The Kink Consultant

In this episode, I catch up with my biz dom, Brenda, for a deep dive into my latest dating escapades—from navigating kinky dating apps to almost getting stood up on a very public date. We talk about my upcoming spanking party, the struggles of meeting compatible partners, and why chemistry is everything (even when someone seems perfect on the app). Plus, I also share a deeply personal story about...

In this episode of The Kink Consultant , I sit down with my former personal trainer and newly single friend, Zach Moore, as he navigates dating after nearly 15 years in a relationship. From exploring kink on dating apps to discovering his dominant side, Zach shares his experiences with Field, primal play, DDLG dynamics, and learning the ropes (literally) of BDSM. We dive into what it’s like to dat...

In this episode of The Kink Consultant , I’m joined by the incredible Rayanna Jamison, USA Today bestselling author, co-founder of GTB Publishing, and organizer of the thriving Dirty Daddies community. We dive deep into her journey as an author, the growth of the Dirty Daddies Party Room, and the exciting plans for the upcoming "Dirty Daddies Do Vegas" convention. Rayanna shares insights...

In this episode, I sit down with my mother, Angela, to explore her journey from growing up in 1960s Ireland to becoming an open-minded, supportive parent. She shares how her traditional upbringing shaped her worldview and how moving to England in her 20s introduced her to a more progressive perspective on sex, relationships, and individuality.   We dive into the unique dynamics of our mother-daugh...

In this episode, I sit down with musician and kinky creator Deore to explore the fascinating intersection of music and kink. Known for her bratty sub energy and vulnerable, thought-provoking lyrics, Deore shares how music has become a powerful outlet for self-expression, healing, and connection within the kink community.  We dive into her creative journey, including how her hit song “Humor Me” res...

Once again, I’m joined by my Business Manager and close friend, Brenda, as we dive into a whirlwind week of my dating life. From navigating an unexpected age gap with a mysterious man, to rediscovering the thrill of a first kiss on a mini-golf date, I’m sharing it all.   We also dive deep into the emotional complexities of intimacy, including how a spontaneous connection stirred up unexpected feel...

In this episode, I sit down with my Business Manager and friend, Brenda, to unpack my dating life—and trust me, there’s plenty to talk about! We dive into my adventures navigating the modern dating world, from the hilarious chaos of my first date at a Target Starbucks, to the highs and lows of finding meaningful connections today.  We also explore the nuances of kinky dating, offer advice for thos...

In this episode, I had an absolute blast chatting with the amazing Pup Locrian. We dove into all things puppy play, its rich history and how it's different from the furry community.   Pup Locrian shared some super cool insights on what it means to be a puppy, the gear involved, and even the physical workout it can be! We laughed about treats and toys, and talked about how to find your local puppy...

This week, I’m thrilled to have a candid and insightful conversation with my dear friend, Catherine Drysdale, a dedicated sex and relationship coach whose passion shines through every aspect of her work. We explore Catherine's unique journey to becoming a coach, the impactful sex education and workshops she offers, and the challenges she bravely navigates as a voice in the sex-positive space. We d...

In this episode, I’m sitting down with the fierce and fabulous Larah Sky where we dive deep into her journey from viral videos to becoming a trusted voice in the kink community. And trust me, you don’t want to miss her unfiltered takes on boundaries, fantasies, and embracing kink with confidence. Lara breaks down how she uses humor and creativity to handle internet trolls, and yes—we talk all abou...

In this episode, I'm sitting down with the incredible Brad Jones, the mastermind behind my all-time favorite dating app, Meet Kinksters! We dive into how Meet Kinksters is revolutionizing the dating scene by merging sexual and romantic compatibility and explore Brad's passionate commitment to help people form genuine, fulfilling relationships. Trust me, you don't want to miss Brad's innovative ins...

In this episode, I get to dive into the fascinating world of Jana Wimer and Robert Bullwinkel, the creative minds behind the spectacular theater production 'Abandon.' Join us as we explore the show's conception, its deep ties to the controversial Marquis de Sade, and the immersive experience it offers. They also insights into the challenges and rewards of bringing such a daring project to life, in...

I’m beyond excited to have Pieter and Paul, the brilliant minds behind the groundbreaking BDSM dating app, BeeDee. We'll dive deep into how the app uses your BDSM test results to algorithmically connect you with compatible kinksters. We'll explore their unique approach to creating genuine and meaningful connections within the BDSM community, and how they overcame challenges to bring this revolutio...

Buckle up for a wild ride as I sit down with Veronica and Jim, the power couple of the Las Vegas kink scene. Veronica and Jim spill the beans on their whirlwind romance, from a fast-tracked military marriage to discovering their kinky sides. Ever wondered what it's like to go from a vanilla relationship to throwing legendary BDSM parties? They dish the dirt on everything - the excitement, the mist...

In this episode, I’m joined by AGoodSpankin as we dive into one of the most common yet misunderstood fetishes—spanking. AGS shares his personal journey, from discovering his love for spanking at a young age to becoming a SpankTube content creator. We discuss how he uses his platform and podcast to help others embrace their kinks more openly.  You’ll also hear some wild stories—from being mistaken...

In this episode, I answer your burning questions from the first two episodes! From balancing finances with my dominatrix career to navigating dungeon dynamics, I spill the details on rates, tips, and the unwritten rules of conduct. I also share some valuable lessons that are pretty useful even outside the dungeon like how to negotiate, set boundaries, and truly connect with people on an intimate l...

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how I went from a Wall Street Journal desk job to stepping into a dominatrix role I never saw coming. I’ll take you through the nerve-wracking moments of my first day in a Garment District dungeon, where I faced unexpected client requests and discovered a side of myself I didn’t know existed. I’ll also share the adrenaline-pumping experiences that m...

Welcome to the first episode of The Kink Consultant! I’m excited to take you on a journey into the world of kink, BDSM, and sex positivity. In this episode, I share my story—starting with a childhood fascination with spanking that grew into a passion for kink. At 24, while working in finance by day, I answered a Craigslist ad for dominatrixes by night, and it changed my life. Balancing my Wall Str...