Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini

The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

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Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants? We know how this feels. Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again. Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.

Author

Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini

Category

Society

Podcast website

heroichusbands.me

Latest episode

Jul 9, 2026

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Episodes

265: The 4 Mental Patterns Husbands Use in Marriage to Energise Themselves…. But Only One Leads To Happily Ever After 03.10.2025

The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll recognise the signs your thinking has shifted to one of the three connection eroding mental patterns. 2. You’ll have clear access to the ultimate mental pattern that will create connection, trust and attraction on repeat for years to come. 3. This new awareness will empower you to go from conflict to clarity...

264: How To Avoid The 4 Major Potholes Where Husbands Blindly Destroy The Progress They’ve Made in Marriage 26.09.2025

The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll know how to recognise these potholes and avoid destroying the progress you’ve created 2. You’ll learn the one mindset trick that golfing legend Jack Niclaus used that set him apart from all other competitors that you can use to enter legendary husband status 3. You make a massive step in overcoming your only...

263: This Is Probably the #1 Most Effective Marriage Transforming Strategy You’ll Ever Hear About 19.09.2025

The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll learn the one major strategic difference between great masculine leaders in any arena and the pretenders who never reach their leadership potential. 2. You understand why if you want to ever feel freedom and fulfilment in marriage you simply CAN’T ignore this strategy. 3. You’ll learn how to access arguably...

262: 10 Simple Ideas To Create Rapid and Radical Progress in your Marriage No Matter How Bad Things Seem Today 12.09.2025

The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll have a super simple yet comprehensive playbook to start winning in marriage today. 2. You’ll learn the highest leverage ideas all my private clients use to create massive transformation in a week. 3. You’ll feel a rocket boost of hope knowing that you have the power to change your marriage for the better. Wa...

261: The 5 Oppressive Married Life Pains Husbands Are Silently Suffering And Need Relief From That Wives Rarely Understand 05.09.2025

The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll feel validated and less alone that your inner world emotional pains are pretty much universal amongst husbands. 2. You’ll be able to put words to the background lack of fulfilment you experience and find a powerful solution for it. 3. You’ll understand you are never locked in Same-Shit-Different-Day permanen...

260: How To Use 2 Simple FBI Hostage-negotiator Strategic Empathy Techniques to Bring Your Wife from Irrational Rupture Hell to Grounded Rational Repair You Can Understand and Connect With 29.08.2025

The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll understand the distinction between masculine and feminine integrity practices helping you take nothing personal ever again. 2. You’ll know how to embrace any emotional intensity your Queen throws your way and exactly what to say to help ground her. 3. You’ll know a strategic trick to use everything your wife...

259: 1 Question To Help Unlock Your Wife’s Kindest and Most Encouraging Feedback and Help You Create Meaningful Progress She’ll Love and Appreciate You For. 22.08.2025

The three specific benefits you'll gain by listening to the end of this episode are : 1. You'll know the highest leveraged question a husband can ask his wife in marriage. 2. You'll know the best timing to ask this question to get the maximum brownie              points from asking it. 3. You'll know the exact follow up that is required to maximise the trust you build by       asking the question....

258: How to Use The 10 Key Masculine and Feminine Differences Between Husbands and Wives to Confidently Create Connection and Attraction 15.08.2025

The 3 benefits you'll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You'll understand, acknowledge and accept the beauty of marriage is knowing how to allow each other be uniquely different. 2. You'll know the two precise strategies to use to inspire your wife to bloom into hot feminine fullness with you. 3. You'll know how to channel your masculine mission for freedom in meaningful ways br...

257: The #1 Most Sexually Attractive Thing A Husband Can Say That’s Guaranteed To Relight The Marital Sexual Flame Today and For Years to Come 08.08.2025

In this episode you'll discover t he #1 Most Sexually Attractive Thing A Husband Can Say That’s Guaranteed To Relight The Marital Sexual Flame Today and For Years to Come The 3 Benefits you will gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1- You’ll learn the one thing all female authors of romantic novels make sure their male protagonist says and thinks about sexually relating with his partn...

256: "Marriage Transformation Heroes Special Series" with Alan and Karoline 07.08.2025

In this special episode, you will get to witness the precise strategies and mindset that Alan has used in his marriage transformation journey with his beautiful wife Karoline. The benefits you will experience by listening to the end of this episode are: - Learn Alan’s detailed inner process going from shutdown and conflict to repair and reconnection - You will understand from Karoline’s amazing ar...

255: How To Stop Being A Weak Feminine Pleasing Mr Nice Guy and Set Safe and Strong Boundaries Your Wife Respects 01.08.2025

In this episode, you'll discover How To Stop Being a Weak Feminine Pleasing Mr Nice Guy And Set Safe Yet Strong Boundaries Your Wife Respects The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:   1. Understand the two ways husbands avoid setting boundaries that erode trust, connection and attraction. 2. Learn how to set boundaries with your wife that allow mutual conne...

254: 2 Things You Must Do Together To Help Your Wife Relax And Surrender Into Your Leadership and Listen To What You Have To Say 25.07.2025

In this episode, you'll discover 2 things you must do together to help your wife relax and surrender into your leadership and listen to what you have to say. The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You will have 2 high leverage precise challenges that will let you know exactly what to do beyond this episode to have your wife trust your leadership like ne...

253: 5 Easy Steps To Embodying A Trustworthy Secure Attachment Style No Matter What Dysfunctional Attachment Style Has Eroded Trust Until Now 18.07.2025

In this episode, you'll discover the one practice you need to know to start embodying a secure attachment style, no matter what dysfunctional attachment style you have had until now. The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: - You’ll know exactly what response to take at the first signs of conflict….husbands that struggle don’t know this simple practice.  - Y...

