Boom Shikha

The INFJ Whisperer

Society EN ↓ 912 episodes

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-li...

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Boom Shikha

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Dating An INFJ - Should You Msg An INFJ Who Is In Their Cave? 09.02.2019 11:36

So many non-INFJs who are dating INFJs message me asking about how often to message an INFJ when they go into their cave. Or if they should just leave us alone while we are in there. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulv...

INFJs Are Great At Compartmentalizing Their Emotions And Feelings 09.02.2019 11:42

INFJs have their own special process of dealing with their emotions and feelings. That’s why they come across as unfeeling or emotionless because they might not show their emotions right away after an event has occurred. They still need time to process it and deal with it, and they will usually do that in the quiet of their own solitary cave and space.  Thank you for listening!  I have j...

A Balanced Healthy INFJ Has A Better Connection With His/Her Intuition 09.02.2019 10:33

Without balance, and without proper self-care routines, an INFJ can easily slip and fall into the abyss of burnout and exhaustion, which means that their intuition will work less effectively. And thus, they will end up getting less information from it. Which is always a bad thing, overall. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can acc...

Are INFJs Perv Magnets Or Do We Just Attract Broken People? 09.02.2019 10:59

A viewer asked me if INFJs are perv magnets because she ends up attracting creeps all of the time. I wondered if it was actually true that we are perv magnets, or that we just attract broken, pathetic, sad people because they are attracted to our strength and depth and light. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my...

Atmosphere, Like Energy, Is Crucial To An INFJ 09.02.2019 12:30

Just like energy really affects an INFJ, the atmosphere really affects us as well. We need to start paying attention to the atmosphere of places we visit asap. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you...

INFJs Are Naturals At Dealing With Crisis Situations 09.02.2019 12:18

INFJs have this natural talent for dealing with crisis situations. We are able to go into this Zen state of calm when everyone around us is panicking or stressed out. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  ...

A Brief Guide On How To Get Started With Journaling, INFJs 09.02.2019 12:20

Journaling is such a life-changing practice that I wish everyone could take it on. In this episode, I explain more about how to get started with it, if you've never done it before. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvit...

Here's How To Deal With Narcissistic People In General, INFJs 09.02.2019 12:08

Does anyone else feel like narcissism is becoming an overused and overrated word that doesn't mean anything anymore? Here's my opinion on how to deal with narcissistic people (and parents). Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.l...

What Are Some Great Conversation Starters To Get INFJs Going? 09.02.2019 12:04

A non-INFJ asked me this question - what are some great conversation starters for me to get an INFJ interested in chatting with me? Such a great question.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you...

Please Stop Asking INFJs Why They Are So Quiet All The Time 09.02.2019 10:08

This question really annoys me. Why do people care so much if we are quiet? Why??? I really wish people would stop asking us this question. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect with...

INFJs Can Set Up Successful New Year's Resolutions This Way 09.02.2019 15:28

A viewer asked me about New Year's resolutions and how to set them up properly as an INFJ. These are some of the ways I do it, and so hopefully it helps you guys as well. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nb...

INFJ Males Are More Feminine Minded Than INFJ Females 22.01.2019 16:48

I did an episode previously about how INFJ females are masculine-minded in the way they deal with the world. In this episode, I wanted to cover the other side of the coin - how INFJ males are more feminine-minded. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it ou...

INFJs Behave Like INFPs Under Stress, And INFJs When Normal 22.01.2019 12:13

So many INFJs messages me confused about whether they are INFJs or not because they behave more like INFPs rather than INFJs. And this is the answer I give to all of them. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &n...

INFJs Are Socially Awkward, And We Know It Very Well 22.01.2019 10:45

INFJs are socially awkward, because we don't understand social etiquette, and we are confused about how to be around other humans. Thankfully, we know we are socially awkward. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins...

INFJs Do Not Let People Be Unkind To You, Stop That Madness 22.01.2019 11:01

In a recent YouTube live, I was talking about how INFJs have this tendency to let people be unkind to us because we think we deserve it. It's wrong, and we should stop that right now. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soul...

INFJs Feel Much Disappointment In Themselves And Their Lives 22.01.2019 10:58

INFJs have high, high standards for themselves and what they want to achieve in their life. Thus, we feel a lot of disappointment in ourselves and our accomplishments often. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2...

INFJs Come Across To The World As Innocent And Naive 22.01.2019 10:58

I don't know why, maybe because of our intense stare, or our naive hopeful way of looking at the world, but we come across as innocent to the world. It's so far from the truth, I think.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit...

INFJs Are Not Good At Chatting On The Phone, It's Torture 22.01.2019 10:53

I am absolutely horrible at chatting on the phone because I don't understand how to do small talk, and so I get confused, and I want to run away. Why do people love to chat with us INFJs on the phone? It's a torture instrument to us. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthl...

INFJs Can Only Create An Impact Here In This Real World 22.01.2019 10:59

INFJs love, love spending time in their heads. We think there's no place better than our own head, our own imagination, sometimes losing sight of the fact that there is a real-world out there, with real people, and real connections to be made. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a...

INFJs Are Hermits And Live Almost Entirely In Their Heads 22.01.2019 11:35

It's an odd thing to be an INFJ because we don't actually live in this real world. We spend almost all of our time in our heads, in our fake, imaginary worlds. We are hermits, reclusive, and hiding from the world. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it ou...

INFJs Don't Realize How Much They Actually Know 22.01.2019 11:19

INFJs have a tendency to spend all of their time in their heads, in a fake, imaginary world. But, we cannot make an impact there. There is no real impact made in our dreamworlds. Only in this real world. Out here.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check...

INFJs Have A Tendency To Make Snap Judgements About People 22.01.2019 11:01

INFJs make snap judgments, mostly because we trust our intuition, and we just sense things about people without knowing why or how we know what we know. Is this a good thing? Or bad? Let's chat about this.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out...

INFJs Really Don't Like People Who Need To Be Spoonfed Everything 22.01.2019 11:17

Because INFJs are so freaking independent, we have this intense desire to be around other people who are independent as well. Who doesn't need to be spoonfed everything, as if they were a little baby, who can't do anything on their own? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low mon...

How Can We Create Better Boundaries As An INFJ? 22.01.2019 12:35

INFJs can become codependent really fast if we don't create proper, strong, and infallible boundaries with the people around us, especially the people who are extremely needy, and demanding. Here's how to do so. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out...

INFJs Don't Feel Happiness For Common Societal Reasons 22.01.2019 12:32

It seems to me that because INFJs have a different radar on why they do things and how they do it, and for what reason they do it, we don't feel happy for the same kinds of reasons as most people do. Interesting isn't it?? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Ch...