The Hello Someday Podcast For Sober Curious Women

Do you ever feel like you’re doing everything right—working hard, showing up for everyone, holding it all together—yet you’re still exhausted, anxious, and secretly wondering why it never feels like enough? In this episode, I’m talking with Trevor Hanson, coach and founder of The Art of Healing, about anxious attachment—how it shows up in high-achieving women, why it fuels people-pleasing and over...

If you’re doing Dry January (or you’ve been sober-curious for a while) and you keep wondering, “Okay but… what’s actually happening inside my body when I stop drinking?”—this episode is for you. I’m sitting down with registered dietitian Jennifer McDaniel, founder of McDaniel Nutrition Therapy, to walk through a real-life healing timeline from the first week to the one-year mark—including why many...

Happy January 1st—and happy Day 1 of Dry January (if you’re doing it). I love that this episode drops on the very first day of 2026 because if you’ve been thinking, “I can’t do another year like last year…” this is your sign. In today’s episode, I’m joined by two of my favorite humans (and two of my best sober friends): Gill Tietz from the Sober Powered Podcast and Suzanne Wayre from The Sober Mom...

If you’ve been feeling that little tug inside — the whisper that says, “I want more than this… I deserve more than this…” — this episode is your New Year wake-up call. Because here’s the truth: So many high-achieving women spend years building a good life… and then wake up wondering why they don’t actually feel good in their lives. Work, kids, marriage, mental overload, never-ending to-do lists, s...

Everywhere you look there are sparkly drinks, holiday toasts, “you earned it!” messages, and friends or family who don’t quite get why you’d want a Sober Christmas or a Sober New Year. So what can you actually do to stay centered, grounded, and alcohol-free — without feeling deprived, boring, or like you’re ruining everyone else’s fun? I’ve got you. I recorded this episode to hold your hand throug...

If you’ve ever said, “I want to change” — I want to stop drinking, I want to leave this job, I want to stop people-pleasing, I want to feel less stuck — but you keep waking up in the exact same life…this episode is for you. Sobriety isn’t just about putting down the wine glass. It’s about learning how to live like you actually give a damn about your one life — instead of living on autopilot, numbi...

If the thought of getting through Christmas, Hanukkah, or New Year’s without a glass of something in your hand makes your stomach drop a little… you are not alone. Feeling anxious about how to stay alcohol-free during the holidays is totally normal. For a long time, I knew I should stop drinking, but I couldn’t imagine office holiday parties, family celebrations, and New Year’s Eve alcohol-free. I...

So many of us stop drinking and then realize, “Oh wow, my relationship with my body and with food is really complicated too.” Maybe you’re thinking about what you eat all the time, swinging between being “good” and “off the rails,” or feeling like you need to weigh less, eat less, or control more to finally feel “enough.” In this episode, we’re talking about intuitive eating and attachment styles...

If you’re staring down your first sober holiday season—Thanksgiving pies, Hanukkah candles, office parties, Sober Christmas, Sober New Year—and thinking, “how am I going to do all of this without wine?”, this episode is for you. You do not need alcohol to survive December. You need a plan, a few scripts, and permission to make the holidays work for you. I asked Kim Kerns, author of On The Edge of...

If you’ve ever felt the ripple effects of alcohol or substance use in your family, you’re not imagining it—one person’s drinking can shake the whole system. I’ve been on both sides of that story: the woman who drank a bottle of wine at night and the partner trying to rebuild trust and rhythm at home. I’m talking with Lisa Katona Smith—founder of Parallel Recovery, author of Parallel Recovery: A Gu...

If you’ve ever walked into a family visit stone-cold sober and immediately felt your shoulders creep up to your ears, you’re in the right place. In-laws, expectations, and the mental load can be… a lot. Especially when you’re trying to stay alcohol-free and not soothe every tiny (or not-so-tiny) jab with a glass of Pinot. In this episode, I asked Dr. Tracy Dalgleish—clinical psychologist, couples...

Let’s be honest: the decision to go into a treatment program can feel terrifying. You’re juggling work, kids, a million invisible tasks—and the idea of raising your hand and stepping away (even briefly) can feel impossible. What if people judge you? What if your boss notices? What if your partner uses it against you? What if the moms at the bus stop whisper? Here’s the truth I wish someone had tol...

