The Erotic Life Podcast

In this episode, I unpack the rapidly growing online phenomenon of Financial Domination (Findom) and look closely at where healthy BDSM play ends and harm begins. Many men, both gay and straight, who find themselves in distressing, financially straining online cycles believe they are participating in a true Financial Domination/Financial Submissive (FD/FS) dynamic. However, genuine BDSM requires e...

The Erotic Currency: Findom, Straight Men, and Gay Desire w. Dr Joe Kort The clinical world and broader culture often panic when sex and money collide, confusing the dynamic with addiction or exploitation. In this episode, I sit down with renowned sex and relationship therapist Dr. Joe Kort to pull back the curtain on the clinical room and explore the hidden world of financial domination (findom)....

I am very excited to share my recent discussion with Dr Douglas Thomas, author of The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink. In this episode we discuss his Soul-Centred Approach to BDSM. To do this, we we first examine BDSM through the Historical Lens to understand how past societal views shaped modern perceptions. We then shift to the Person-Centred Lens to look at current psychological views on indiv...

Like many psychotherapists, my practice is deeply centred on the concept of integration : the work of bringing the fragmented parts of ourselves together to feel whole. Yet, in that pursuit, we often neglect or suppress the erotic part of our identity. Join therapist Sergio Rebelo, as he meets people who have learned to embrace their erotic selves and bring that authenticity into their daily lives...