with people when they pretend to have a partner and you can never get to speak to or meet that partner in the swing lifestyle. We also go down the rabbit hole of swing groups and podcasts not supporting each other which in turn hurts the lifestyle. For our Polyamory segment we have an anonymous question from a listener where we help answer when she shou...

In this weeks dumpster fire, I mean episode. We give our take on two listener submitted topics. The first in the swing segment we discuss if social media had helped or hurt the swing Lifestyle. We’d love to hear what you think about this topic so hit us up and let us know what you think. In the second segment we discuss the listeners question regarding whether or not we think people should meet th...

In this episode Pedro and Tink talk regrets in the swing lifestyle. In place of the polyamory segment we talk about Hotwives and cuckolding as well as the Stag/Vixen dynamic with a little dark humor thrown in for good measure. Then FEET, that’s right we talk about the Foot fetish in the BDSM and Kink segment. Then to wrap up this dumpster fire of an episode Pedro and Tink Play Celebrity Swap or No...

In this New Years eve episode your hosts Pedro and Tink talk about their 2023 swinging sexolotutions. All the sexy things we want to make happen this year with other sexy friends. When it comes to polyamory, we discuss what makes us want to throw in the towel. How being polyam can be hard, and even down right frustrating at times. Then to close out the first show of the new year we put on a live F...

In this Christmas episode Pedro and Tink discuss what happens if Santa empties his sack during playtime in a swing setting. What you can do to handle this situation and hopefully prevent it all together. In the Polyam segment Pedro and Tink dish out some advice based on a post we found on the interwebz that can hopefully help you if you ever find yourself in a similar situation. The BDSM segment t...

Finally Episode 20 is here after a bunch of illness ran through our home and an unexpected family emergency. In this episode Pedro and Tink discuss the unicorn hunting couples who prey on the females in other couples. How we handle things and our opinions on this touchy subject. In place of our Polyam segment we talk about open relationships, what they are and who they may work best for. Tink also...

Due to illness and a family emergency we did not have time to record this weeks episode yet. But we plan to release it later in the week, so please check back again and look for episode 20! Thank you all for the continued support- Pedro and Tink