The Kink Perspective

On this episode, I talk about the BDSM community on social media, and the blatant misandry that goes on in regards to Age Gap Relationships (AGR), calling all men pedophiles and predators and more. These tired old tropes are nothing but abhorrent and detrimental for men that are being collectively lumped together by people who are doing no more than seeking attention at the cost of men. If you wou...

On this episode, I talk about Exhibitionism and Exhibitionistic Disorder. The difference between the two and how those in the community that self-identify as "exhibitionists" are pushing the lines between the two. As well as, when they are taking their exhibitionism public, how they are violating the consent of others and the bigger impacts at play and more... If you are looking for a psychotherap...

On this episode I talk about self-objectification, self-sexualization, victimhood and exhibitionism, and how these definitions are being intertwined and misused to provide a sword and shield effect. Thus, people can monetize themselves while retaining their status as a victim at the expense of those they want to be exploited by. It is a vicious cycle... If you would like to learn more about my wor...

On this episode, I explore Kink Shaming and how people are demonizing others for their kinks because of their ideological views. What effects it has on those who are shamed, and what it says about the person who is doing the shaming. If you would like to know more about my work or need to talk, please contact me at www.enhanced-mind.com

Are we losing the art of talking and debating with each other? Have people and their ideas become indistinguishable? On this episode, I discuss what is going on with civil discourse within the BDSM and Fetish community and how it is beginning to break down into nothing more than attacking one another. If you would like to know more about my work or want to schedule a session, please contact me thr...

On this episode, I talk about our core values and what we hold important. How the values that we grow up with change and are influenced through our environment. If those values change or do we question them? And what effects pop culture has on those values. If you would like to know more about my work or would like to talk, please contact me through my website www.enhanced-mind.com

On this episode, I talk about our sex drives, our sexual thoughts and things we find sexual. When these are good versus when they become intrusive in our lives, and so much more. I do apologize for last week, life got busy. If you would like to learn more about my work or contact me for a session, please reach out to me at www.enhanced-mind.com

On this episode, I cover the trope that submission is a gift. Delve into what giving a gift actually means and reflections of what people may want out of a BDSM dynamic before they get involved and more... If you would like to know more about the work I do, please contact me at www.enhanced-mind.com

On this episode, I look at the fascination with Water Sports. Why we do them, what attracts us to it and more. If you would like to reach out for a session with me, please feel free to contact me through www.enhanced-mind.com

The power of Dirty Talk in a relationship. What drives it, motivates it, why we like it and more on this episode. If you would like to learn more about my work or if you need my services please contact me at www.enhanced-mind.com

What is sensory deprivation? On this episode, I talk about removing or depriving the different senses we have during a scene and how it may effect us. How it can heighten our sexual connectivity with our partner. If you would like to learn more about my work or want to schedule a session, please contact me at www.enhanced-mind.com

On this episode, I talk about what I am seeing again all over BDSM social media. Being under the influence and getting involved in play. Comparing that level of impaired influence to our bodies natural neurological chemicals and how they react. It is a contentious subject, I choose the side of abstinence. If you would like to learn more about my work or need to schedule a counseling session, pleas...

On this episode, I conclude my discussion on BDSM and Religious ritual practices, and their connection to BDSM. How secularism and decline of religion have led many to a new "alter" to pray or worship at. If you would like to know more about my work or if you are looking for a therapist, feel free to contact me through my website www.enhanced-mind.com

On this episode, I discuss how religion is in decline but its practices and transcendent states are used in the practices of BDSM. That the way we conduct ourselves within the community and rituals we conduct within the lifestyle, take on their own religious meanings. If you would like to know more about my work or if you are looking for a therapist, feel free to contact me through my website www....

On this episode I discuss what Aftercare is, the benefits of Aftercare, the types there are and whether or not everyone wants or requires it. If you would like to learn more about my work, please feel free to contact me through www.enhanced-mind.com

On this episode, I discuss the untapped resource of a BDSM mentor. Things to look out for, moments to reflect and the benefits of having one. If you would like to learn more about my work, please feel free to contact me through my website www.enhanced-mind.com

On this episode, I discuss how people that have experienced trauma in their lives, can learn valuable new coping techniques and ways to explore their trauma in a safe environment, allowing them to develop new skills in managing and coping with trauma in their lives. For more information on my work, please feel free to reach out to me at www.enhanced-mind.com

Why is vetting in relationships important? More so, why is it so important in a BDSM relationship? On this episode, I explore that. If you would like to learn more about my work, please feel free to contact me at www.enhanced-mind.com

On this episode I discuss behavior of men and women in the lifestyle. Of those on social media that carry a double standard of behavior. While we need not to tolerate certain behavior and nor is all behavior excusable, we need to also question what behavioral influences lead to the responses and interactions we have with each other in the community. If you would like to know more about my work or...

On this episode, I am going to talk about BDSM and one-sided relationships. How they can be toxic and affect who we are and take tolls on us. If you would like to know more about my work, please feel free to contact me at www.enhanced-mind.com

On this episode, I sit down with @LunaLux and @Sovereign_Kane, both on Fetlife, and discuss their relationship. They are both Dominants, that share a masochist on one side, and a slave on the other, both the same person. We explore and discuss what challenges they have faced, their views on their relationship, preconceived notions and their takes on the future. I do want to apologize for some of t...

On this episode, I talk about the origins of Operant Conditioning, applications and understanding of it and what do after a dynamic ends and you are reeling with the effects of the modifications. If you want to learn more about my work or are looking for a kink friendly psychotherapist, please feel free to contact me at www.enhanced-mind.com

On this episode, I discuss what happens when infidelity happens, especially within the BDSM community, a story about a couple that went through this and how we can come back.

I look at Praise and how affirmations play a role within the dynamic of a relationship. How they can be confusing when used and how they are misused.

This is a story about John and Michelle, BDSM practitioners who found themselves through the lifestyle. The life they had, and in the end how the roles changed, because of love.