The Journey of You

How often do you get stuck in a thought loop or a vicious cycle that leaves you stagnant or unable to function? That it what we address in today's show. Two ways to start training your brain based on God's word and the power that He has gifted us through His word and His son's death on the cross.

Today I want to talk about having a healthy concept of self, independent of your relationships, titles, roles or anything else.  Do you have a healthy concept of self? And what do you base it on or model it after? There are a lot of people that could influence that for you. From your parents to your siblings, to your friends, your spouse, your children, your coworkers or your boss. The r...

Today's podcast focuses on the importance of understanding in order to break free from unforgiveness. When you can find understanding of the person who hurt, betrayed or mistreated you, it makes it easier to forgive and let go.   Holding on to unforgiveness negatively affects you; not the other person. More often than not, they have moved on with their lives - you are the one stuck in the pas...

Today, Tonia talks about gratitude and the importance of giving back; how finding your people, those that you are called to reach, is important as you are intentionally making your dash count, moment by moment, day by day. We all have a journey to walk out during this lifetime. When we reach our final destination, what do we want said about us and the impact that we made?

Have you ever felt the need to let go of something, but it feels hard or difficult to do, and hanging on to it seems more safe, more comfortable, even though you know it's not the best decision to do so? Today's episode is for you. Tonia discusses the freedom that we have in Christ - 2 Corinthians 3:17, and how each time that we let go of something, God replaces it with something better that only...

Today, Tonia talks about the importance of seeing yourself the way that God sees you. She speaks about expressing gratitude and writing the vision that God has for your life, so that you may pursue it, stay focused on His promises, and enjoy the journey along the way.

In today's episode, Tonia talks about analysis paralysis and how you can decide what you should give your best yes to, so that you can stop being stagnant and continue to become all that God created you to be. She also reminds us that as the holiday season comes upon us, to be careful to not overcommit or burn ourselves out trying to get to all the things for everyone. Choose what is best for you...

Today, Tonia focuses on how having hope nowadays can be hard. She offers actionable steps using the acronym Finding HOPE, to encourage, and uplift you along your journey. You can connect with her: support@thejourneyofyou.net Or you can join the community to continue the conversation: https://www.whereyourlifebegins.com

Today, Nejai "Jai" Waltower turns the microphone on and interviews Tonia. She wanted to learn more about her behind the scenes. Tonia sits on the opposite side of the camera today and opens up for us to get to know her a little bit more. #CouchConversations #TheBeginning

In today's episode, Tonia D Benas delivered a powerful message on the importance of the home and mindset. She emphasized the impact of the home on everyone who lives there and encouraged women to prioritize their families. Tonia also stressed the importance of self-care and taking care of oneself, sharing her personal experience of feeling depleted and how it led to hurt, bitterness, and frustrati...

Have you ever been stuck not able to trust anyone, including yourself and God? Today's episode is for you. Tonia discusses her own personal struggles with fear of trust, and how she walked through those moments.

There are moments that we find ourselves caught in the hustle and bustle of life and constantly on the go. If we aren't careful, we can quickly become overwhelmed and lose sight of what is most important. In this episode, Tonia talks about lingering in the presence of God and finding fullness of joy in Him, and peace that surpasses all understanding.

If you have found yourself stuck in the same thought loop, or find that your thoughts are mostly negative or tainted, this episode is for you. In today's episode, Tonia discusses foundational scriptures that can help you shift your mindset and elevate your perspective, using God's word. You can be transformed, and also learn what things you should be thinking about so that you can shift the trajec...

There are times in life when we are believing God for certain things, and it seems impossible or insurmountable. In those moments, what do you do when your faith and doubt collide? Tonia discusses them in today's episode, and gives you scriptures to stand on and practical steps to remember God's faithfulness to you thus far.

In today's episode, Tonia talks about the importance of friendship, and how some friendships should be cultivated as they push you closer to Christ, and how others - it may be time to cut those off and move forward with your life. Reach out and pray for your friends, and remember that we always have a friend in Jesus.

Sometimes as women we forget to imagine, to dream again, or to even hope for better. Today, Tonia reminds you that each day is a chance to dream and imagine again; to begin again. You are not stuck in the past or in an old version of you - you can choose to do life differently.

In today's episode, Tonia discusses the importance of being self-aware, and how it relates to your purpose journey. She shares some scriptures, some practical tools that you can use right now, and empowers you to start your purpose journey today. Feel free to comment and continue the conversation. Remember, this is your journey; it's where your life begins.

God dropped these in my spirit in the wee hours of the morning and I had to share them with you hot off the presses. I pray that it blesses your spirit and you find what you need in them - direction, clarity, aha, revelation, confirmation.

If you have ever questioned what it means to be a parent or wondered if you were missing the mark or doing it right, this episode is for you. Parenting can be challenging, and it is a lifelong job, but there is hope, and there is help. Tonia gives you three scriptures to stand on to lead you along the journey of parenting.

Everyone has a story - including you. We often find ourselves in a certain state of mind, and sometimes it is not easy to get unstuck or figure out that next best step, and that is understandable. Tonia walks you through a scripture verse to extend compassion to others, and towards yourself as well. Listen now!

Today, we remind you that you always have a choice. You get to decide. No one else can decide for you. Your thoughts, your actions, speech, words and deeds are all a choice. What will you decide?

Today, we discuss the important of gaining wisdom, practical ways to grow in wisdom in your day-to-day, and remembering who God says that we are in Him. This is your journey. It's where your life begins.

If you have had trouble trying to figure out or pinpoint your purpose, life direction, or how to stop being so busy all of the time, but not making the progress that you desire, today's episode is for you. Tonia teaches how to reflect, prioritize and pursue your purpose, so that you can make your dash count!

Your thoughts are powerful and determine the direction of your life, the way that you act, think, feel and even the words that you speak. In today's episode, Tonia walks you through how to shift your thoughts, as well as how she can help you take the next steps in your journey!

Today we talk about the importance of spending intentional time with God in prayer and reading His word. We are surrounded by so much noise and distractions, that we often don't sit still long enough in the quiet to hear from Him. Tonia gives a few practical steps and ways to make it work in the day-to-day of our present day lives.