Boom Shikha

The INFJ Whisperer

Society EN ↓ 912 episodes

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-li...

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Boom Shikha

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INFJs Feel Social Burnout After Being Around People Too Much 20.01.2019 9:19

INFJs don't like being around people too much, not because we hate people, but because people tire us out, and we burn out if we are around them too much. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want...

INFJs Use Workarounds To Trust Their Intuition's Message 20.01.2019 8:31

INFJs have really powerful intuitions, but sometimes it knows things without us knowing how it knows it. So, in order to believe its messages better, we have all of these random workarounds. It's really quite subtle sometimes. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price...

INFJs Really, Really Hate Inconsiderate People 20.01.2019 5:13

Common sense isn't common anymore, and that really irks INFJs. We don't like it, we want people to care more about the little things. We want people to be considerate. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  ...

INFJs Overthink To The Point Of Exhaustion Often 20.01.2019 9:10

In this episode, I chat about how INFJs overthink, but we don't just overthink, we overthink until we are too exhausted to think anymore. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with m...

INFJs Need To Learn To Rely On Their Body's Intelligence More 20.01.2019 12:19

Our bodies are so smart - so freaking smart, that they know all of the answers. But instead of relying upon our body's intelligence, we rely upon our puny minds. Stop doing that, INFJs. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/so...

Does It Bother You That Hitler Was An INFJ? 20.01.2019 10:18

Someone asked me this question on Instagram and I thought it was an interesting question to talk about. Check it out and let me know your thoughts on the subject as well. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nb...

Is It True That Introverts Only Date Extroverts?? 20.01.2019 9:06

I wanted to bust a myth today that has been floating around the Internet - introverts do not only date extroverts. We can date anyone and any type - every one of us is different in that regard.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  htt...

INFJs Are Always Apologizing For Something Or Other 20.01.2019 9:47

I noticed this trend with the people who messaged me and of course, with myself. I am always apologizing for nonsensical things, that no one else ever apologizes for. Why do INFJs do this? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly...

INFJs Know All About The Burdens Of Social Anxiety 20.01.2019 13:14

INFJs, like me, know all about social anxiety and how devastating it can be to daily routine life. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Buy my...

INFJs Feel Safe With Their Backs Against The Wall 20.01.2019 8:38

INFJs have a weird thing about security and safety. They need to have their backs against the wall to feel safe.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below a...

Why Do Introverts/INFJs Have to Fight For Their Solitude? 20.01.2019 12:59

I have noticed that in a world of extroverts, introverts and INFJs are always fighting for their right to be alone. It's so annoying! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me fu...

INFJs Are Happy And Sad All The Time At The Same Time 20.01.2019 11:16

I have noticed this weird thing about myself. I am always happy, and also sad, at the same time, and all the time.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below...

INFJs Are Natural Born Philosophers - Its In Our Genes 20.01.2019 10:27

INFJs are thinkers - they spend a majority of their life thinking. That's why I think we are natural-born philosophers. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below...

Are INFJs Acquired Emotional Savants? 20.01.2019 12:31

A viewer, David Harris, asked me a really interesting question about whether INFJs are acquired, emotional savants. I decided to answer the question in this format. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If...

For INFJs, Respect Is Earned Not Given Willy-Nilly 20.01.2019 11:34

In this episode, I chat about the specific direct way in which INFJs perceive respect. It is something to be earned, both for us and for the person in front of us, not given willy-nilly. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/s...

INFJs Are Always Dealing With The Logic/Feeling Conundrum 20.01.2019 11:42

INFJs are feelers, but they are also the most logical of the feelers. Thus, we are always being pulled backward and forwards between the logical and feeling side of our heads. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins...

It Can Be Hard To Live In This Hard World As An INFJ Softie 18.01.2019 11:23

INFJs might not seem like it, but we are huge softies. Our minds and hearts are filled with empathy and that creates an issue because this world does not reward softness. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nb...

INFJs Forget That They Are Human All Of The Time 18.01.2019 9:29

INFJs behave as if they are robots, with no feelings and no needs. Robots with just a head, and no body. No need to eat, or drink water, or sleep, or do anything human. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nbsp...

INFJs - Please Don't Pretend To Be Something Else For Others 18.01.2019 11:55

INFJs are always pretending to be something else, either to make other people comfortable around us or to make ourselves feel more in line with the normal world. Why do we do this? It's so foolish. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https...

INFJs Have A Saviour Complex And That Can Be A Disadvantage 18.01.2019 11:11

INFJs believe that everyone around them needs their protection, and thus, we spend hours and hours taking care of and worrying about everyone else, to the detriment of our own health and work. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bi...

INFJs Are Soft Delicate Flowers, Until We Are Not 18.01.2019 7:59

INFJs are full of contradictions. We can pretend to be soft delicate flowers until someone gets on our nerves, and then we blow up like the Incredible Hulk. We are both sides of the coin. We confuse people. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&nb...

INFJs Need A Beginner Mentality To Beat Perfectionism 18.01.2019 10:45

INFJs don't do as much with their talents and abilities (like most people) because they are perfectionists. They are afraid to put something imperfect out there. Therefore, they need to cultivate a beginner mindset. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it...

INFJs Love Talking And Thinking About Death 18.01.2019 9:56

INFJs just love chatting about death. And thinking about it. And reading about it. We are obsessed with it. Here's why. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below...

What Do INFJs Think About Violence In And Around Them? 18.01.2019 8:39

I read a post recently that said that perhaps INFJs love violence, have violent thoughts and would like violence in their lives, and I was actually surprised by this. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  ...

How An INFJ Intuition Works And How To Use It Better 18.01.2019 12:57

There is so much information out there about intuitions. I wanted to share my own version of what I think intuition is, and how we can use it. Hope you enjoy it! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If yo...