Boom Shikha

The INFJ Whisperer

Society EN ↓ 912 episodes

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-li...

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Boom Shikha

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INFJs Are Hopeless Romantics And The Bitterest Of Cynics 21.01.2019 10:28

INFJs can be romantics and cynics all at the same time. How do we do that? How can we do that? How is that even possible? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - belo...

INFJs Are Trusted Implicitly And That Irritates Me 21.01.2019 8:15

This happens to me so often - people will trust me with their money and babies and valuables, without a second thought. Why? What does my face say? Why do they find INFJs so trustworthy? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/s...

INFJs Can Become Better Intuitives By Learning About Intuition 21.01.2019 9:51

An INFJ can become better intuitive by learning more and more about how their intuition works, and how they can use it even better. That's what I have been doing. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If y...

INFJs' Obsession With Death Makes Them Live More Fully 21.01.2019 13:43

Why are INFJs so obsessed with death? Why do we think about it so much? Why do we spend so much time on it? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below are some way...

INFJs Need To Come Back To Their Feeling State Often 21.01.2019 11:52

As an INFJ, it's easy to live in a thinking state because this world we live in, forces us to do so. But our natural state is always feeling, and we need to come back to it often to keep it fresh and connected. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out a...

INFJs Love Planning Out The Most Unlikeliest Of Scenarios 21.01.2019 8:52

INFJs have this weird thing - they love planning out really really random scenarios in their heads. It's just so much for them. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further...

INFJs Are A Special Kind Of Minimalist Hoarder 21.01.2019 8:22

INFJs don't buy a lot of stuff, we don't like to. But we do like having and saving and hoarding beautiful, luxurious, and functional items for ages to come. It's a special kind of hoarding. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.l...

Dating An INFJ - We Need Direct Messages, No Clues Or Hints 21.01.2019 8:13

INFJs are dumb, we are clueless about relationships, we don't know. We just don't know. So, if you like us, tell us directly. And no, clues or hints will not work.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nbs...

INFJs Are In Love With The Emotion Of Sadness 21.01.2019 9:00

INFJs are in love with the emotion of sadness because it is intertwined with the emotion of joy for them. There is so much beauty in the emotion of sadness. We feel it all.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitam...

Why Do A Lot Of INFJs Make The Choice Not To Have Children? 21.01.2019 9:34

INFJs believe becoming a parent is a big deal. You are in charge of life, for god's sake. So they will not go into it without a lot of forethought and planning. So much so that a lot of them end up deciding not to have children at all. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low mont...

INFJs Have This Weird Need For 100% Accurate Honesty 21.01.2019 9:13

INFJs will do anything to ensure that they are absolutely 100% honest with everyone around them. They will go back to conversations to make sure they never uttered a falsehood. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamin...

INFJs Are Sooo Happy In Their Cozy Solitude (You Have No Idea) 21.01.2019 11:48

INFJs are happiest when they are alone, in their rooms, doing their work, in silence and solitude. They really are. Please don't bug them. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with...

INFJs Don't Like Hogging The Spotlight In Anything They Do 21.01.2019 11:53

INFJs message me all of the time saying they don't like to comment too much because they don't want to hog the spotlight. That's so us. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me...

INFJs Don't Know How They Know What They Know (So Don't Ask!) 21.01.2019 9:45

INFJs don't know how they know most of the stuff they know. They have no idea. Don't ask them to explain how they know. They don't know.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect w...

INFJs Don't Like Being The Cause Of Hurt For Anyone 21.01.2019 11:29

INFJs will avoid relationships as much as possible because they don't want to be the source of hurt to anyone around them. That's how much we care. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to conn...

INFJs - Be That Person Your Younger Self Needed 21.01.2019 12:01

The reason I started doing these episodes is that I wanted to be that person my younger self needed and I wanted to tell them all of these things, that would make my younger self feel better. I do them for all of the younger INFJs out there who need to be told they are alright. They are not crazy, just normal INFJs.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community calle...

INFJs - Forgive Your Parents For Being Bad At Parenting 21.01.2019 10:46

INFJs have a lesson to learn about forgiveness, which can be a heavy lesson to learn, but oh-so-useful. Especially forgiving our parents for being bad at parenting. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If...

INFJs - Here's How To Do Networking Events Authentically 21.01.2019 12:23

INFJ viewers have asked me how to do networking events without feeling like they want to kill themselves. I share some techniques I use that have worked for me. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you...

INFJs, I Would Rather Be Too Much, Than Too Little 21.01.2019 8:17

Raymel Washington, a viewer, asked me the question about what to do when someone tells you to calm down because you are being your intense INFJ self.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want...

Two Cities INFJs Would Have A Hard Time Being Themselves 21.01.2019 7:36

Two cities that I found hard to be in, even for a short period of time, were in India and the USA. I would love to hear about your experience of it. Do you live there? How is it for you? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/s...

INFJs, How To Deal With All Of The Negative Energy Out There? 21.01.2019 10:47

There is an increase in the amount of negative energy that is being pushed out into the atmosphere right now, which means INFJs, and empaths have to become more alert, and careful about dealing with all of this energy. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check...

INFJ Explains The Difference Between Fake And Real People 20.01.2019 9:21

A young viewer asked me the difference between a real and a fake person and I was surprised to hear the question. It's an important thing to know for all introverted people, especially INFJs. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit...

INFJs Are A Burst Of Colour In A World Of Gray 20.01.2019 7:16

INFJs are filled with color and light and beauty, and we do that in spite of the odds. We love color and we are color. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below a...

Dating An INFJ - We Don't Like To Be Aggressively Courted 20.01.2019 8:04

Maybe this is just my thing, or maybe it's an INFJ thing (I think it might be the latter), but we don't like being aggressively courted. It leaves a sour taste in our mouths (lol).  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/s...

INFJ Door Slam - Why I Have Been Trying To Reverse It 20.01.2019 9:21

INFJs door slam people. That's a universal fact. Everyone knows about it. But I have been trying something different. Watch the video to find out what. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to...