Boom Shikha

The INFJ Whisperer

Society EN ↓ 912 episodes

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-li...

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Boom Shikha

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Please Don't Worry About Impact, INFJs; Be A Human Here Now 22.01.2019 12:50

So many of us worry about impact when we are doing anything with our time. Everything we do has to have an impact, especially as an INFJ, otherwise, we just don't care. But how about doing things because we are human, and we are here now, and we have the time and energy to devote to it?? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can acces...

A Big Thank You To ALL Of You, and Here's To 2019! 22.01.2019 11:36

I wanted to send out a big thank you to all of the people who have subscribed to my videos, or watched them, or commented, or just interacted in any minuscule way with my content, and my work. I appreciate all of you and here's to a great, happy, and authentic 2019. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, b...

Please Stop Comparing Apples To Oranges, INFJs 22.01.2019 10:59

I find that a lot of INFJs compare apples to oranges, when they are comparing themselves to others, or they comparing their lives or characteristics to others. It's such a terrible thing to do because they end up feeling bad about themselves because they are literally comparing apples to oranges, or even apples to orangutans if you get my drift. Thank you for listening!  I have just started a...

Why Is Spelling And Grammar So Important To INFJs? 22.01.2019 10:32

Every INFJ who messages me is absolutely adamant about ensuring that their English, grammar, spelling, punctuation, and anything language-related is absolutely accurate and free of errors. Why? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://b...

How Can INFJs Best Deal With Emotional Overload? 22.01.2019 13:57

INFJs are empaths, and a lot of us are HSPs (highly sensitive people), and also, we are feelers. All of this means that the chances of us feeling emotional overload are highly probable. How then can we deal with it better? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Ch...

Are INFJs Mean, Kind, Nice Or All? And What About Karma?? 22.01.2019 13:05

INFJs are kind, but not necessarily nice. And there's a difference between being kind and nice. But we are not mean. Also, my opinions on karma. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect...

What Is The Difference Between A Healthy And Unhealthy INFJ? 21.01.2019 12:29

A viewer asked me the difference between a healthy and an unhealthy INFJ, and I thought I would answer the question with an episode, as I always do. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to con...

INFJs Have High Standards For Themselves And Others 21.01.2019 11:00

It's okay for INFJ to have high standards for themselves, but it's not okay for them to have high standards for others. Especially without informing the other person what their high standards are. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https:...

INFJs Are Hypersensitive To Clothing Tags And Fabric 21.01.2019 11:35

INFJs are always extremely sensitive to the tags on their clothes, and the fabric that their clothing is made of. Thank God for tag-less clothing brands. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want t...

INFJ Females Are Highly Masculine In Their Thinking 21.01.2019 15:07

I usually don't get along with women my age, because I find them to be too feminine and girlish. I can't handle that. I'm too masculine in my thinking to be around that femininity or girly-ness. That's pretty typical for INFJ females. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low month...

These Episodes Are Also For All Future INFJs Not Born Yet 21.01.2019 10:24

I ask you all to comment and share your opinions not just for us but also for all of those future INFJs and viewers who are not yet born, and who will watch and listen in the far away future. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit...

Victoria Asked - Is The MBTI System Causing INFJs To Stagnate? 21.01.2019 12:01

A viewer asked me if I agreed with Bryant Chambers' view that the MBTI system is causing INFJs to stagnate, to stay stuck in their little bubble.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to...

INFJs Spend Their Lives Being Censored By Everyone 21.01.2019 13:07

INFJs spend most of their lives being told that what they are feeling, thinking, doing, and believing is wrong. It's the worst form of censorship.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to...

INFJs Don't Like Noisy Clothing, Noisy Shoes, Or Noisy Foods 21.01.2019 12:05

To say INFJs are hypersensitive to noise is an understatement. We do not like anything that is noisy, and I mean, anything. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - be...

INFJs Don't Like Adding To The Pain Of The World 21.01.2019 11:40

As INFJs, we already know how much pain there is in the world. We do not want to add to it, by causing any being suffering. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - be...

Is Being In High School A Waste Of Time For INFJs? 21.01.2019 9:34

A viewer who is in high school messaged me recently saying that she feels that everything she's doing in school is a waste of time. How should she be dealing with it? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  ...

Here's How To Be An Introvert In An Extrovert's World, INFJs 21.01.2019 11:57

This world we live in is an ESTP's world. So how can we as an INFJ survive and thrive in a world like this? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below are some way...

INFJs Can Definitely Do Group Work In School - This Is How 21.01.2019 10:35

Group work is a form of torture invented by an extrovert who hated introverts. How do I deal with group work? Especially being a really major introvert...  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you...

How Can An INFJ Like Me Travel To So Many Noisy Places? 21.01.2019 13:22

INFJs don't like noise. They are not good with noisy places. Noisy places terrify and drain us. Then, how do I travel to so many Asian countries? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connec...

How Do INFJs Deal With Past Trauma In Relationships? 21.01.2019 12:42

Many INFJs, I believe, don't get into relationships because of the trauma they have gathered from past relationships.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - be...

INFJs - This Is How I Deal With Procrastination And Get Over It 21.01.2019 13:11

Many INFJs deal with procrastination on a daily basis. I have been able to beat it a little bit by doing these interesting things.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me...

All INFJs Deal With Loneliness At Some Point In Their Life 21.01.2019 12:14

A viewer asked me recently about loneliness and if I had ever been lonely. Ha, I thought to myself. He should ask me when I wasn't lonely because it has been such a part of my life. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvi...

Some Advice To Younger INFJs From A 35-Year Wiser Me 21.01.2019 9:00

A couple of younger INFJs asked me if I would have any specific advice for younger INFJs, specifically from my perspective. This is my response. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect...

Self-Love Is An Absolute Game Changer For INFJs 21.01.2019 9:39

As soon as I learned to love all of myself with all of my quirks, and oddities, that's when things really began changing for me. A self-love is a powerful tool for all INFJs.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvit...

INFJs Love To-Do Lists And Checking Things Off 21.01.2019 9:13

I love creating to-do lists. Even more, I love crossing things off my list. INFJs are list-creators and list-lovers. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with me further - below are...