Boom Shikha

The INFJ Whisperer

Society EN ↓ 912 episodes

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-li...

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Boom Shikha

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INFJs - Carefully Sift Through The Advice You Receive 18.01.2019 10:46

INFJs receive a lot of unsolicited advice in this world because everyone thinks they know better than us. And maybe they do. Maybe they don't. We need to be the judge of that. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins...

INFJs - Please Start Becoming More Consciously Attentive 18.01.2019 10:07

INFJs are awake, more awake than others. But this is just a reminder to start becoming more consciously attentive to everything, all of the signs and signals coming at us. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &n...

What Is This Nonsense About A True INFJ? 18.01.2019 9:12

There are no true INFJs out there - those are just the ravings of a fanatic. There is no true anything out there. There are just people who are trying to do the best they can. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins...

INFJs Wait All Their Lives For Success To Drop Into Their Laps 18.01.2019 12:30

INFJs wait for success. Because of their perfectionist tendencies, they wait for success to drop into their laps, and they are filled with fear.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to c...

INFJs Perform Autopsies On Long Dead Conversations 18.01.2019 6:42

I know I have done this in the past, where I will take a conversation that happened ages ago, and then perform an autopsy on it, dissecting it, and analyzing it to death. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nb...

INFJs Need To Learn How To Trust The Universe More 18.01.2019 11:54

INFJs have a hard time with trust, and this episode is all about building that trust, one little step at a time, like building a building, brick by brick. It's so important that we start that process now. Right now. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it...

INFJs Have A Strong Relationship To Music 18.01.2019 11:45

So many INFJs messages me saying that they love music and how strong their relationship to music is. This episode is all about why music matters to INFJs so much. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If y...

INFJs Love It When They Make Plans And They Get Cancelled 18.01.2019 8:45

As INFJs, we love to make plans. We absolutely love to make plans. But we always hate the follow-through. We would rather the plans fail.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect...

INFJs - Share Yourselves With The World Starting Now 18.01.2019 11:22

INFJs have this weird thing about sharing themselves with the world. Basically, we don't. We ask the world to share all of its sorrows, joys, and secrets with us. But when it comes back to us, we are silent.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it ou...

INFJs - Loneliness Is The Only Path Out There 18.01.2019 10:18

People think that they can alleviate their loneliness by doing so many random things, but they can't. Loneliness is a human path. It's because we are born alone and we die alone. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitam...

INFJs Can And Do Get Jealous In Relationships 18.01.2019 7:45

I have been asked this question a lot - do INFJs get jealous? And what does it look like? Here's the answer to that interesting question in audio format. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want t...

INFJs Are Their Biggest Doubters And Critics 17.01.2019 8:05

INFJs are their biggest doubters, no one else can doubt us more than we doubt ourselves!! Same thing with criticism. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below are...

INFJs - Do Something Small, Do Anything, Just Do Something! 17.01.2019 11:32

INFJs have a tendency to get paralyzed by their big dreams, and they end up doing nothing. I want every INFJ to do something small, to get the ball rolling. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you wan...

INFJs Hate Wasting Their Time On Useless Things 17.01.2019 8:48

INFJs have this weird fear of wasting their precious time on this planet on something useless, anything useless. We are very careful of this! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect wi...

INFJs Ration Their Energies, Time And Stuff 17.01.2019 9:50

INFJs have this tendency to not use all of themselves up because we are conserving ourselves for some random time in the future, whenever that might arrive. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you wan...

INFJs Feel Like They Are Bad With No Real Reason 17.01.2019 11:04

INFJs have this weird thing where they think they are bad people, with no real evidence to prove that. Why is that? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below are...

Dating An INFJ - What To Do When We Go Cold 17.01.2019 9:29

Dating an INFJ is a land filled with dangers, and one of them is when we go cold, without previous notice. Here's how to navigate that. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me...

INFJs And Empathy - An In-Depth Look At It 17.01.2019 11:25

INFJs are always major empaths. We are highly sensitive to the emotions and feelings that are present around us Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below are some...

INFJs Are Planners And Over-thinkers - Which Can Be Great 17.01.2019 17:33

INFJs spend most of their brainpower in overthinking. They are always in planning mode. Planning out their days, months, years, lives, and everything else. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want...

INFJs Tend Towards Dramatic Thinking In Daily Life 17.01.2019 9:20

INFJs have a tendency to be worst-case scenario thinkers. We are always thinking of the worst thing that can happen, and that's why I say we tend towards dramatic thinking. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &...

INFJs Self Medicate To Prevent Strong Emotions 17.01.2019 14:18

A viewer asked me about self-medicating and how INFJs perhaps sometimes take that route because they don't want to feel. This is a response to his question. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you wan...

INFJs - Why Do Narcissists Love Us So Much? 17.01.2019 15:53

So many of you have asked me about narcissists and how to deal with them. We attract narcissists as bees who gravitate towards honey. It's insane how much they like being around us. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvi...

INFJs Hate Being So Empathic All The Time - It's Draining 17.01.2019 14:56

One of the things that INFJs say all of the time to me is why do they have to be so empathic. It hurts us so much, and it's so hard to live in this world sometimes.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nb...

INFJs Are Future Thinkers, Not Concerned With Past Or Present 17.01.2019 13:54

INFJs are future thinkers. They spend more time thinking about the future, more than anything else. They don't care about the past, it's already gone. They don't really live in the present. But the future matters to them the most. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly p...

INFJs Seem Like They Would Be Promising In Relationships 17.01.2019 11:50

INFJs seem like they would be the perfect partner in a relationship, but we all know that isn't true. We might be loyal, empathetic, and kind, but we are also all kinds of crazy that doesn't jibe well with a relationship. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Che...