If you’ve ever poured a glass of wine thinking “It’s fine—it’s heart-healthy!” you’re not alone. For years we’ve been told that “moderation is key” and that red wine is practically a wellness hack. But what if that’s not the whole story? In this week’s episode of The Hello Someday Podcast, I’m talking about something every woman deserves to know: the real link between breast cancer and alcohol—and...

If you’re trying to get (or stay) alcohol-free and your partner is still drinking, I see you.  It’s already hard to change your own habits—doing it while someone you love keeps pouring a glass can feel impossible. In this conversation, I asked Zach Brittle—licensed mental health counselor, Certified Gottman Therapist, Relational Life Therapist, host of Marriage Therapy Radio, and author of The Rel...

Have you ever quit drinking, looked around your life, and thought, “Wait… is this it?” I get it. Sobriety cracks you wide open. Once alcohol is out of the way, the things you’ve been tolerating suddenly become louder than ever. Without wine to numb the edges, all of that becomes impossible to ignore. And that’s not a bad thing — that’s your invitation to find your purpose in sobriety. In this epis...

Do you and your partner keep circling the same money arguments — budgets, spending, saving — and somehow end up frustrated, shut down, or resentful? You’re not alone. Money is emotional (because… humans), and in sobriety those emotions aren’t numbed out anymore. The good news: you can break the cycle, learn to talk about money without blowing up, and build a financial plan that actually matches yo...

If you’ve been thinking, “I’m not that bad… but I’m also not okay,” this one’s for you. Today I’m talking with my dear friend Suzanne Warye—creator of The Sober Mom Life and author of The Sober Shift: A Modern-Day Guide to Living an Abundant Sober Life—about why sobriety can be less about “rock bottom” and more about reclamation. I asked Suzanne Warye, author of The Sober Shift, to share how to st...

If divorce or co-parenting has you thinking “this could drive me to drink,” you’re not alone. Separation brings anger, resentment, logistics chaos, and a whole lot of nervous-system fireworks. Alcohol can feel like the quickest off-switch — but it doesn’t solve anything, and usually makes you more anxious and less steady. In this episode, I’m talking to Scott Pinyard — former Head Coach at This Na...

If you’ve ever felt like you’re the one who keeps the peace, says yes to everything, earns the gold stars, and never wants to disappoint anyone—even when it means abandoning yourself—this episode is for you. There’s a name for that pattern, and it’s not “being nice” or “just how you are.” It’s called fawning. Fawning is a trauma response—right alongside fight, flight, or freeze—where you people-pl...

If you’re in your 40s or 50s and wondering why your body feels like it’s changing overnight, you are not imagining it. One minute you’re juggling kids, work, and family life—and the next you’re wide awake at 3 AM, drenched in sweat, moody, and exhausted. Welcome to perimenopause. 👉 Perimenopause is the transitional phase before menopause when estrogen and progesterone levels start fluctuating (so...

One of the most common questions I hear from women who stop drinking is: “What happens to my marriage if my spouse still drinks?” If your partner was your “drinking buddy” for years, it’s natural to wonder what changes when you decide to go alcohol-free. Will you lose connection? Will intimacy or date nights feel different? What if your partner doesn’t want to quit? In this episode, I asked Kelley...

If you’ve ever wondered what really happens after you quit drinking — not just the “before and after” highlight reel — this episode is for you. I’m sitting down with Clare Pooley, author of the memoir The Sober Diaries: How One Mom Stopped Drinking and Started Living, to talk about her first 365 days alcohol‑free, how her life transformed, and the surprising truths she learned along the way. For t...

If your sex drive has gone missing, your body feels like it’s betraying you, or you think that wine is the only thing that can get you through the mood swings, hot flashes, and insomnia of midlife—this episode is for you. I asked Dr. Kelly Casperson—board-certified urologist, hormone and sex expert, and author of You Are Not Broken: Stop Shoulding All Over Your Sex Life—to break down how perimenop...

Do you ever wonder why you really drank? Not the surface reasons (like stress, fun, social pressure, or the witching hour), but the underneath stuff—the big and small things you were trying to avoid, numb, or cope with? In this very special episode, I sat around my kitchen table with five incredible women who work with me in my Sobriety Starter Kit private member community—Marriott, Katie, Jess, H...

Do you remember the last time you said, “I can’t keep doing this?” I do. But at the time, I didn’t realize it would be my last Day One. I just knew I couldn’t go on like that anymore. In this deeply personal solo episode of The Hello Someday Podcast, I’m sharing the story of the week that finally broke the cycle for me—the last time I drank, the moments I wish I could take back, the shame and exha...