The INFJ Whisperer

INFJ Psychic Premonitions, in my opinion, should be kept to ourselves, and not shared with the world, because that’s just too heavy a burden to put on someone else. A lot of times the things we predict are negative, and I would rather keep all of that negative news to myself unless it has the potential to truly hurt someone physically. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online c...

INFJs think constantly about how they can improve their little sliver of the world. We want to keep on improving our environment, our world, our personality, our relationships, and everything else. It is our desire to be in a state of continuous improvement.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, boo...

INFJs are generous with their money. We have this general sense of unworthiness that says everyone else around us deserves the money more than us. So if someone with a need asks us to lend them money, we will do it, without thinking twice about it. It’s actually quite a problem. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of...

INFJs are sentimental about their stuff. We are not big on materialism, but when we love something of ours, we really truly divinely whole-hearted love it, and care for it. I’ll share some examples that prove this crazy point. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price...

INFJs give tailored compliments because they want to ensure if they are going to give a compliment that it’s something related to the individual and not just something generic. We won’t say, I like your shoes, but we shall say, I love the shoes you are wearing, they go really well with your entire outfit, and you are able to walk really well in them. Thank you for listening!  I have just star...

INFJ Idealism vs. INFJ realism - we are always battling within ourselves between these two extreme sides of ourselves. We want to live in our ideal fantasy worlds, but a lot of times, we have to make adjustments to it, using our realistic side. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a...

INFJ's self-esteem rises up high when we are on our own, doing our own thing. But as soon as we get around other people, for some reason, it starts to deflate again. Which isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at ...

INFJ expects to be abandoned. They just expect it. It’s definitely not a good thing. Because it makes us mistrust new people that enter our life, and that means our relationships are always very tumultuous and likely to fail because we are expecting them to fail. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, book...

INFJ Restlessness - we have this weird thing about being innately restless. Not only can we not sit still, but we also have this weird desire to always keep on moving either countries, condos, or concerns. It’s our restless nature that keeps us moving constantly towards growth. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of m...

INFJ Childhood - it’s quite interesting how INFJ children can be quite strong and independent. They have this independent streak in them and this inner strength that causes them to want to do things on their own, even things that other typical children would need help with. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my co...

INFJ Embarrassment - we feel more embarrassed for other people than we do for ourselves. Second-hand embarrassment is such a big thing for us. We care too much and everything hits our heart directly, which means we can feel embarrassment for someone else for hours on end when they themselves have probably forgotten all about it. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online communit...

INFJ Solitude - it’s something that is part and parcel of who we are as INFJs. We bring our solitary nature into everything we do and everything we love. You can’t take this solitary nature out of us.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&nb...

INFJs Introverted quirks are many. They might seem like extroverts, but they are definitely not extroverts. They like to spend time on their own and they recharge by spending as much alone as possible. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  h...

INFJ dating is so complicated and annoying sometimes. We have this tendency to give and give and give in relationships, and we always feel like we are taken advantage of because the other party never ever gives back in exactly the same way that we give to them. Therefore, we feel that relationships are sometimes skewed unfairly. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online communit...

INFJs are bipolar in the way they live in this world, or that’s what it seems like. We oscillate between two different extremes. We are either way too humble, thinking that we are nothing, and smashing our egos to the ground. Or we are way too prideful, thinking that we are the next messiah. There’s, of course, no in-between with INFJs. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online...

INFJ relationships problems? Non-INFJs in relationships with INFJs always ask me this question - how do I know if my INFJ has the door slammed me or if he/she is just chilling out in their cave, withdrawing from the world for a few days/weeks/months at a time. In this video, I delineate the difference between the two and how to spot which stage your INFJ might be in. Thank you for listening! ...

INFJs will remember the oddest of details about your sister’s daughter’s boyfriend’s cousin. But we will forget the slightest of details about ourselves, like the last time we ate, or took a shower, or had our medicine. Therefore, we need to write this stuff down, so we can remember it, for the sake of our health.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called...

Freedom is absolutely and primarily an INFJ’s primary value. We live by and die by this value. Everything that we do, every decision that we make, every relationship we get into, is based on this primary value of freedom. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Che...

INFJs have this weird thing about being abandoned by a loved one for someone else. They live in this constant fear of not wanting to share their loved ones with anyone else, because there is a limited amount of love in everyone’s heart for them, and if they are not careful, everyone is going to fall out of love and leave them. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community...

INFJs have recruited themselves into this job that is the seeking of answers. We are seekers at heart. We know that there are many questions relating to life and why we are here. What is our purpose? Why now? Why here? And we are constantly trying to find more and more puzzle pieces to solve the mystery that is life. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Sou...

I notice for myself and other INFJs, that we become more and more introverted, and spend more and more time in our caves as time goes on. As I get older, I am losing my interest in bs more and more, and thus, I spend increasing amounts of time by myself, happily doing my own thing. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all...

INFJs are rather clingy, and possessive when they get around the people they love, or care about. Our favorite people are ours and ours alone, or rather, it should be that way. But of course, it never works that way in real life, and you have to end up sharing your favorite people, annoyingly, with others around you. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Sou...

INFJs absolutely hate coming across as needy and wanting. That's why whenever we encounter people who are needy, or clingy, we run in the opposite direction because they remind us of our shadows. Of that part of us that we dislike. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly...

INFJs have an obsessive personality in more ways than one. And this manifests itself in our clothing buying behavior as well. Once we find an item that we like, we tend to buy several of them so we have backups. But in case, we made a mistake and didn’t buy enough quantities, we will search for that perfect item until the end of eternity. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an onlin...

INFJs get attached to people rarely. And even if we do get attached, we just let go of them as if it were nothing, and that makes us come across as cold and unemotional. Almost robotic. Which is far from the truth. But this coldness and non-attachment make us repel people, and thus, we end up being lonely. Which is a tragedy. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community c...