The Feminist Dating Show

This week, Lily serves up some real talk about why it might be time to bid farewell to dating advice from your coupled friends. You'll hear why it's crucial to take the reins of your dating life and stop relying on well-meaning but misaligned advice from friends in relationships. In this episode, Lily encourages you to set boundaries with friends who may unintentionally trivialize or patronize you...

Have you ever wondered what questions to ask when you first meet someone? This week, Lily unpacks why qualifying/disqualifying questions are the ultimate game-changer and can transform your dating experience from emotionally exhausting to intentional and amazing.  In this episode, Lily shares the ONE question that will revolutionize how you vet potential partners, ensuring you never waste time on...

Feeling hopeless or panicked about in-person dating? Then, this episode will motivate you to prioritize your desires and step into the path of opportunity to create a juicy in-person dating life. Today, we are getting into the ins and outs of the Brazen Breakthrough and how it changed the game for member Chloé.  Chloé opens up about what has been happening in her dating life and how she has been s...

Prepare for an epic episode of the Date Brazen podcast, where former Brazen Breakthrough client Maya opens up about her rollercoaster journey through self-discovery and empowered love! Join Lily as she and Maya dive deep into intentional dating and the power of co-creating relationships.  In this episode, you'll get the scoop on essence-based preferences and how Maya turned her dating game around....

Lily is sharing her complete guide to finding love on a dating app. You'll hear how dating apps can help expand your social circle, help you get to know your dating personality, your triggers, and how to take care of yourself.  Lily drills down into her fiercest, most direct dating app advice so that you can find more success on a dating app while preserving your mental health and finding joy in t...

Pre-Order Lily's book- "Thank You More Please" HERE This week, Lily peels back the curtain on the journey of writing her book, "Thank You More Please: A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love." Lily shares the vulnerable moments, the highs and lows, and the transformative process of birthing this creative endeavor. Get ready for an intimate conversation about the unconventio...

Have you been wanting to start that next big project or creative hobby this year? Get ready to ignite your creative flame with this episode featuring the hosts of The Spark File podcast, Susan Blackwell and Laura Camien! Lily is thrilled to welcome Susan and Laura to the show, together they dive into a candid conversation about creativity and overcoming perfectionism. In this episode, Lily opens u...

How was your year? How have you grown?  In the last episode of 2023, Lily shares her epic year in review, sharing some of her favorite brags and lessons. As you listen, we invite you to do the same - reflect, practice self-compassion, and celebrate your most cherished brags.    Lily also answers listener questions, revealing insights into how she stayed grounded, who supported her through the chal...

Have you ever found yourself in a dating rut, unsure how to break free and progress? The key to moving forward is within reach. If you're feeling paralyzed, questioning where to begin, or navigating the uncertainties of being single, the solution lies in identifying your essence-based preferences. In this episode, Lily shares the essence-based preferences tool that empowers you to attract the most...

Hello, gorgeous friends! This week on The Date Brazen Podcast, Lily is diving into a simple 4-step framework to help you escape comparison mode in your dating life, especially during the holiday season.  Whether at a holiday party or hanging with friends, dealing with triggers from engagement stories or past relationships, this framework will help you get into more massive, messy, courageous actio...

This week, Lily welcomes female friendship coach and educator Danielle Bayard Jackson to the show!  As the founder of Friend Forward, Danielle is dedicated to empowering women with practical strategies for building and maintaining meaningful platonic connections. Lily and Danielle explore pressing topics such as common barriers hindering sustainable female friendships, establishing healthy expecta...

This week, Lily addresses questions she's gathered from her TikTok community, centered around navigating the holidays while single. She delves into the complexities of solo celebrations, sharing her hottest takes, fiercest encouragement, and spiciest support. Whether you're wondering how to handle prying relatives, seeking advice on thriving as a solo adventurer during the holidays, or craving sol...

Financial therapist Aja Evans joins Lily this week to discuss money and your dating life. The conversation is meant to inspire you to take up space in your financial life, challenge limiting beliefs, and prioritize relationships that align with your values and aspirations. Aja is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who specializes in financial therapy. In this episode, she helps us understand the c...