252: An Easy 2-Minute Progress Building Communication Habit To Create A Sense of Confidence and Connection No Matter How Distant Your Marriage Feels 11.07.2025

In this episode, you'll discover a daily progress building communication habit that can be done in 2 minutes flat. The 3 marriage transforming benefits you'll gain by listening are: - Gaining a high leverage connection habit you can fit in the busiest of family schedules - A simple tool to focus you and your wife's awareness on the things that are going well - A daily habit guaranteed to build mom...

251: The 3 Levels of Masculine Maturity Wives Meet in their Husbands When Trying to Land Their Feminine Feedback…2 They Hate, 1 They LOVE!!! 03.07.2025

Embracing your wife’s feedback is possibly the single highest leverage way to winning at the game of marriage as a husband. Almost nothing surpasses the feeling of trust and connection within a wife when her husband appreciates and honours her feedback as the gift it is. Yet there’s also almost nothing that triggers a man’s subconscious wounding more than trying to receive his wife’s feedback! Thu...

250: The #1 Hack British Olympic Gold Rowing Legends Can Teach Us About How To Be Ultra Decisive Husbands All Day Every Day 27.06.2025

In the run up to the summer Olympics In Sydney 2000, the British rowing team had failed to win gold for over 88 YEARS! Like most husbands, they had a long history of their good intentions never being good enough.   Determined to finally change the story, they based their entire training preparations on one simple clarifying question. This one simple tool allowed them to decide what was going to le...

249: Marriage Transformation Heroes Special Series with Tara and Duane Kennedy 26.06.2025

We welcome in Tara and Duane Kennedy to tell their heart-warming story of marriage transformation. From the depths of pain and hopelessness that things could ever improve, Tara and Duane let us know the insights and strategies driving their stunning turnaround. Tara gifts us many profound insights into the challenges a wife experiences when relating with a well-intentioned but emotionally unsafe h...

248: 10 Ways Stoicism Will Help You Kill Victimhood and Master Your Mind and Marriage 20.06.2025

The quality of your marriage matches the quality of your thoughts . Learning to upgrade the quality of your thoughts is your path to the most epic marriage you ever believed possible. Stoic philosophy might be the most powerful vehicle to take you there. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Sel...

247: The 3 Attachment Needs to Instantly Ease Tension in Marital and Parenting Conflicts With Zero Need to Say Anything Clever 13.06.2025

Most of us husbands have a trigger happy impulse to try and fix conflicts at home with rational solutions.....that rarely work!!!! In this episode you will meet the three human attachment needs and how to use them at home that will change how you look at conflict forever. In conflict, effective communicators are not trying to change the mental state of others. Instead, their focus is on changing t...

246: 10 Ideas To Break Up Mundane Marital Boredom By Unleashing Your Freedom-Loving WILD Man 06.06.2025

Unspoken boredom and helplessness while feeling stuck in the Same-Sh1t-Different-Day reality of married life is killing marriages around the world.    The answer: One badass husband unleashing his WILD man energy to shake the marriage to it’s foundations and rebuild a marriage of excitement, fun and inspiration.    This episode is for you if you’re ready to live the infinite game of married life!!...

245: Why Not Giving A Sh!t About Your Wife’s Happiness Actually Inspires Her To Love and Trust You More Than Ever Before 30.05.2025

We’ve been conditioned in this profoundly sick society to deny ourselves our own needs as men and over-prioritise meeting the needs of the women in our lives. This pattern started in childhood as we related with our mothers. As it seemed to work in childhood with our mothers, we subconsciously bring the exact same pattern into marriage…. to devastating and very often marriage-ending effects. This...

244: The 6 Most Unsexy and Untrustworthy Mistakes Husbands Commonly Make When Trying to Save Their Marriage 23.05.2025

Every husband listening in to the podcast has great intentions. Yet great intentions are useless if you are unwittingly making one or more of these common yet catastrophic mistakes. If you want the peace of mind knowing that your efforts in marriage are making a difference, this episode is a must. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Persona...

243: These 3 Simple Yet RARELY SPOKEN Words Form The Single Most Impactful Phrase a Husband Can Speak To His Wife…(it’s NOT What You Are Thinking) 16.05.2025

There are three words in the English language that hold enormous power to help you transform your marriage with your wife.   Coincidently they are also universally the least spoken words by husbands in marriage. The more disconnected your marriage situation, the more powerful these words are. They are not the words, “I love you”. These three words are infinitely more impactful. When spoken sincere...

242: End Suffocating Self-Doubt In Marriage By Activating These 6 Dormant Superpowers Every Husband Has But Rarely Uses 08.05.2025

Ever experience self-doubt in marriage? Being a husband and father is the most challenging leadership position on the planet…. Of course you experience self-doubt! Fact: Every husband on the planet experiences self-doubt at times. However, most husbands lock their self-doubt away and try to just get on with life pretending it’s not there. This doesn’t work. Ever.   The rare few who learn how to tr...

241: How To Confidently Inspire Your Wife To Stop Flirting With Other Men 02.05.2025

Nearly every husband has been there. Seeing your wife feeling radically alive, eyes lit up, loving life, laughing and letting loose… but in the presence of another man. All her behaviours fall into the category we call flirting. But what is the most powerful way to intervene in this awkward, disconnecting situation? This episode gifts you the code to obliterating the competition in any social even...

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