Boom Shikha

The INFJ Whisperer

Society EN ↓ 912 episodes

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-li...

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Boom Shikha

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INFJs Show Up As Different Types On Tests Due To Chameleon Mode 17.01.2019 11:28

INFJs are always messaging me saying, "I have done the test 1,230 times, and 80% of the time I show up as INFJ, but the other times I showed up as INTP, or ENTP, or INTJ. What type am I, really? Help me!" Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&nbsp...

INFJs Like To Be Gently Invisible And Do Their Own Thing 17.01.2019 9:58

INFJs don't like being in the spotlight. We just don't. That's the truth. But we don't want to hide completely either, because we want to observe this world. We just want to be gently invisible. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://...

INFJs Cannot Bear Distorted Meanings So We Hide Our Work 17.01.2019 9:45

All INFJs are great at communicating through writing, because our imagination is great, and we love to write. All INFJs will have some piece of writing that sits in their hard drive hidden and lonely and never shared. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check i...

An INFJ's Whole Existence Involves Hiding Their True Nature 17.01.2019 8:21

INFJs are all about hiding their true selves. We don't want to be judged, believe us, we have experience of being judged. And we don't want to be rejected for our true selves. So we hide. We spend a lot of time hiding. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check...

INFJs Need To Learn How To Use The Word 'No' 17.01.2019 11:42

INFJs really, really, really need to learn the word 'No'. We don't use it enough. We think we are strong and able, so we keep on saying 'yes' to everything. Don't do that. It will burn you out. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://b...

INFJs Are Natural Scholars - Learning Is Their Passion 17.01.2019 11:48

INFJs love to learn. They love to read and understand and grow and learn. We are natural scholars. We just love to learn something new and use it in our daily life. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If...

Dating An INFJ - Don't Cling To An INFJ, & Don't Try Too Hard 15.01.2019 11:29

I have received many questions from people dating INFJs and they always tell me that they want the INFJ to really love them, so they are trying really really hard. And that always rings a warning bell towards me. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out...

INFJs Shift Their Personality To Accommodate People Around 15.01.2019 11:53

When someone is being really active and extroverted around INFJs, they will adapt their personality according to the situation, to balance this person out, or to emulate them to help them feel more comfortable around them. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Ch...

Dating An INFJ - We Don't Find Typical Things Romantic 15.01.2019 11:29

INFJs don't find typical things that 99% of the population finds romantic, romantic. We don't. So you need to up your game, find new things to entice us, and figure out what in God's name makes our romantic heart tick. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check...

Dating An INFJ - What Is An INFJ's Love Language? 15.01.2019 10:09

If you know anything about the book, the Five Love Languages, you will probably have thought about your own love language, and how if you are an INFJ, it is probably quality time. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvita...

People Seem To Get Insecure Around INFJs, For Some Reason 15.01.2019 10:38

INFJs have this weird thing where people get intimidated by us. I don't know why. But we tend to make people insecure around us, and that shows up in the way they behave towards us. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvi...

What Is The Main Difference Between A Younger And Older INFJ? 15.01.2019 12:29

Melike, a 15-year-old INFJ from Turkey, asked me the difference between a younger (less mature) and older (more mature perhaps) INFJ.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with...

INFJs Are Non Communicative About Their Needs 15.01.2019 12:02

INFJs are so disconnected from their minds and bodies, that they themselves don't know what they are feeling and thinking, let alone able to communicate that to others. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nbsp...

INFJs Hate Themselves When They Share Too Much 15.01.2019 13:47

INFJs don't share much about themselves. But sometimes, just sometimes, we are too tired to filter, and then we share something, a little too much about ourselves, and then we spend the entire day or week hating ourselves for it. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly pr...

INFJs Come Across As Extroverts All The Time 15.01.2019 11:50

INFJs have this weird thing where we come across as extroverts all the time. It's so odd because we are definitely introverts, but because we can talk to strangers easily and because we defend the weak against bullies, we come across as extroverts. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos f...

INFJs Hate Forced Friendships, So Please Stop That 15.01.2019 15:41

Why are there so many people on this planet who want to be friends with an INFJ, and who force the issue over and over again? Why does that happen? I don't understand. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  ...

INFJs Would Rather Cut Their Own Hair Than Do Small Talk 15.01.2019 13:19

INFJs hate small talk. They hate sitting in that hairdresser's chair and waiting for the ax of small talk to fall. In my case, I would rather cut my own hair rather badly than go through that ordeal. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  htt...

INFJs Seem Disconnected Or Distant From Their Own Thoughts 15.01.2019 13:53

A viewer, Jessica Bullock, asked me this question where she wondered if I had ever felt disconnected from my thoughts as if they were coming from someone else, or from somewhere far away. This is my answer. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&nb...

How Can INFJs Deal With The Repeating Cycles Of Grief? 15.01.2019 11:27

A viewer, Jessica Bullock, asked me how she could deal with the grief that was still remnant from 5 years ago, and which seemed to never dissipate. I had to do an episode on this because I myself am dealing with 4-year-old grief that catches me at inopportune moments. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses,...

INFJs Are Late Bloomers Which Looks Like Failure 15.01.2019 12:28

INFJs look like they are never going to launch, because it takes us forever to learn about ourselves enough to say, 'Okay, I'm ready to do what I am meant to do now.' So don't fear. Don't fret. Don't put yourself down. Your time hasn't arrived yet, but it will come. It is coming. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of...

INFJs Follow The Policy Of Leave No Human Behind 15.01.2019 14:35

INFJs have this weird thing where they hate leaving anyone behind. This means that from a very young age, they start pulling forth the outcasts, and the nobodies, and giving them a name, and a space to express themselves. They make the unseen seen, the invisible visible.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my...

INFJs Punish Themselves For Crimes Known Only To Them 15.01.2019 11:32

I have this thing I do when I want to rectify some of my mistakes or crimes. I punish myself in ways that are only known to me.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me fu...

Stop Worrying About If You Are Truly An INFJ Or Not 15.01.2019 11:26

INFJs always ask me the same question over and over again. If they are really an INFJ because their test keeps on showing something else, but they relate to my videos or vice versa. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvi...

Some Tips On How To Nurture Your INFJ Child 15.01.2019 12:08

A viewer asked me about how to build her special relationship with her INFJ daughter, being that she's an INFJ mom. And I loved the question and the topic, so I thought I would expand on it in this episode. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&nb...

A Daily Yoga And Meditation Practice Creates A Balanced INFJ 15.01.2019 14:35

INFJs can find true balance in themselves over time if they start a daily yoga and meditation practice. It can help them with their anxiety, ego, insomnia, and more. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   I...