This week, Lily welcomes Shirin Eskandani to the podcast! Shirin is a former opera singer turned coach who, in this episode, opens up about her quest for fulfillment beyond external achievements. From navigating the challenges of dating to discovering the unexpected depth of inner work in coaching, Shirin shares the transformative power that led her to pursue coaching with a commitment to inclusiv...

Farnoosh Torabi joins Lily on the podcast this week! Farnoosh is a leading financial expert, host of the So Money podcast, and author of So Money, Psych Yourself Rich, and When She Makes More. In this episode, she discusses the teachings and insights from her new book A Healthy State Of Panic, Follow Your Fears To Build Wealth, Crush Your Career, And Win At Life. The book (and this episode) illust...

Get ready for a healing and hilarious episode! Lily introduces a special guest who radiates "Main Character Energy" in every aspect of her life.  Devrie Brynn Donalson, the creative force behind the book, "You're Gonna Die Alone (& Other Excellent News)," unpacks her life-altering choices and journey. Devrie reflects on her inspiring journey to Scotland, her struggles with body image, and her purs...

This week, we're breaking down the journey to creating a dating life that's joyful, boundary-filled, and confidently your own. Michelle, a Brazen Breakthrough client, joins Lily for a fantastic conversation about how she went from dead-end dating to only great dates. Plus, hear how she learned to stop compromising her desires and find joy in all areas of her life.  🔥 Hot-Takes Alert! 🔥 Ever wond...

Lily is bringing you a bonus episode! If you missed her free live training, Create a Confident and Joyful-as-Fuck Dating Life , or want to hear it again - you're in luck! Today, Lily is sharing the entire training on the podcast. This training will help you build confidence, practice self-compassion and self-trust, and ease in your dating life. In this episode, you'll learn: How to create a fierce...

Anna joins Lily to share her experience in the Brazen Breakthrough (Lily's proven feminist as fuck group coaching program). In this episode, Anna shares what led her to join the Brazen Breakthrough and how it helped her feel supported, get unstuck, and stop panic dating. This episode is going to be so freaking good!  We're excited for you to listen to Anna's story. If it resonates and you are list...

If you think you are "behind" in your dating life, this episode is for you. Lily is going to teach you how to start dating with confidence.  Your "lack of romantic experience" is not a dealbreaker for finding love.  If you've never been in a relationship… If you've never been kissed… If you've never had sex… There's ZERO wrong with where you've been. There's only the invitation waiting in front of...

This week's episode is all about in-person dating!  Lily is sharing step-by-step how to build confidence and become the version of yourself who approaches people in person with empowered action.  This in-person dating lesson isn't meant to make you micromanage; it's to help you SHOW UP for your desires. The advice inside this episode will help you approach somebody in person in the next 30 days. Y...

Today, Lily is sharing an incomplete list (because the list just keeps on growing!) of the dumbest dating rules. She also offers her hot takes on how to break them. The "rules" covered in this episode include: Dumb Dating Rule #1: You have to be on a dating app to be trying Dumb Dating Rule #2:  Playing the numbers game - by constantly going on dates. Dumb Dating Rule #3: "Give them one more chanc...

This week, Lily takes you through the complete dating detox guide. This guide will help you release the pressure on your dating life and create more spaciousness and ease. A Date Brazen listener inspired this episode when they asked: "I have just decided to take a break from everything. Even though I'm good at taking this break, do you have any methods for healing or building back good feelings ar...

We are back with brand-new episodes! This week, Lily provides an in-depth and actionable coaching answer to the question, "Am I doing enough in my dating life?" Listen to Lily's take on why you may ask yourself this question. Plus, she shares ten suggested action steps that will help you create momentum in your dating life and lead to the right relationship.  "If you are not treating yourself like...

Over the next two weeks, we are inviting you to enjoy Date Brazen Spotlight episodes. We're dusting off some of the most listened-to episodes and sharing them with you! This week,  In this episode, Lily shares some exercises that can help you better align with what you desire.  "It doesn't take time; it takes alignment."  With this new thought, you move from a place of stagnation to one of action....