The INFJ Whisperer

Straightforward people like INFJs think that straightforward means you can do and say whatever you want, as long as it's honest. And that's a surefire way to lose friends and relationships. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.l...

I'm gonna do things my way - rules are meant to be bent or broken, according to INFJs, who don't understand why certain rules are even in place. They question everything. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 &nb...

Intimacy issues after trauma - all INFJs being human have this innate desire and need for intimacy, but we fight it, to the death. Why is that? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connect...

Why am I filled with hate? Vee Wallace asked this question in the Boom Shikha INFJ FB group, and I thought I had to absolutely take the time to answer this question. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   I...

Everyone should be included, as much as possible, because any kind of exclusionary behavior is bullying and discrimination according to INFJs. We absolutely dislike that sort of behavior. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/...

Introverts can party too, and INFJs as well. We just need to be able to plan out our alone time before and after. That way we know that we will get our recharge time sometime after the event and we have nothing to fear.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price....

Disappointment comes from fallen expectations, and our idealistic view of the world keeps on breaking apart and hurting us in the process, INFJs. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2   If you want to connec...

Spend time understanding others - by interacting with them, and guessing their MBTI type, INFJs. In this video, I share exactly how I guess with high accuracy what other people's type would be. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://b...

Stop making it complicated, INFJs. Even though we would like to believe that everything about us is related to our INFJ nature, some of it just isn't. Sorry to break the bubble! Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitami...

We don't follow the herd - INFJs like making their own decision on why they would purchase something or support someone. We like to think critically, rather than follow the sheeple. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvi...

Loneliness is just a word, and a lot of people end up using loneliness as a sort of shield or identity. I don't know about you guys, but for me, loneliness is definitely not my biggest problem. The destruction of the planet or finding out my life purpose is higher on that list, for sure. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can acces...

A chaotic mind like ours, INFJs, truly needs an extremely organized outer world. If our inner world and our outer world were both chaotic, it would be too much for us to handle. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bit.ly/soulvitami...

Harmony over conflict, that's the name of the game for an INFJ. We care ultimately about maintaining a peaceful environment, which might mean avoiding confrontation, and conflict as much as possible. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  htt...

When people aren't meant to be in your life, they will leave automatically. It is as if there is a self-filtering system on, which will eliminate everyone who isn't meant to be in your life, INFJs. So don't worry about people leaving you. It's a normal process of growing up. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my c...

Humour is the best medicine, not only to heal ourselves but also to create strong bonds between us and people around us, INFJs. It's a tool to use to bring people closer to you, especially in our awkward shy manner. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it...

Mimic body language to make people like you, that's what all of the gurus tell you. But INFJs inadvertently mimic other people's body language without even thinking about it. It comes naturally to us. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  ht...

Leave your job without guilt, INFJs. For some reason, INFJs have immense guilt or shame about leaving an organization or a job. Why is that? Why can't we do something that's best for us, without thinking about the good of many? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly pric...

How to stop over planning - remember that even if you over plan for everything, it won't change the fact that life will sometimes, always, throw curveballs at you. That's a major learning for INFJs. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  http...

Bullying isn't cool, everyone seems to know that, but for some reason, INFJs are targeted hard by bullies, haters, trolls, and all of those kinds of people. Why? And how can we deal with them? Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at  https://bi...

INFJs have high sex drives - this is something you will experience as an INFJ, or read about in INFJ forums/posts online regularly. But for some reason, we have been taught to feel shame about this.  Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at&nbsp...

Authenticity matters absolutely and utterly to an INFJ. We spend our entire lives, searching for more and more of our true selves, so we can learn about ourselves, and then present it to the world as a present. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out a...

Crying is natural. It’s a natural outlet for humans to let go of any and all accumulated emotions in our body, heart, and mind. Do not hold yourself back. Get a good cry in now and then to really cleanse yourself. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it ou...

Stop doubting yourself, you are good enough as you are, INFJs. You don’t need someone else to tell you that you are right, in order for you to be right. If you think you know the answer to something, or if you believe you are right, then you probably are, so go along with your gut feeling, and stop doubting yourself. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Sou...

A solid life purpose builds confidence in an INFJ because with a solid life purpose in hand, we know exactly why we are here on this planet, what we are supposed to do with our days and minutes, and we don’t feel like we are wasting our lives and precious time on this planet. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my...

Love and hate people - we have this weird tumultuous relationship with people as INFJs. We are in a love-hate long-distance relationship with them, and we really don’t want to get out of it, but we don’t want to stay in it either. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly p...